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My ex-boyfriend
I really hate my ex. I usually just ignore him because he's not worth a second of my time. However, lately he's been spreading nasty rumors about me. It's frustrating because by denying them, it only makes people think they're even more true. You know? Gahh! It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do about it. Help?
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ignoring might sounds very hard to do and very tiresome to do it repeatedly but it's the best choice.
well, first of all, you should scream out and vent out all your anger onto something such as your pillow. just punch, scream, kick, anything to let everything go.
your ex is being a bitch about it and if you show signs of weakness toward him and succumbing and passing alongn rumors, it'll only turn nasty. be the bigger person and ignore that s.o.b and pretend he's somebody smaller than you. remember, he's only 1 person out of a billion guys out there. and he's just one retard that want to "prove to the world" about something by making you feel bad.
is that all he has?
will you let him ruin your school time and as well as life by listening to him?
yes, it's hard to let it pass but slowly, time will erase his sorry ass from your memories.
and f*** everybody else that believes him. what do they know about you anyways?
what could they do? look at you bad? talk behind your bad?
they're wasting their own time thinking about those rumors and relying on it to make them feel better.
talk it out with your friends and let it all out. it always help.
and i'm always here if you need more feedback.
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Been there.
Who cares what your ex says.
Who cares what people think.
Carry on denying anything that's not true and just get on with your day.
Your ex WANTS you to be hurt by it. He WANTS to get a reaction from you. He needs some form of satisfaction, as you broke up.
People won't think they're true just because you deny them. I'm sure they don't even care and they probably know he's just being spiteful because you aren't together any more.
Pretend it's not bothering you. Don't talk to him at all, just carry on and ignore him, okay?
He'll stop when he sees he's wasting his time.
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