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Should I stay with my currnet boyfriend or go go back to my ex?
Well my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago. Before we started going out we knew each other and he liked me once b4 (which was about a year ago). We went out this year for 44 days. I fugured out the real reason he dumped me is cause he wanted me to do it with him and I'm not like that at all and he knew that. Well and now I have a bf who i have been rele good friends with since the begining of the school year. Well i went walking on the beach and i went there with my ex and all the memories with him came back to me and i think i might still love him but i dont want to go back to him and having him try raping me but he can b rele sweet and just a great guy and i dont want to ruin the great friendship i have with my bf i have right now. Please help!!!
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I disagree with the previous comment. i dont know how old you are but from what i got out of it, you're pretty young. Too young to be thinking about sex (This coming from a 16 year old which is still to young in my oppinion.). You have your whole life to have sex. I really think you should forget about your ex. If he is trying to make you do things that is something you don't wanna do and he knows it, he doesn't really care about you and is just using you. However you current bf i can imagine is a better person. Just wait and stay with your current bf and see how things goes.
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You use the word "raping" and yet he can be "really sweet"? What does that say about your attitude toward sex and men? Think about it!
Look, you don't love him. You didn't go out long enough with him to develop real love. Human beings, just like animals, love the familiar. And you are familiar with the guy's attentions even if he got with you because he wants to bang you (and here is a news bulletin, btw, your current man wants to shag you rotten, too, but is too much of a pussy to admit it to your face).
I would also really encourage you to re-examine your sexual attitudes. There is nothing wrong with having sex, even if it is recreational. What you have to do is manage it in a responsible way. It isn't inherently dirty or degrading. Overthinking the sex issue is going to inhibit your enjoyment of it down the road, so you need to simplify your outlook and stop listening to religiously based double standard propaganda about the subject.
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