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Last Update: April 22, 2008
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im very active, cheerleading and track most all year round. i say that i get exercise 5 days a week and on weekends at times. i have spider veins on my calf and a few on my high thy. i dont know why becuase we learned in biology its from inactivity but thats not my problem. everytime i look their seems to be more! its nasty, any advice? (link)
i have spider veins too!
it's also located in my calfs and thighs.
you're sitting on your legs too much or applying too much pressure on those areas. [cheerleading and track]
when i don't apply too much pressure and sitting properly, those veins disappear.
and take warm baths and don't rub constantly on them when taking a shower.


whoever out there..somebody: I need help! REcently I just started cutting again because I have done it a little bit in the past. I reall want to stop but I don't really know how. I just don't approve of myself and it feels as if my life is going downhill. I need some advice and if anyone out there has done this before and quit- please tell me how you did it.
Thank You! (link)
think deeply and ask yourself, why is your life is going downhill? what did you do tthat cause you to feel that way?
whatever it is, no matter how big or small, forgive yourself.
it's no use meddling yourself with the past or the present in any case and remember cutting just hurts your further, physically and mentally.

the more you cut, the more you get into the process and thus lead to damage.
i've cut before and i stopped because there's so much things in life that you can look forward to.

yes, there are obstacles in life and that's the joys in life. learning to overcome those and passing the next stage.

i remember still about all those obstacles i have to push through. i keep telling myself that if i cut, the pain would remind me of something surreal and maybe, i can cheat myself out of my situation. but that won't work.

you're a wonderful person, if you want to believe or not, and you could only be the person to save yourself. one obstacle will never kill you, it'll only build yourself up.
for those people that let themselves down, there are ALWAYS different paths, NOBODY how dark it is down the tunnel.

i've been there and i'll be there to watch you come back.


I really hate my ex. I usually just ignore him because he's not worth a second of my time. However, lately he's been spreading nasty rumors about me. It's frustrating because by denying them, it only makes people think they're even more true. You know? Gahh! It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do about it. Help? (link)
ignoring might sounds very hard to do and very tiresome to do it repeatedly but it's the best choice.
well, first of all, you should scream out and vent out all your anger onto something such as your pillow. just punch, scream, kick, anything to let everything go.
your ex is being a bitch about it and if you show signs of weakness toward him and succumbing and passing alongn rumors, it'll only turn nasty. be the bigger person and ignore that s.o.b and pretend he's somebody smaller than you. remember, he's only 1 person out of a billion guys out there. and he's just one retard that want to "prove to the world" about something by making you feel bad.
is that all he has?
will you let him ruin your school time and as well as life by listening to him?

yes, it's hard to let it pass but slowly, time will erase his sorry ass from your memories.

and f*** everybody else that believes him. what do they know about you anyways?
what could they do? look at you bad? talk behind your bad?
they're wasting their own time thinking about those rumors and relying on it to make them feel better.

talk it out with your friends and let it all out. it always help.
and i'm always here if you need more feedback.


Usually I try not to wash my hair everyday because it really dries it out but lately I find that the next day my hair is really flat and it feels really greasy even though it may not appear to be.

Do you know of any hair styles other than the ponytail, braids and buns that I can use for days like that?

What are some products that keep your hair looking fresh and feeling great or to help prevent this?

Thanks (link)
:)the perfect solution. use pantene pro-v thick and full [the black one] and use the conditioner pantene pro-v thick and full[black]. Dampen your hair, i mean, LIKE REALLY REALLY WET YOUR HAIR first. then apply enough shampoo that'll be like a medium sized puddle in your palm when trying to close your palm. Next massage your scalp and applying it and scratching your scalp near your [ears, back neck, sides and top] to loose away all lice, grease, oil andn other contaminated itmes. Then let your hair sit for 5-10 minutes. DON'T rinse off your shampoo. Afterwards, rinse off the shampoo and apply the conditioner. Let that sit for 5 minutes. Rinse, blowdry it and :)
I also recommendn you to layer your hair deeply. More hair on first top layer and less hair on lower layer, to create an illusion of FULLER hair :) that way, when you wake up, you really don't have to do anything because it's already shiny, full and ready to go :)


My boyfriend is taking advantage of me and threatens to hurt me if i don't make-out with him or have sex with him and i'm still a virgin but i don't know how long i can hold out for! (link)
first of all, a guy that treats you that way is selfish and DOESN'T deserve your love. taking advantage of you and threatening you is not LOVE. love in one aspect is RESPECTING the other PERSON. you held out for too long and you gave yourself enough time to see any changes of him. but no, he's taking advantage of you and THREATENS. girl, just break it off immediately, this shows the first sign of relationship violence. don't let this progress any furthe,...because threathening grows unless you take up the responsiblity and break it off.




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