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STUPID FRIEND!!!
ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her between them
it's been about 1 month that we have'nt been talking
and it's really awkward b/c we have the same friends
and i have 3 periods with her
and she's my only friend in that class
i don't know wat to do
b/c i'm sick and tired of dealing with her crap!!
and if you can give me any other advice besides making up with her that would help
b/c i doubt i will ever make up with her
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it sounds like you don't want forgive her. she's either a crappy friend or it's something else. she might of had something on her mind for a while and then later on she realizes that you guys haven't been talking... there's so many reasons she could be doing this and whatver the reason is she might just need you to listen to her.
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Hey! I've seen this happen so many times and have been through it myself. First of all, it sounds like you guys used to be really close. I'm pretty sure that you guys got too close which happens in so many friendships. You can love someone to death but if you get too close you start to find annoying little flaws about this person and they start to get on your nerves more and more. Eventually every little annoying thing they do builds up. Also, it seems that what annoys you most about your friend is the fact that she acts like she doesn't care when you tell her something that you find interesting or important, which is annoying since she's supposed to be your best friend. This can get really annoying. She probably doesn't even realize that she's annoying you by not listening and doesn't even understand why you've been so distant lately. What I would do is take a break from this friend. You don't have to stop being her friend completely but just take a break for however long you feel you need it. Whether it be a month, or a couple months. You may not think so now but after a while you'll start to look back at all the good times you had together and will begin to forget her annoying flaws. Maybe before you take that break you should text her (so it will be less awkward) and explain to her the reasons you feel she hasn't been acting like a friend. After a while of seperation she may start to miss your friendship too and will be more considerate. Since you've already not been talking for a month, this may be what you need to do so she at least knows why your not speaking to her. She may still seem really annoying to you now, but I think that after a while, even if not best friends, you can be friends again. I know you said you don't want to be friends with her again but please try this first. If after a really really long time you still feel this way, just send the text anyway but stay distanced and eventually you'll just have to start hanging out with your friends seperately.
Hope this helped :].
Chrissabelle<3
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i think you should still be friends with her.
maybe not BEST friends right off the bat.
but at least tell her why you've been mad at her.
it seems kind of stupid to end a bestfriendship or friendship over something that could've just been a bad day/week.
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i have a friend just like that and if you dont want to be her friend anymore then just keep doing what your doing ignoring her but dont completly ignore her say hi and bye and maybe have a small conversation but small unuf or her to figure out that your a "boring" friend and she has to find a new better friend i think she is getting tierd of the relationship also and wants to stop too but dosnt know how and hopes that you will do somthing good luck i hope i helped
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Communication is key ... if you were doing something she didn't like and then she got mad and you didn't know what you did ... that would suck [ I know . Been there done that. ] Tell her how its bothering you and All that because like you said , you can't [ or it's very hard to ] avoid her.
Hope I helped ... inbox me if you need anything
xoxo
Stephiiii
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dont hate me for what im saying but i think it is stupid of you to end a 3 year freindship because she nods her head when you talk to her.put yourself in her place imagine if she just started ignoring you for a reason you cant understand,wouldnt you be confused and angry.i think you need to explain her why you stopeed talking to her.the only way you can save this friendship is if you talk about your problems.once again i tell you dont hate me for telling you this but it seems that this is somthing that can be saved
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