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i hATE girls (no offence)
so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person?
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thats ironic that you hate girls but you are one and then you like a guy. then it's perfectly normal. you seem like the type that doesn't care what other ppl think really (especially girls) but then you seem like you don't exactly know what it is you are....
idk if this is helping..
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some girls are betchhss we all know it just some girls cant stand up to others. but in this case you cann. if your not missing having like girls that are friends then who needs 'em?
Your awsomee.
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your normal girls piss me of too
Hope I've been helpful
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I am too, fourteen and a girl. I can't say I've felt how you're feeling now, but I can tell you what I think is going on here. I think you're lack of liking girls, as friends or in general, is because you really do not like yourself. I've seen this in many cases before, not only on tv but in friends, etc.
By the way, I do not think you're weird or not normal, however, I do recommend counseling or a therapist. It could really help you, figure out your feelings, and things like that.
Good luck!
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its pretty normal i guess
I mean alot of girls over react sometimes, and it tends to be esyer to be friends with guys because they are less dramatic, but you seem like you absalotly hate girls, idk its kind of weird sorry, but i think you should stay away from them if you hate them so much, and just you know live your life with the guys, and likeing guys/being friends with them is deffintly not weird at alll
xoxo
justine
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Some girls are like - I kind of used to be like you!Sterotyping you - you'd be called "a tomboy".But it isnt weird at all and your perfectly normal - you just have different interests and prefer to hang with people like yourself.Your you and there is nothing wrong.You have more of a masiculan side which is nothing to be ashamed of.Heck, what would you rather be an annoying squealy girl who goes "he sooooo dreamY" or be you who just down to earth and dosnt get over excited.Your fine, gIRl
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Honestly, I dont think your wired, not at all, but sometimes girls(the type your talkin about) over re-act which is relly anoyin but at the same time you gotta help yourself and enjoy being a girl its not bad to have guy frineds but think positive your better than them. and I know girls who r ike you and are tomb boys but one day everything is gonna change just learn to deal.
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it's not weird.. but you're overexagerating.. you gotta toughen up and deal with it. there are people in the world like that. i personally hate it too, when girls act like that. but if you're all picky and you "hate girls" and stuff, that's kinda being like a girl. you're dragging out something that doesn't have to be talked about. i'm a neat freak but i don't run around trying to get people to notice..
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ok...so not all girls scream when something exiting happens and not all girls talk about girlie stuff..but the fact that you are madly in love with a guy is kind of girlie....but its apart of life. Just find girls that you are comfortable talking to and like the same things as you. As far as being more comfortable around guys, that's just how you are and its apart of you. I dont think its weird that you react this way to girls. Though you still have a bunch of growing up to do, so just try to stay open-minded.
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You're perfectly normal. I always had more in common with guys too. I have had very few female friends. Mostly because I am not a gossip, could care less about whats in fashion, and don't make a drama out of every little thing.
I don't hate them, I just find them silly. :)
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Uhm.. this is pretty normal.
But not all girls are like that.
I dont know, I know I cant stand most
girls either,but that's because they
cause drama.
Anyways.. yeah your normal, you just
sound a bit tom boyish though if you
as me.
:] Hope I helpeeddd.
x3jessikah
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There's nothing wrong with not being able to tolerate most girls. Surprisingly, almost every girl can agree with you on that. I know I can! So to answer your question, no you are not weird. Just keep an open mind that not every girl is the like-omg-screeching kind of girl. There are girls out there who are exactly like you who can't tolerate that type either! & I'm sure you can build some kind of friendship with those as long as you don't judge every single girl. :)
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*shakes hand*
Oh yeas I'm totally like you, except that I still dress like a girl cos I think I suit that style more than the tomboyish look.
Yes! I totally dig what you say. GIRLS SUCK. They laugh over the stupidest shit and they bitch like mad. So don't worry, you're normal cos I'm normal. Bout the dressing like a guy part, its alright. It's just your style of dressing and you like it cos you look good in it.
Guys are cool, guys are funny and they have a much better temper than girls, at least for all of my guy friends. You're normal. You're cool ;)
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Its totally fine. I'm like that, in some ways. You hate pansy girls, most people do. Your not a weird person at all. You just like the more laid back type of attitude, and most guys have that. Theres more types of girls out there, your probably just used to the ones in your school and stuff. Your a "Tom boy" as they call it, which is fine.Dont stop being you. Hope i Helped!
-Brina
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Yes, this behaviour is normal. I am exactly like that too. Just yesterday i got really mad and screamed out i hate girls haha, but thats beside the point. You are not a weird person, your just more like 'one of the guys' and that is perfectly normal. Personally, i think hanging out with guys is way better than talking with girls.
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You're not weird at all- I have more guy friends than girl friends and frankly, most girls really annoy me too. Guy friends are great to have because they are more laid back and fun. They don't read into every tiny thing and they generally don't gossip as much or spread petty rumors behind your back. I am around your age too so I know that at this age, most girls are going through hormone changes, and they go through boy-crazy phases. If you said that you're in love with a guy, your hormones have probably definitely kicked in by now. To me, you just sound like a very cool, unique person that doesn't need to be part of any little social cliche to be happy. You're not neccessarily a tomboy. Maybe you just simply prefer guy friends to girls. It doesn't make you gay OR a tomboy. You can be romantically attracted to guys and attracted to guys just as friends. This could be because you connect with guys better than you connect with girls. But also, you never know, there are probably other girls out there who feel the same way you do, so maybe you'll meet up with one and become friends. But right now, stay the way you are, you are perfectly normal!!
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Your a TomBoy!
I would say you were perfectly normal, but there is no such thing as normal when it comes to teenagers. But there is nothing WRONG with you. There is nothing wrong about the other girls either.
Most older girl's have been through it. Getting excited over little things, shrieking at the top of your lungs, wearing tons of pink, and smearing on lip gloss. It's a normal stage. Maybe you've skipped this stage, and have matured a little earlier than the other girl's. Whatever the reason is, there isn't anything wrong.
I have a lot of good guy friend's too, and they are really cool.
But it's important to find a balance between the two sexes. Even guy's have some 'girlness' in them. So don't totally reject the other girls already. Maybe try to understand them a little bit, and see if they will make the effort to understand you.
This phase will pass and quicker than you think. Teenagers grow at an alarming rate, and these girls might even get through this stage in a month or two (but on to another lovely stage)
So don't sweat it.
If your happy with your life right now, than there is nothing wrong with you.
Lots of Love,
-DearAbby92
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