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i've been through alot during my 15 yrs of living. im adopted, i've been through rascistism because i'm chinese. i tell them i'd whoop them white ass faces with my kung foo skillz. i hate taking crap from people. i'm an outgoing person and love to make peopel smile or laugh. and i love it when they do the same for me. i'm a party grl and just love to have fun and not let anything stop me.i'm also a christian. i hate it when people shove religion down your throat. and i won't be doing that. i'm just statng the fact i'm a christian, it could or could not mean a thing to you. and if u wanna ask me about it or anything else i'm chill with that. i'm a really open person and whenever someone just wants to talk about anything i like respond and like to hear there opions. i don't like judging people but we all do it and we sometimes don't mean to but whats more annoying is when people treat you like crap when they don't know you. thats what bothers me the most. when you judge someone your pretty much saying your better than that person.
i'll take any advice from people if i think it's right and i'll give advice to people from my own experiences or knowledge
thats me
peace x god bless
girlwander
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Me and my ex-bestfriend were friends since last year.. Me and him just started really talking this year though. I would talk to him hours on end.. But we faught a lott. and i didnt know what to do. And he was a complete jerk when we did fight, and ALWAYS blamed the fight on me.. But I Liked Him Since Last Year, and i fell in love with him.. and after one of our bigger fights we were talking and he said he liked me. And i was soooo happy. Cuz I loved him.. i mean we would both say "I love you" like I love my crazy friend... but like, it ment more when i said it, he just didnt know it.. and a week went by,((he didnt want to be in a relationship)) and the next week, he stopped answering calls, and texts, and stopped wanting hugs.. and i was like... Fine.. And i asked him, why he even told me he liked me, when he knew that i liked him for two years, and he was just being a butt. And he said I had no reason to be upset.. and that I was being a bi***
did i over react? or is he really a waste of my time? b/c i gae back his necklace that he gave me, and everything.. so yeah, help?
well he said he likes you
doesn't exactly mean it'll go anywhere hun
sorry. X_X
okay so there is this girl that lives beside me and she fancyed me for ages but i didnt know because she had other boyfriends. she broke up with her two boyfriends, which are my really good friends. they are still friends with each other tho. so 2 weeks ago she told one of my friends that she likes me. so from then on i start liking her too. slowely we start gettin rli close..we start sayin \'i luv you\' and hugging all the time, joking sorta ;] she is always being upset around me but i think shes looking for me to hug her, so i do. then i cheer her up. so she used to run off with my skateboard to where our parents couldnt see us and she\'d give me a hug as im trying to take it bak off her. she says her parents pick on her alot more than her other sisters and brothers cuz shes d oldest. she got a new cat yesterday and me and my brother went in to look at it while her parents were out. we were in d sitting room with her and her sister and then she went out into the kitchen. i folowed her and when i got in she was sitting on a armchair crying.. i sat on the chair with her and put my arm around her. she held my hand and we just hugged 4 a while.. :p she told me she loved me. i told her too.. then her parents came home and we both jumped up (her parents didnt catch us) and they didnt mind me being in d house anyway, i just said i was lookin at d cat. her father had just come home from d pub.. when they came in she said hi and then she ran off.. all around the estate, so i tryed looking 4 her.. then i called her and she told me where she was. i went 2 her. she said that she hated her family. i talked to her for a min then i told her to come back home. she start walkin back with me and she held my hand. we really liked each other.. i told her i loved her again nd she said the same..my mam caught me holdin hands with her so i had to go inside to say that it was just a joke.. when i came back out she had gone inside and i didnt wanna call 4 her incase she didnt wan2 come out. my other friend came round to skate with me 4 a while so i was just playin with him for like 20 mins then she came walking down the hill towards us. i had thought she went inside, but she must of ran off again when i was inside. i tryed cheering her up because she was in a bad mood. it worked a bit. i hugged her and she hugged me back, she said i love you. then my friend (hes really funny) start tellling his funny jokes and she start laughing alot at him..i did too but is it natural to be jelous of your friend for being able to make her laugh lots when i couldnt? then i had to go in to study for 3 hours and she put her arms around my waist and said \'dont go in :[ ) but i had to so i told her i loved her and stuff so then i went in. i looked out d window and seen that she had gone out her back and my friend had gone home.. she was on her trampoline and i waved to her and blew her a kiss, she did it back to me. i then sent her a text sayin \'i miss you :[ :p xxxx ) (she had no credit 2 txt bak)because she was just lying there on her trampoline.. then i tryed calling out to her to see if she was okay and she ignored me, then i called her phone, she answered it and then hung up, then i text her saying sorry if i annoyed you i didnt meen to do whatever it was and if your not annoyd at me could you give me a small wave or something so i know tht you r alright. so she gave me a small wave and i said that ide see her later nd i mis her then i closed my window..nicely tho.why do you think she ignored me like that if she fancys me? im just wonderin because i hope tht dosnt meen she dosnt like me :[
aw what a cute story.
you are over analyzing things.
so dude relax she likes you.
maybe she thought that you were busy or someone else. lol.
There's this comedy group at our school, and auditions are coming up. We have to write a two minute monologue.
What are some topics I can write a hilarious two minute monologue on? I can't think of anything currently.
Thanks to all who answer.
UGLY STEP SISTER SPEAKS OUT
It isn't easy being the ugly stepsister. Everybody always feels so sorry for poor little Cinderella, but what about me? I deserve a little sympathy, too. Does MY fairy godmother ever turn up with a magic wand? Does the prince ever dance with me at the ball? Not on your life. The best I can ever hope for with my pumpkins is a decent piece of pie. And as for the rats, well, rats are rats, with their sneaky eyes and skinny tails, nibbling and gnawing at the garbage. I never saw one yet who turned into a coachman.
If you ask me, that Cinderella is weird. Certainly, she isn't normal. Besides the fact that she has naturally curly hair and wears size 4 1/2 shoes, she is so good-natured that it's downright sickening. If you had to dust and sweep and clean all day long, would you go around singing to the birds? Of course you wouldn't. No sensible person would.
A lot of people think I'm jealous of her. Maybe I am. And with good reason. I subsisted on seven hundred calories a day for three whole weeks before the ball. I did my leg-lift exercises faithfully. I got a perm and a facial and a manicure. I even bought a new gown. Blue velvet. Designer label. I mean, I was READY. PRINCEY, I thought to myself, HERE I COME!
And what happens? Little Cindy, who has never seen the inside of a health club in her life and who doesn't know the caloric difference between a carrot stick and a chocolate eclair, whips together a dress out of some old curtains from K-Mart, waltzes off to the ball and snags the prince.
It isn't fair! It really isn't fair!
i whant to mastrobate but i dont know if i should or should not so what should i do
i new a friend that masturbating when she was nine.
so don't feel bad. my mom once said " masturbate all you want and u won't get pregnant."
and masturbating is like self-loving. and theres nothng wrong with loving yourself, righT? :P
Alright, im 15/f, and my boyrfiend still hasnt talked to me. He and i got in a very big fight, but later on that night he called ne and said he was sorrry , and that he felt bad. I just dont know what to do anymore. We have been together for so long, but he lives across thee freaking country!! I never see him, and idk if he is cheating on me!! help
why don't you take a break?
i mean long distance relationships are hard to mantain. ask yourself "do i really trust him? is there any doubt in my mind that he could be cheating on me?"
i mean hun if he's a flirt or sizzling hot you got lots to worry.
Ok, here's the thing. At school I never be myself because honestly, I act really crazy at home and I'm afraid people are going to think I'm weird. What if they start judging me, or they don't like me? Should I just forget what they think and start being myself? And if I do, what if they start laughing at me?
be yourself is the best thing. i used to be like that until i met someone that being yourself is the best dang thing in the world! if people don't like you it's there problem not yours. and what if there laughing at you? it's there problem.
hey,
would you classify this as depression or something else.
*Wanting to be alone most of the time.
*getting really upset over nothing.
*self harming(cutting etc).
*not talking much when normally really social.
*pushing away friends.
*feeling excluded from people.
Etc. Etc.
Thanks heaps.
i'm having a hard time dealing with that too. some days are better than others...but then i did recently moved. but my mom did tell me that i'm just going through a difficult time and we look for pain to not feel...and we feel as though ppl we care about don't understand or help, so i guess we keep to ourselves
hi 14/f
ok i have been on and off with this guy and im over him well thats what i thought...he isnt over me he takes my pic that is on my best friends binder ok and he stole all of them and i was like freak and hes like why are you mad at me and he over reacts ok me and him have never kissed ok!and well he said he wanted to go to the movies with me and my best friend and her bf but her and her bf broke up!ok so he said well thats ok they didn't need to come i mean me and you would just makein out and what not so i laughed i thought he was joking so he asked if i wanted to go this Friday... but i have a date!kinda im meeting this guy i met on myspace!(don't say that i should meet this guy bc im not asking you that ok!!)well i told him i couldnt but what if hes at the movies when i go to meet this guy!i will feel really bad bc hes my best friend and i dont see him as a boy friend any more bc hes a player!like hes a realy big player!so im not in to him at all and i just can't say taht to him bc it will crush him ahh hes my bestie and i feelso bad about it!
i kinda think you should have him come with you to meet the guy you met on myspace.... i know that might not be a good idea. but i don't exaclty know your situation and also the guy your meeting might not be the guy he says on myspace.
so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person?
thats ironic that you hate girls but you are one and then you like a guy. then it's perfectly normal. you seem like the type that doesn't care what other ppl think really (especially girls) but then you seem like you don't exactly know what it is you are....
idk if this is helping..
well i have a boyfriend , but everyone says i just have a " flirty " personality . and people say i flirt when i dont even notice it. My boyfriends friends are all really hot but i mean i know where to draw the line at ya know . but i just dont want my boyfriend to get mad , we been dating for almost a year though , but i guess i flirt with alotta peoplE ? people say its just my peppy personality
any advice on how to like stop ? or catch my self
i think it's just part of your personality. you should let your boyfriend know that you like him only and that you won't cheat on him.
my advice you should just avoid guys COMPLETELY! or get a retraining order from all guys. just kidding.
Me and this guy went out for a month last year, but have been unofficially on and off for a year (last January till now). There is something about him, that I can not get over. And he likes me now. But for the past few months, he either rejected me and told he just wanted to be friends when i told him I liked him. Or he would be wishy washy (I like her, but i dont want to go down the same path since we went out b4). This weekend we were doing the usual flirting thing, but it was different. And when my guy best friend asked him if he liked me, he said yes he does. But he also said that he said no so many times before, for him to say yes now would have the other no's mean nothing. He also made the statement that he is not sure his pride will let him tell me now that he likes me. I think its stupid...but I dont want to let this go now that he actually likes me. I feel like if I get him to admit his feelings to me then the rest of his insecurites would be easier to tackle. I need lots of suggestions to start a conversation to get to this point (having us admit our feelings for each other). How to tell him that its going to be ok (technically I am not even supposed to kno he likes me, he told my best friend in confidence). I really want this to work!
thanks in advance
why don't you just tell him you like him....or was that already done? and you can't make someone admitt that they like you. it's there choice. you just have to spend time w/him. and pretend like you guys are meeting for the first time and just getting to know each other better. if you force your relationship to grow or have him admit that he likes you then ur ganan be in a mess.
and also if he doens't want to amdit to you that he likes you.
A: he really likes you and doens't know how to tell you
or
B: he's messsing with you. like playing a game....
ALlllright. so im a senior in highschool and my boyfriend is a sophomore in college. and we;ve been dating since like july. he comes home a lot and we have a realyl strong relationship and whatever. the thing is...my parents dont like the idea of me going to visit him, but i finally convinced them to let me go this weekend.
I want it to be really special and i just need some ideas of what to do...he already knows that im coming or else i would just surprise him completly....any ideas?
make him a cake. or pie
when me and my bf were going out somehow me and his best friends ended up holding hands and talking about liking each other and he found out about us liking each other and not the other part until about a week later and now hes like really mad and stuff and i dont want them not to be friends bc of me but i want to go out with my ex's best friend
i would ask permission from ur ex's if u could go out with his friend
I'm scared to death of tampons; but I need to start using them because I play volleyball and I don't want the pad to be visible. I keep trying to put them in, but they get to a point where I can't push it in anymore and it hurts so bad I want to cry. I've used almost a whole box trying to put one in; does anyone have any tips that might help this be less painful?
Vaseline, the ones that help your nose not bleed
i hate tamponds!! my best friend had to talk me through it and i was screaming the whole time.
Ok whenever i have proplems at school with someone im always kinda worried or scared about whats going to happen it gets me realy nervous or somethig i cant help it, please anyone with any ideas to help me or have similar problems tell me how to get over it
i heard if you geta chew toy, like you can find one in the dogs area at the store. and just chew on it. grrr grr... i like to chew on the sqeaky toys. just kidding. hehe. anyways u should just go and find something to chew on...i woldn'y reccomend chew toys. chewing on soemthing helps relieve stresss and worries. idk were i've heard it but it might help
so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this!
i remember feeling that way... except after the boy told me he liked me, he went off and dated some other girl bcuz i told him i didn't date. it was hard. but time helps heal
15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?
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HELP
the letter D guy you shouldn't date cuz that one would cause the most trouble. he sounds more likedly to cheat on you. if you no what i mean? but it's your chose..
i do suggest you date # A because you put him up first which means he was on your mind first which means you might like him more & you did write more about him than the other 3 guys. and when you guys hange out and he gets nervous that must mean he really likes you. it's better to have a nervous guy hanging around you than having a guy that comfortale with you because they're more bold.
ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her between them
it's been about 1 month that we have'nt been talking
and it's really awkward b/c we have the same friends
and i have 3 periods with her
and she's my only friend in that class
i don't know wat to do
b/c i'm sick and tired of dealing with her crap!!
and if you can give me any other advice besides making up with her that would help
b/c i doubt i will ever make up with her
it sounds like you don't want forgive her. she's either a crappy friend or it's something else. she might of had something on her mind for a while and then later on she realizes that you guys haven't been talking... there's so many reasons she could be doing this and whatver the reason is she might just need you to listen to her.
14/f
is it normal for me to feel bad about myself (my personality, and stuff) on somedays and feel good about myself other days?
how do i know the difference between just having a "bad day" and a geniuine self-esteem problem?
please give me the truth, dont sugar-coat your answer or condense it. i need as much motivation to keep "being myself" as possible.
thanks in advance
hey just think positive. & having other ppl say positive things about you helps alot you.
13/f
my parents won't let me have a boyfriend only because they didnt date people until they were in college. i know they want to protect me but this is really bothering me because everyone else is going off and having fun with there boyfriends when i can't have one.
so does anybody know any things i could persuade them with? i dont want to bring it up like I WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. i just want it to kind of..come into the conversation. if you know what i mean, but any help is fine. THANKS IN ADVANCE!
hmm just because everyone wants one doesn't mean u should have one to. i used to want one when i was 13 but then i had a really good guy friend that i went out with. and wen we weren't dating anymore it was really hard...... so i suggest protect your heart until your older. my mom always told me that ppl should only date when there old enough to marry. and some of my friends have gotten in so much trouble because they got a bf and did stuff....