Member Since: August 23, 2007
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Last Update: December 16, 2007
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me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8, (link)
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k look - you said not to judge you, & that's not what i'm doing so just remember that. even though a ton of people have already answered this before me & made perfect since, i'm going to tell you anyway. you are freakin 13 years old ?! that is absurd. at 13 i barely even knew what sex was. i don't think you are pregnant, & i hope you aren't but you should learn from this. it sounds exactly like he didn't respect you at all, & that means that you shouldn't be with him. but you have been with him since you were 11 ? um, ok - i defnitely think you need to take a second & re- think some decisions you are making or you probably will be pregnant at least by the time you are 16. & although you probably won't listen to me, you sound so ridiculous asking this, at 13 .. grow up please.
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My boyfriend fingered me in the butt hole. It kind of freaked me out. . . is this normal for a guy to do? (link)
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it's completely normal , guys do it all the time. some girls like it, others don't. it's definitely not one of my favorites so if it's like that for you then just tell him!
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ok well the thing is i cant tell my dad the reason why i cut myslef because the time whne i was 5 my dad dont even know about i never told anyone up until last year and then last year when i was raped i never told my dad and only a few people know about it and he made a threat that if i told he would hurt me and so now i am scared if him and what will happen if i tell and i have tried my councler at my school but it didnt help it just made me feel like really bad...........i know i may seem like a drama queen and i am making a big deal out of this (thats what people tell me when i tell them) but it really is a problem and i really want to stop but i cant (link)
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first off, you don't seem like a drama queen whatsoever. you have been through a lot so you are in no way over exaggerating. but now i understand that you can't tell your dad. but is there any possible way you could still somehow get into some counseling? not the one at your school- cause like you said, that doesn't help. but maybe if you see a professional you could really be helped. i am really concerned for you because you probably know, you are putting yourself in so much danger. i use to cut myself, and i had to go to a rehab type thing and now i would never dream of doing it again. so do you think you could go see someone ?
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ok everyone when i was about 5 we had a guy live with us and well he raped me like all the time and then just last year i met some guy online and i thought i really loved him but when we met he raped me and then my dad got really sick and well i got into a big emotional breakdown and i was always depressed and i cut myself alot and well now im not so depressed but i cant stop cutting i dont know why but when i try to stop everything comes back to and the longer i keep cutting it is like everything is ok but i know its not and i have days where i everything is ok and i dont remember any of it but then the next day it hits me like !!POW!! i mean i will start to break down crying and well i cnt stop cutting and my dad found out and when he sees them he gets upset and then he gets sicker but no matter what i do icant stop i need to know what to do if anyone is willing to give me some advice i would really love it thnx
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i am extremely sorry about what has happened to you. you definitely did not deserve that - no one does. but cutting yourself is not the answer to your problems hun. believe me, once you start it and get it in your head that it helps solve things, you're going to keep thinking that. but it solves absolutely nothing. i really think that you should talk to your dad first off, tell him whats going on and that you want to stop. maybe he could help you get into seeing a phychiatrist.. i think it would really help. but if you continue what your doing it's not only going to make your life miserable and the people around you that love you, but you are putting yourself in extreme danger. please take all of this into consideration. i'll be praying for you. if there is anything else, feel free to ask. good luck girl
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this a new song that has been playing on the radio and I just heard it, and I was wondering if anyone knows the name of it.
It goes something like this,
"she got her own house, she got her own car, 2 jobs work hard you a bad braw.(I-N-D-E-P-T, do you know what that mean? (letters spelling out)
and ppl are saying 'aw' and the end alot, really hard.
I tried my best, Help!
Thanks to anyone who helps. (link)
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independent by webbie :]
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honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16? (link)
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whenever you feel that you're ready- then it's fine. but just make sure you don't rush into things and screw up the rest of your lifee. :]
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i am 13 i do gymnastics 20 hours a week and i dont have my period yet will that effect it?! and i am scared it will happen at gymnastics are there any signs!?! helppp (link)
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i was exactly the samee.
since you do so much activity you will probably start a little later than most people. but it's perfectly normal. and im pretty sure you will be able to tell if you start at practice but most likely you won't. good luck girl !
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hey does anyone know the name of the song that goes
"I wish you'd set back from that ledge my firend
and i will understandddddddd
and i will understandd
haha thanks so much (link)
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it's Third Eye Blind by Jumper. :]
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i want to give my boyfriend head.
im just not exactly sure what he likes.
you are supposed to put a lot of tounge rite?
and kind of pull the skin with it?
any tips you can give me?
im a little nervous but i heard it comes naturally..is this true?!
thanks! (link)
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it actually does come natural. i never believed that until i found out myself. you are supposed to use a lot of tongue and focus on the tip and make sure not to use your teeth. theres no reason to be nervous because if you are in doubt of what to do then your boyfriend can always give you tips on what feels good and stuff. good luck !
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How old should i be to have it (link)
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you can only answer this question. some people feel strongly about waiting until marriage- while others just say when you fall in love. people are starting to have sex younger and younger these days and it comes with a lot of emotional and a lot of times physical problems. so just wait until you feel like it's time. but if you have even one doubt about it then i strongly suggest you wait until your old enough to understand everything that comes in the package of sex.
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I am 14 and never have had a boyfriend nor kissed a guy . Is this bad?
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it's completely fine. i really don't understand why younger kids these days are worrying so much about this kind of thing. you will have a boyfriend and will be kissed im sure manyy times in your life so dont worry about it- your time will come and you have plentyy of it :]
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13/f
do girls still have sex even if they have their period? (link)
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yeah but you have a higher risk of getting pregnant so i wouldn't !
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If someone fingers you are you still a virgin? (link)
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most definitely!
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When you wax your upper lip, would it grow back really dark if you only did it once? (link)
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it will normally just grow back the same. but not like darker or thicker.
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alright so heres the situation.
im 15/f and pretty sure im pregnant.
i havent told anyone yet except my ex boyfriend.(we broke up a couple weeks ago)
if i keep the baby, people will think of me as a slut and whore and my relatives would probably not be supportive at all, but if i got an abortion i might feel guilty and i might regret it later in life.. but im 15 my ex boyfriends almost 18..but hes really calm about it and we would probably get back together if we decided to have it.. but i really dont know. but anyways i want to know other peoples view on abortion. (link)
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i def. feel that you should keep the baby. there will be many many life changes but think about how unfair it is to that baby. it will be your own child and i think you will have so many regrets if you kill it. hopefully you will be able to talk to your mom or relative and they will help you out on everything. this is my opinion that i feel real strongly about so please just think it through before you make your decision. good luck with everything.
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Okay well im going into 9th grade and my boyfriend is going into 7th. And hes just not like a little kid. Hes so mature and so sweet, and i really like him, and hes always there for me, but i was wondering does anybody think that its weird that im dating a 7th grader? (link)
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yeah thats a bit of an age difference but if you really like each other then who cares if its weird. it sounds like yall are good for each other so it doesnt matter!
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What are some places to shop at besides
- department stores
- forever 21
- hollister, ae, aero, abercrombie, etc
- deb
I know thats not really specific, but I'm trying to find some unique places to shop (16/f by the way) for a different wardrobe
PS please don't say check out your local mall, I already have...Thank You! (link)
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wet seal has really cute clothes! i also love to get cute shirts and dresses from victorias secret. and im not sure where you live but we have a store called painted pink that is so cute! hope this helps!
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I love using black eyeliner. I dont do it very dark or anything though. However after like not even like 15 minutes its already wearing/comming off and smudging. Any suggestions or any brands that work all day long? No links please! thanks :] (link)
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laura mercier eyeliner works great! and it stays on alll day long! hope this helps!
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so all of the boys at my school are so preverted. is that normal for boys or are they just like taht around me? (link)
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it's pretty normal. some guys do it to show off and others are just like that. but sometimes they are some of the fun ones to be around. give them a chance. lighten up, and have some fun =]
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Everytime I shave "down there", I get bad itchy razor burn. Even when I use a ton of shaving cream! Sometimes I'll shave and everything's okay for the first half hour, then the razor burn appears. I don't want my boyfriend to be grossed out! What's a good way to prevent razor burn? Or a fast way to make it go away faster? (link)
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well it really helps to use a lot of shaving cream when you shave. afterwards its always good to use lotion and that should help a lot. but everytime i shave i use something called spa blue over the bump. you can get it at bath and body works or some store like that. you put it on after you shave and it prevents razor burn and works really well! hope this helps!
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