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love her ,yet still unsure
18/m
Hello there
Iv been going with this for just over 9 months and everything is just perfect. what started off as just friendship has turned into a crazy love for each other such that I can't see my life without her. I care A LOT about her and these feelings are mutual.
This all sounds good but then I just can't help thinking to myself, I'm 18 years old, I'm young, how can I possibly be in love,where could this relationship be possibly going. I feel at times that I should rather be living that commitment free life and that I'm missing out on a certain part of my life that I would never get back.
I'm just confused,love her,want to be with her,but yet still unsure
Help x|
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You are asking yourself some valid questions.
You guys are going to grow and change a lot over the ensuing decade, so to really commit yourself now could end up being kind of a mistake because everyone does need that exploratory phase in their lives or they live to regret it. Not only that, but neither of you will be the same person you are now and so what you want in a partner will evolve with that.
If you want to stay in the relationship now because you enjoy it then there is nothing wrong with that. But when you get into college I think it best that both of you become free agents and kinda get some more varied experiences under your belts.
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you need to ask yourself whether you are willing to just leave this relationship,and possibly hurt her in the process, cozyes, you are young,and love is a major thing
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