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wrong to go further with girlfriend? Hi
I've been going out with this girl for a while now, 8 months+ , and things are great, she's 16 and I'm 17, though I just like to know if its wrong to want to go further, we kiss but that's about it, I feel like perhaps its wrong to just ask her to go further or even like feel her up coz she's 16 and dnt wana be forcing things on her..I'm just not sure.
Thanks for the help :)
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Dude, just go for it. She isn't going to hate you if you try to feel her up once. In fact, she has to be expecting it. Don't ask her about it unless you want to start having full on sex and then you guys will have to decide what to do about birth control and find out what each of you like in bed.
Just whatever you do, do it gently and preface it with lots of kissing. ]
Your doing the right thing. she will let you know when she is ready to go further. Actually you will both know when the time is right.
It is never right for anyone to force someone else to do something before they are ready. You are showing a lot of maturity and respect which will be in your best interest as you go through life. You will do well to learn how these skills will help you in all aspects of your life in the future, not just in your love life, ]
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