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theres a girl at my school who i used to be good friends with at the beginning of the year. its my first year at a new school, so i was making friends. one day, she decided to flip on me, and cuss at me, calling me all these horrible names and trying to offend me. although, it didnt bother me too much, just the fact that she was picking on me. it stopped for a little while, and i talked to other people, and just made more friends. yesterday she writes on my facebook wall accusing me of telling another girl that she was talking bad about her. when i NEVER did such a thing. i have no reason too, why should i talk about someone who i have no desire to like? but, then today, she keeps bringing it up and calling me all these rude things. im friends with a lot of her friends, so i sit with her at lunch. not next to her of course. i know i shouldnt be scared to stick up for myself, but i am, and im usually not like this. if she says something to me in school tomorrow, should i say something back, or just ignore it? people tell me to ignore it, which is what i did for the first time it happened, and it seemed to go away, but, i dont want her thinking im super nice and will let her walk all over me. when she was rude to me over facebook, i was rude back. i think its just when im in person.
anyone have any ideas or advice on what i should do about this situation? please dont say "be friends" because we both really dont like eachother, but this whole thing is about something so pointless. (link)
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That kinda thing kind of happened to me except she didnt talk bad to my face , but what you need to do , the next time she confronts you . Tell her calmly to stop lying and prove it then when she doesnt stop , tell her you have better things to do and walk away . If she follows you .. then you can yell . The last thing you should do is start swinging just so you know . It wont help ... unless she hits you first which i doubt cuz she seems like one of those all-talk-no-bite kind of chicks .
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Hi! I;m gonna spend the night at a girl's house... And sometimes when i go places, we don't do nothin.... Any ideas of stuff we could do that is actually fun and not stupid? We're both 13 year old girls btw... And i'd prefer ideas where i don't have to buy anything... Just cause it isn't a BIG slmber party with bunches of people... I'm just gonna go hang out with my friend.. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated!!! (link)
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well when me & my frends get bored, sometimes we go for a little walk, either around or to the local park. however, if it's late at night we crack up by prank calling some boys who don't know our voices. you could also go to bored.com and find some things there.
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i want a song about a girl wanting to tell her bf tht she loves him. buut is too scared of what he will do or say.and his nervous to do it. and possibly think its too soon.
thx. :] (link)
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aaww. that is so sweet!
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um i don't really know a lot of songs like that, but "One Wish" by: Ray J. may be 1 if u listen 2 it.
but if i think of anymore ill deffinately let u kno.
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Couple weeks ago, my friend has a party. I went with one of my good friends, Amber. Since she drove, she promised that she wouldn't drink and if she did, she wouldn't have a lot. Once we got to the party I asked her for her keys just INCASE and I hid them in my purse. Like usual, she thought she wouldn't get drunk, she did.
She got SOO wasted that she couldn't even walk for 5 seconds and it freaked me out because everyone there was drunk and I didn't know how to drive but we both had to get home since our parent's and her sister were calling non-stop.
I finally answered to her sister's phone call and explained to her what was going on and she came to pick us up. I did not want Amber to be driving drunk and get us killed. I would never let that happen.
The next day, she was so furious with me that I took her keys and wouldn't let her drive. She even knew I had them. She was also very mad at me for calling her sister and now her sister is mad at her.
I can't help but feel like this is my fault. I didn't want us to get hurt and then regret anything later. What do I do? Advice? Thank you. (link)
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There's NOTHING wrong with what you did. She's the one who promised not to get drunk. And it's her fault she doesn't realize what a great friend you were. You saved her life! You should be proud of yourslelf.
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ok there is this kid that likes me, but i dont like him. he told me yesturday thru text and i couldnt write anything back. i dont want to tell him anything that will hurt him because i kno what it feels like to like someone who doesnt like you back. so how do i tell him, hurting him the least possible. thanks in advance!!! (link)
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you sound like a nice person trying to help him out. There is no right way to say it you have to just tell him up front and be honest
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ok So this guy i like is taking me out on a date. I met him in my english class senior year but we didnt really talk since then. Well i saw him a couple of months ago at my work and he just really put a smile on my face. The thing is weve been having a online relationship since. Im just worried its gonna be weird when we go on our date tonight. Does anyone have any good topic starters for a first date? (link)
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You sound like a nice person. If this guy really likes you he will not need a topic starter. If you want one ask him how is is give complements and just be your self
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Hey, thank you sooooooo much for your advice! But if I decide to go up to him, what should I say to him. This is my very first time that I feel this way about a boy. And I havent ever had a boyfriend before!!! Boys have asked me out but I dont feel that way about them that I feel about this boy! Please help me on what to say to him! Thanks A Lot!!! (link)
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Hi. You're VERY welcome. If you DO decide to go up to him, you should know what she likes first. Then, when you go up to him, you should talk about that. Don't be scared though. Maybe you could get some of your friends to help you.
Hope I've been helpful!
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ps. do any of your friends know that you like him and how many?
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Hey i'm a 15 year old girl. I have a huge crush on this one boy who rides my bus and is at my bus stop. I think he likes me but I want to get toknow him first. Well, I'm really shy and I can not go up to him and talk to him. The only people I talk to are the people that I really know. So, do you know any way for us to become friends for us to get to know each other? If you do plaese tell me. (link)
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Hi, I think that you should try to get over your shyness. That is the only way that you would get to talk to him. But, in case you can't get over your shyness, and if you have a friend or someone who can talk to him, they can talk to him for you and tell him that you like him. Don't be afraid to be yourself and like people, because if you're afraid that people will make fun of you because you like people, they'll get over it. If you need anything else, DON'T be afraid to ask me!! =)
Hope I've been helpful!
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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Hey. It's ok, don't be scared. Don't even think about the sex! Think about the person. If you want a guy that's sweet and nice, and can provide a healthy relationship, then go for Blake. But if you like the bad boys, then go for Nate. But, I hope it works out!
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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Hi,
Here are some ideas:
1) adopt. there's possibly a way or two for you to adopt a baby
2) babysit some babies for your neighbors
3) work at a daycare center part time wen ur off of skool and save that money for wen u DO have a child
babies are lots of work, you have to get up in the middle of the night, and change them, and when you're pregnant with him/her you'll be throwing up a lot...and you're SO young.
Hope I've been helpful!
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so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person? (link)
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your normal girls piss me of too
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well i'm 5' and i weigh 120 and im 13yrs old.
my thighs are muscular mostly except on the inside, how can i get rid of that flab?
like i do 100 squats a day.
also what can i do to get rid of the fat on my stomach and arms.
please helpp. (link)
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get a better exercise and get help your not fat dummy
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15/f
Okay. So I have this guy friend. He's 17. And I like him a lot. He's very nice to me, and we're practically best friends. BUT...about 2 weeks ago, he told me he didn't want to be with me. But we should still be best friends. And so about two weeks ago, I found out he has a girlfriend. She's the same age, but he knew her for a less amount of time than me. The thing is - I get SO jealous and I want to be with him - but since he already told me off about that, there is really nothing I can do. But, whenever we're in a group conversation on MSN or something, I get SO pissed and jealous and just storm off. The thing is - she's really nice. As much as I would love to be happy for them - him and her - I can't face my jealousy. I can't be happy for them without hating her evern though she didn't do anything bad to her. Now whenever I talk to him, I'm filled with hatred and the most JEALOUS kind of jealousy in the world. I always wish them the worst. I always cry about it and wish that they would break up. What do I do? How can I overcome this? :( (link)
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SUCK IT UP AND MOVE ON...SHE DIDNT DO ANYTHING......
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okay i have these little bumps on the tip and sides of my tounge...they kinda hurt
do you think they could be like herpes? I am a virgin and havent done anything more then makeout...i havent made out for about 3 weeks and the sores started on Friday...
am i just being parinoid? or is it something serious? (link)
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they're kankers.
Hope I've been helpful
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ok so i met this guy at a debate tournement and he lives an hour away and he gave me his number and i want to call him but i dont know wut to talk about. i dont know wut to do please help me. (link)
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Do you know him? If you do then give him a call. If you think he really likes you, it doesnt matter what you talk about it just matters that you called.
If you dont, then DONT call him. For all you know he could be a sneaky person.
Hope I've been helpful
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i have a parakeet. the feathers around his beak and cre are a light purpleish, pink color, which isnt the color they normally are. what could this be from? and how can i treat it and prevent it from happening again?
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I have one too. That happened to mine too. Just don't worry about it, call a vet and ask what to do.
hope I've been helpful!
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my little sister saw 3 cats outside this morning. [they were on our porch.] 2 were fighting against onee and so yah lol. well later, my dad saw two baby kittens curled up next to each other. so we all walked over to the window, and sure enough, there were 2 kittens. so we figured that the 2 cats had babies and now theres them and some baby kittens underneath our porch. we really want to keep one of the kittens. so my sister and i are trying to convince my mom and dad to let us keep one. is this a bad idea? if they say yes, then how should we get one of them without the other cats like attacking us? lol. and should we like put it in a box and then take it to the vet to get it checked out? please help!!! i really want one of them! oh, and any names for the kitten would be appreciated ! (link)
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I think that you should put up a sign for ALL the cats. Then, if noone takes/claims any, take them ALL in, but personally I REALLY think that you should keep them ALL together, because what if you were separated from YOUR family? But really, it's a great idea.
hope I've been helpful!
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my room where i keep my parakeet gets cold, and i dont want my parakeet to get cold. is there any type of bird heating lamps that i could use to keep him warm? if so, where could i buy one?links? and what temperature should the cage stay at if i were to use a heating lamp? (link)
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I have that EXACT same problem...and I'm not lying. I have a white parakeet. So, what I do is during the winter I put a towel over my parakeet's cage, and I've done that for a while and she's still alive!
hope I've been helpful!
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I am really involved in my school. I participate in most of the sports, choir, band, a lot of things. But, i want to be the best at SOMETHING. i'm not that athletic, i mostly just go out for sports to stay fit. I'm really good at singing but there are 2 other girls that always beat me. I take voice lessons and everything..i'm just not the best. Band...i hate. My mom makes me doit so i really dont care if i'm the best at that or not. But really i just want all the attention to be on JUST ME for once. I always have to share it, or get 3rd best part or something like that. I dont even know why it's that important. But everyone seems to have something they are the best at except me. I dont really even know what my question is, i'm just looking for advice on how to be the BEST at something i guess. I will rate, and thanks in advance. (link)
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hi
nOONE realises how good they are at something that other people do. You sound like a goog person with alot of good quilities
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I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)
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Hi,
No, its not. But if you like him, stay with him. Thats it...done.
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