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Hi I was thinking of getting my girlfriend a small present and a picture of us in a photo frame being part of it. Have any of you ever received or given photo frames as presents?Is it a good idea?
What sort of photo frame should I get?

Thanks for the advice, much appreciated :) (link)
I think thats a great idea , She would really like it,I think a silver one or perhaps a handmade one with a cool photo of you guys.


18/m

Hello there

Iv been going with this for just over 9 months and everything is just perfect. what started off as just friendship has turned into a crazy love for each other such that I can't see my life without her. I care A LOT about her and these feelings are mutual.

This all sounds good but then I just can't help thinking to myself, I'm 18 years old, I'm young, how can I possibly be in love,where could this relationship be possibly going. I feel at times that I should rather be living that commitment free life and that I'm missing out on a certain part of my life that I would never get back.

I'm just confused,love her,want to be with her,but yet still unsure
Help x| (link)
you need to ask yourself whether you are willing to just leave this relationship,and possibly hurt her in the process, cozyes, you are young,and love is a major thing


I'm 15 and have recently found out that I'm pregnant the guy wants nothing to do with it and i've been really stressed out about it, people keep saying you can hit yourself in the stomach and make yourself miscarriage is this true ? and what are the symptoms of miscarriage.. thank you (link)
DO NOT PUNCH YRSELF IN THE STOMACH.
right,now that that is out of the way...
i know ,u must be under a ton of stress.you 15..you never expected this to happen..but it is not the end of the world!About the guy..he has every involvement in this .he shouldve been more responsible to wear protection. i think firstly that if u havnt by now,then you should let your parents know.it might be extremely hard but once things cool down they will be most happy to help.i think you basically have 2 options.
1)get an abortion..now this depends on your beliefs and wheter it is legal where ever you living.if you do choose this one make sure you do it at a proper clinic or hospital etc.
2)it may seem a crazy idea that you going to be a mother at this young age but if that is what your heart desires then do it.i know it will be extremely hard but with the help of your family you will come through.

trying to inflict a miscarriage can cause you to injure yourself so please try and get some professional help as in doctors etc.

wish you the best



How da hell do you get thin thighs?????


How da hell do you get a flat stomach with a nice shape???


I dont wanna go to some crazy diets.. [they dont ever work for me]


And i love love love eating.. it makes me happier :)

I think i have an eating diorder though. I eat whenver i see something good in frnt of my face all the time...! Which i think is making me fatter and fatter..


But my main question is at the top of thid question (link)
the only wat to get thin thighs and a nice flat stomach is to do EXERCISE.you can do thousands of diets but if you dont exercise you will never get thin.ofcourse if you dont resist the urge to eat all the time then you will get fat.you need to get more self discipline and start eating well.it doesnt mean you have to start eating salads and fruits .there is other stuff which you can eat.but you have to exercise.its the most important.some things you could do is running,some swimming some cycling,and if you want to you could join a gym.

hope i helped


Ok, so, whenever I finger myself, and I don't have to pee, when it starts to feel really good, I pee...I think. It looks like pee. I don't know why I do it. And when my boyfriend does it, I feel like I'm going to, but we stop before I do. [That could be embarrassing] Is that normal?
Thanks. (link)
well i have heard of this happening.i think you should get checked out or ask a doctor .you could try making sure you like you go to the toilet before you like make out in that way you wont pee when you doing your thing.

hope i helped


14/f

This summer, at the end of July, me and my friends are going on a trip travelling around the Norfolk coast and staying in youth hostels. We need £200 each by that time. It's going to be fairly easy for me as I will have enough by saving my money, but some of my friends are also going to Spain and need money for that as well, so we need ideas of how to raise money, do you know of any?

Thanks, xxx (link)
hold a garage sale where you could sell old items .sell home baked like cakes and biscuits at supermarkets.

hop i helped


ok well i started talking to this boy a cuople of days ago and i really like him and i get the feeling he likes me too! but my friend just told me that one of her friends mentioned his name. and she said that she didnt get to bed till very late because they were texting.! but i dont know if he likes her o their just friends. or if hes trying to talk to both of us What do u think?. What should i do? (link)
well you shouldnt go for this guy yet as he could be playing you so you should tell your friend to try and get more information from her friendyou should start talking to the guy more and start texting him yourself and maybe even ask him if he has a girlfriend as he could be just friends.

hope i helped


Heyy

I was just wondering what lads get out of fingering a girl, like why do they want to do it?

thankyou xx (link)
well it pleasures a girl if done well and properly and it dont feel that bad for a guy to do it especially when seeing the girl moaning for more!

hope i helped


i need help! i think i have a crush on my teacher. He's in his early 30s, blonde hair. It's not a crush crush, just a 'i like to flirt with you crush' because i like his wife and his children are adorable. -It's just that i may spend extra time hanging out with this teacher, and he sorta jokingly pushes me and stuff. and we make fun of each other... this is weird isn't it..? im a senior (link)
this isnt wierd at all.i dont think you need to stop this behaviour.but if you decide to make a move and take it further it could get really weird and complicated because he is married.he is kinda like playing with you or like you could say playfuly flirting with you.if he wasnt married it would have been fine to take it further and there wouldnt be any problems but he is married and it could get bad for both of you if you did .

hope i helped


Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two months... and we love eachother a lot!

Im 15 and im a virgin. And he's not! He had sex with his last girlfriend (he says he regrets it because they werent ready). He hints at it sometimes, and i know he definitly wants to. He also said he wouldnt rush me into anything.

We make out a lot, and he feels my boobs and what not a lot. Its usually just fun...

But sometimes we get really passionate and i get really aroused and i want to have sex with him...

BUT im not on birth control yet, and ive never been to the gynocologist. And i dont want to because of its awkwardness and im really self concious about my body...

I have a few questions, answer me what you can...
sorry that theyre sorta rude...but i need to know.

1. My vagina has a lot of skinny flaps in it. And they sorta stick out and they look wrinkly and wierd. They remind me sortof of brains! It really grosses me out... Is this completely normal!?

2. My buttcrack has som hair on it...and i cant get at a good angle to shave it or anything. is this really gross or important at all?

3. Im scared to have sex with him because i know it will be akward and i have no idea what im doing. I dont think hes had sex too many times but i know he has. I want to make him happy but i dont know anything about sex! give me some tips!

thanks in advance. the more info the better (link)
1.yes it is normal as each individual women is different.if you still uncertain then you should talk to someone like a gyno.or even speaking to your mother or sister if you have a good relationship.

2.forgive me for being blunt but it would be much beter if there isnt any hair there .a guy would really want a girls butt to be nice and smooth or at least have no hair on it.well thats what i think.

3.well i cant really ,really tell you How to do it as that will take hours and i could get Banned. but as you said ,he had sex before so he will know what to do if you completely lost.well there is the kissing and touching which is a good way to start ,the getting undressed and some more kissing and touching .you could give him a blow job or even a hand job.and then there is the real sex where intercourse takes place.all the way through there is pleasure.you dont have to be qualified to have sex.it will come to you.JUST MAKE SURE YOU PROTECTED WITH BIRTH CONTROL AND CONDOMS.

hope i helped.


how can i get a bigger butt??
lol
15/f
my news years resolution is to gain weight this year
and my friend said i have no butt
so now i want one..lol... (link)
well there nothing better than having a nice ass.but you have to remember that you wont get it over night.well i heard that doing squats work and you must eat proteins and low carbs.

really hope i helped


hi. I'm 16 and i don't know how to put make-up! I'm not that girly kind but prom is in a few weeks and I still have no idea about the basics. Can u please give me a step by step procedure or suggest any sites that can help a lot!

--thanks in advance.. (link)
i would like to tell you but it will take long so go to

makeuptip.com

and go to this link

http://www.essortment.com/lifestyle/teentipsmakeu_sbzx.htm

hope i helped


I don't know if this is in the right catergory but ohh well it has to do with music.

Does anyone know when American Idol comes back this year?

I like that show but I really am wondering when it comes back!

thanks! (link)
it will be back on January 15.i also really love American idols


When a guy tries to scare you does he like you?
ok the guy i like well i don't know if he likes me or not but today a church i and another girl were painting and he comes up behind me and scares me ... and he tried to two times today and then he throw a ping pong ball at me ....and was making fun of me today...


well idk i really like him and i tried to get him to notice me but like he always seams like he's not into me ... but yet the one time i was upstairs today i was in the front of the church and he is playing the guitar and he stopped and looked at me a said jokingly " hey get to work ya i am talking to you ,,, gosh "

so if he does like me and i really like him what do i do ... i have church with him tomorrow morning ...


i am a girl and i am 17 he is 17 too (link)
this is a tough one so dont be dissapointed if you dont get much out of this answer .definately,it could mean that he likes you but there is no sure way to find out unless you ask him or tell some one else to ask for you if he likes you.you dont want to make a fool of your self by telling him you like him but he dont like you you.i think you should tell some one who you trust like a friend to ask him if he likes you.really hope i helped


ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her between them
it's been about 1 month that we have'nt been talking
and it's really awkward b/c we have the same friends
and i have 3 periods with her
and she's my only friend in that class
i don't know wat to do
b/c i'm sick and tired of dealing with her crap!!
and if you can give me any other advice besides making up with her that would help
b/c i doubt i will ever make up with her (link)
dont hate me for what im saying but i think it is stupid of you to end a 3 year freindship because she nods her head when you talk to her.put yourself in her place imagine if she just started ignoring you for a reason you cant understand,wouldnt you be confused and angry.i think you need to explain her why you stopeed talking to her.the only way you can save this friendship is if you talk about your problems.once again i tell you dont hate me for telling you this but it seems that this is somthing that can be saved


How can i get over a boy the i crazy about? (link)
seriously there isnt any way of just shutting him out of your mind if you like him.if he likes you then you should just tell him you like him and go out with him.if that is not possible then get yourself aboyfriend to stop thinking of him.also spend more time with friends to take your mind of



well i like the guy in my class.
we talk, and such.
if i look at him, he sometimes is looking at me, or atleast in my direction.

but like do guys try to show off or bring attention to themselves more if they like a girl,
like the kid who sits next to me at the end of class he comes over and is like how many pushups can you do, and then hes like show me, and then the kids like show me you doing pushups, so like they just go on, right infront of me.

and he smiles at me, and stuff.

and like his friend whos a sophmore always says that like the guy i like owns me, and he calls me like my name, and then the kids last name, and he says im his wife and stuff. idk
but like they joke around about it, and today his friend says woah better keep your wife on a leash, and hes like i will, but then he like paused and looked at me, and said but i wont hold it, or something like that.
does that mean anything?

like do i have a chance, and the whole, do they show off thing, do they?
and what are other ways a guy usually shows he likes you.

sorry if its long, and confusing.
thanks. (link)
Thos guy seems like he has feelings for you and he just isnt sure if you like him.if you do like him then you should tell him or at least hint at it,then see where it leads from there.definately , showing of is a way of showing you that he likes you as he is trying to impress you .he is also looking at you a lot and smiling at so that means he likes you or at least has some feelings for you.that is one way to show he likes you.i think you should take the chance and tell him you like him or ask him directly if he likes you.hope i helped


ok well my hair has been damaged by a hair straightener so today i went to this hairdresser and asked her for a treatment and she gave me something but then she told me to prevemnt hair damage to when u straighten your hair to put hairspray or some product first and then go over it with the hair straightener because instead of the straightener taking out the moisture and water out of your hair it is taking out the priduct do it protects your hair. I just want to make sure and know if it;s correct because the last thing i need is for my hair to be more damaged!! i'm sure she wouldn't lie to me but just incase! thanks in advance:) (link)
yes she is definately correct.you should use a spray for your hair whenever straightening it.make sure u use the right spray.ask the hairdresser which one as there a re many products that can be used.be sure not to just use any spray , it must be spray made for straightening or it could damage your hair more.but once again,she is correct.using a spray will help your hair


What is the 'g-spot' in your vagina, and what does it do? I feel really stupid for asking this, but i have to wonder. What does it do also?
Thanks in advance. (link)
the g spot is a place about 2 inches up the vagina.it creates great pleasuer when touched in the right way.it will definately feel good if some one fingers you the right way and in the right place.you should try it by yourself if you want to.this is just some basic things about the g-spot.i really ,really want to tell you more, but i could get banned so search on google and yahoo for g-spot


well i started talkin to this guy that told me him and his girlfriend that broke up .. and well he told me he couldnt call because his ex had his cell and wouldnt give it back.. so i said ok.. well he keeps sayin he really wants to talk to me tellin me im beautiful and stuff well so i looked up her myspace and his and he said that is Ex was livin in denial about them breakin up.. so she changed his password on myspace.. so on her myspace and his it still says they are together!
well and he told me he would come by 2day and give me my xmas and bday gifts and he stood me up
so he tells me we are datin and at the game tomarrow he will talk to me and everything but his ex will be there so idk if i should talk to him or not. Please anwser my Question.. (link)
girl for your own sake dont take this guy too seriosly because it looks like he is playing you.wait untill it is clear that he is not going out with anyone.then you could get together.you dont want to be caught in a break up of two people.stay clear for the time being because it seems like he is playing you




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