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Shy about calling him.
I have been talking to this guy for a while now, and he is extremely sweet, funny, and charming. I really feel like we connect. He and I share this same level of sillyness and quirkiness and I really like that. He is different from every guy I have known, although I am aware I have to be in his presence to really know him. Recently, he told me he really likes me a lot. And I feel like I like him a lot too. But there's a catch. He lives in Minnesota and is about three years older than me.
I think we have become very close since we first started talking. But I really wanna hear his voice. I really wanna call him. But I feel like I would bore him to death, but I also wanna learn not to be shy, too. How can I be a flirt in asking if he could call me and such? I was thinking, "I really want to hear your voice..."
Thanks so much!
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Hey,
Since you already have so much in common, trust me when I say: you won't bore him to death! As long as you can talk about your life, what interests you and have an input to what he says, you will have no problem :) To not be shy, you just have to take that chance, call him, and be yourself. Once you make that first call, you will see how easy it was to communicate and then you both will start wanting to make calls more and more - he will appreciate that!
Saying "I really want to hear your voice" is a good start. I'm sure he may say "and I want to hear yours"; give it a try! He already likes you for who you are and age is no problem as long as there is honesty and attraction :)
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