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taking advantage of me
My boyfriend is taking advantage of me and threatens to hurt me if i don't make-out with him or have sex with him and i'm still a virgin but i don't know how long i can hold out for!
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you should not break up with him just stop answering his calls or even talk to him. cause this has happend to me,
just ignore him every where u go even in school, stay with your ffreinds as much as you can and if it gets worst you have to go to an adult! i no it sounds stupid but it breaks down to that, just tell him you lost your phone or something
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it worked with me hopefully with you
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Wow. I totaly know how you feel on this. Lets say iv gone through this type of situation before. ANd i know how hard it is. And i know what i am going to say now and what the people below me said is gonna sound like crap and too hard to do just take it into consideration. SO i had this boyfriend. And in the beginning it was amazing he meant everything to me. But i didnt know he was lieing to me. We were sitting in his car one day and he started feeling me up. ANd im like stop im not in the mood. And he said think again if you dont do what i tell you to...he pulls out a knife and he said then wel do something else i dont think youl appreciate as much. So of course i was scared as hell and i did what he told me to. This continued throguh about six months. After that i wasnt a virgin anymore which i regret with everything i have. So one night i was tired sick and done with his shit so he was in the mood ha and i wasnt giving in so he pulled the knife out and i said go for it your not getting it from me tongiht and he didnt have the balls to after that i felt like i could do anything and i broke up with him. Sadly after he kept satlking/threatning me. so i had to get a restraining order. but wow after that it felt like a brick was let off my shoulder. I had way more respect for myself. Now i know its gonna be hard but just take it step by step and tell someone let somone help you with it. I wish you the best. Hope everything works out
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first of all, a guy that treats you that way is selfish and DOESN'T deserve your love. taking advantage of you and threatening you is not LOVE. love in one aspect is RESPECTING the other PERSON. you held out for too long and you gave yourself enough time to see any changes of him. but no, he's taking advantage of you and THREATENS. girl, just break it off immediately, this shows the first sign of relationship violence. don't let this progress any furthe,...because threathening grows unless you take up the responsiblity and break it off.
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Stop speaking to him. Tell him its over. If he tries anything, tell your parents first, his parents second, and a school counselor 3rd.
Actually, check that. Tell your parents NOW, his parents, the school counselor, and then ignore his ass.
Also, warn any girls who might be interested in him what he does and what he threatens. He is a predator and you dont want to be the one he decides to fuck with.
Do not ever tolerate a guy treating you this way. There is no reason to put up with it, he isnt your boyfriend if he is threatening you.
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He should not be treating you that way, he obviously doesn't care for you in the sort of way you should be cared for, if he treats you like that, he doesn't deserve to have you in his life. You can talk to him and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that if he keeps treating you this way, he's gonna loose you pretty quickly. No one deserves to be disrespected like that, you deserve better:)
Hope everything goes well.
Always here,
<Guidance Girl>
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Who would want to "hold out" for someone like that anyway?
He can either stop as of NOW, or you get rid of him. It's not a healthy relationship and if you ever feel threatened/pressured, it's time to get out before something DOES happen.
Probably not what you want to hear, but it's true.
Do the right thing.
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No guy should ever pressure you or threaten you to do anything that you're not comftrable with and you should not let him. You need to tell him to eather stop or end things with him because a realationship like that is going no where. He can't tell you what to do and you shouldn't allow him to eather. Talk to him nicely about it and if he doesn't change, break up with him because it's not worth it.
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