I have been in a relationship with a musician since I was 14yrs. old now I am 25. We have two girls and I am pregnant now again.Occasionnally we like to have threesomes. Now just found out he went back to one of the girl's and made out with her. She told me they kissed and well almost had sex, but didn't happened because her mom was coming home. She told me he wanted her to call him so they can hang out once in a while. She couldn't bare the pain and ended up telling me. I asked him and of course he blamed everything on her. Now the only part is He was the one that showed up at her house, so obviously he wanted something else other than his girlfriend/ fiance back at home. I don't know what to do,...I want to leave him, should I? OH, AND another thing always has his phone on locked and on vibrate. Tells me his phone is his business. Is this right? or am I just another victim who falls in the hand of a cheater.
Well he's obviously a cheater if you were having three somes. That's not a quality in a devoted man who loves his girlfriend and wants only her. The only reason he was having three somes was probably to justify it, because you were doing it as well which made it okay. But it's not okay. You should deffinately leave him, because he sounds like a creep.
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Hi, so i got my last period July 31st and it ended August 5th.
I had sex on the 8th (friday) we used a condom, but then later on blahblah we ended up having a quickie without a condom, he didn't do anything and I highly doubted I was pregnant (yes I know there's always a chance) I took plan b the next day -- to be safer rather than sorry.
I've never taken it before. Anyways I was fine after I took it, but then wednesday (the 12th) I started spotting a little, and it's friday now but it's gotten heavier, so is this my period again?
(I also had sex last night with a condom though -- I dont know if that made the spotting worse)
So yeah I know plan b a side effect is spotting, but can spotting turn into your normal period? And since I already had my period, what does this mean for my next one?
Thanks!
im 18 and have a baby. I'm pretty sure I'm old enough to answer the question. I know what the plan b does.. it stops innocent babys from having a chance to live. it fixes your "mistakes"..which is actually not even a mistake, but rather a blessing.
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How do you make a guy whipped? I want to make my boyfriend where he can't resist me. How do i do this? I want to do this without pushing him away. Please help! Thanks!
well as long as you make it clear youre interested.. by answering his calls and hanging out with him when he asks.. i think he'll think you like him, but not be so sure which is what will make him go crazy for you lol
honest, just act like you could care less..but not to the point where he thinks youre not into him. For example - let him call you, dont call first. let him go for the kisses. just be plain out stubborn/hard to get. tell him to get you stuff.. like if youre thirsty or something. acting like you dont care is what gets everyone. thats why girls always like the assholes.
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Hey, I'm 15 and I'm a girl. I have not had sex yet.
This is like.. embarrassing..
So, when I shave down there.. afterward it always looks irritated. There are like little red bumps, and sometimes they hurt. Sometimes though when I shave, like I don't even know what happens, it starts like bleeding little red dots. I even have scars.. Is there something wrong? Like, I want it to stop, haha. It's embarrassing, there's always like little red scabs and if I shave over them they start to bleed and it just makes my vagina look disgusting. This only happens on the surface of my vagina and a little like around it on my thighs almost. It doesn't happen underneath though? Has this ever happened to anyone else? Is there something wrong, or someway I can stop it? Thank you so much, and sorry if this is long.
it's happened to me before.. it could be that youre not shaving the way that your hairs goes, which causes the bumps.. and the bumps bleed cuz theyre like pimples. i dont know how i got rid of them honestly.. after a while they just started going away. it could be from sweat too. those were a couple things people told me. hope i helped :]
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hi, i am a virgen , and my boyfriend wants to have anal sex, if he cums in my ass can i get pregnant?
...That's an exit only zone.
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I realized I was gay when I was like 9, mostly b/c my parents are way controlling even wen i was little they wouldn't let me have friends who were guys...
so to me wen i was young, i was like ok mom and dad dont want me to hang out with guys, guess somethings wrong with em, so i eventually started liking girls instead.
Then me and my family moved to a new town when i was 14, and my parents finally agreed to let me go away to public skool, after a few months i kinda got bi-curious.
Long story short i ended up having sex with a guy, got addicted, became fully bisexual, then shortly afterward became so grossed out by how guys looked etc that i cudnt even be turned on enough to have sex w/ em ne more....
i told people that i was bi, wen i was, but now that im gay, i dont know if i have the courage to come out and say it because im afraid that i might go back to being bisexual...if i found a guy that didnt discussed me...which is doubtful, but if i tell ppl that im fully gay, it blows every guy, in my highskool, at least, out of the water, and i've still got 2yrs left to go..so i just dont know....
can anyone help?
.. you dont really have to go around announcing it to anyone. who do you have to answer to? no one but yourself. so whenever you feel your sure and you feel the need to tell someone, go for it.
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Okay i met this girl at the family party and we started talking and i asked her number and her screen name so she gave it to me, and after that we talk for 3-6 hours a day, we also talk and flirt on the phone,text and chat online. We've known each other for a month and half we hung out and we flirt too, and i know she likes me and i like her, she even cooked for me but the thing is i told her that i love her and she started acting different, i told her i wanna be with her and i love her and everything and when i told her she started picking fights and she told me that she doesn't believe in love, because it sounds too serious and she doesn't like it when i say i love you to her. She never had a bf and she says shes a flirt but i know she likes me, yet she didn't wanna go out with me, and i told her we could be friends, but she keeps getting mad or picking fights about it and she told me that we shouldn't talk for a while and so i agreed and told her to talk to me when shes ready but its been 2 weeks and shes still hasn't talked to me even when we see each other she ignores me and wont even look at me in the eye, and she wont reply my texts, and i didn't know why she wont talk to me if she likes me too, but i don't know now what do you think about this? we were doing REALLLY good and we liked eachother, but when i told her i how i love her and wanna be with her she started acting weird and we dont talk anymore, please help..
well since you've only known eachother for such a short period of time, I doubt she feels that strong. Love is an extremely strong word, and I respect her for not wasting it (dont take it the wrong way - Im not meaning that you're a waste).. its just that so many people throw that word around and dont even know the real meaning to it.
But anyways.. she probably feels you have way more feeling for her than she does for you, and it probably scares her. Give her time.
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okay. so i'm a 16 year old girl and i decided to ask you this question because i wanted a guy's perspective.
this is kind of long but i will try to sum it all up.
this past year i got to know this guy and we were realllly good friends. he liked me at one point in the beginning of the school year. also this year i got to be really good friends with this girl. well they started dating, and dated for like 6 months and broke up in like may. she still has feelings for him but he wants to move on. after they broke up he told me about how he liked me at the beginning of the year..things were kind of awkward because i never liked him but then we started hooking up..i just hooked up with him because i thought it was friends with benefits and we talked about it and he agreed with that but how do i know if he actually has feelings because my friend can't find out especially if he likes me.
youre 16.
the last thing on your mind should
be friends with benefits.. wow.
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My boyfriend seems to think that when he calls other girls hot it impresses me.
Well it doesnt, and honestly, it's really pissing me off.
Once or twice is some-what acceptable, but i'm talking about almost every day!
It's so awkward for me because i just stand there and look like a total idiot.
I mean, what am i supposed to say ...?
"Cool" ??
yeah right, so the other day i talked to him about it, and he said that's the last time i'll ever hear it from his mouth.
A few days pass and he was really keeping his word.
Then the other day we were talking about lindsay lohan and he was like
"Im not even gunna say it!"
and i was like
"what?"
"that shes hot."
and i was like "YOU JUST DID!"
things like that.
another thing he does is point out EVERY SINGLE pretty girl in the mall he says he knows and say
"I used to like her"
One time i busted him because we go to different schools
and he was like "I used to like her"
and it turns out the girl he pointed to
went to MY school.
so i said "how do you know her?"
and he was like "she goes to my school"
and then she comes over and says
"Hey!" to me.
not even acknowledging him!
and he never spoke about since then.
he does it to impress me and i know it.
or he'll spot a grouup of other pretty girls and tell me he knows him.
I have no idea what to do anymore!
im lost.
what do i do?
well if it's only about an actress I dont see the big deal. Im sure you think some actors are hot, its just he's more open about it. I could see if he was telling you girls in your school were hot, but he doesn't have a chance with these actresses and he knows it. You should do exactly what you said.. just say "cool" like you dont care. he'll grow out of it.
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okay, where to start... my best friend won't talk to me because she goes to this band thing, and when she was there, she kinda snogged this guy, but she has a nearly boyfriend here (band was away) but then when her nearly boyfriend tricked me into telling him that she went woth this other guy. so i told my best friend that i had accidently told her nearly boyfriend she freaked and hasnt spoken to me since... anyway my question is, how do i approach her?
what's snogged?! wow.
.. her nearly boyfriend?
sounds like shes a skank.
you approach her by putting
one step infront of the
other until your up in her face :]
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how do you tell your hair dresser you want wispy ends, they don't seem to understand the phrase, its like a pixie-cut's ends, like its all wispy. i don't know how else to put it and to describe it, any help will do.
.. is wispy like choppy?
because I tell my hair dresser
choppy and she knows what I mean.
Like, when you cut the layers all
over the place.
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I saw the Dark Knight, but I went to the bathroom and missed the part with the Joker and the pencil.
Sooo...what happened?
.. did you need advice on this?
because, ya know, the name of this
site is "advicenators", not "be my
slave & help me with every stupid
thing in the world-enators"
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What Do U Do When Your Friend Trys To Make U Jealous ?
a REAL friend wouldnt try to make you
jealous. so just act like you could care
less. thatll get them more than anything.
and my advice is find friends who arent
out to make you jealous.
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ok so here i go my so called bestie is flirting with my boyfriend and hes a huge flirt hes been with her befor and broke it offcuz she kissed another girl but im afraid hes still got feelings for her how do i tell her o stop with out getting her peeved
Ps. she is realy sookie
that's not my definition of a bestfriend.
tell her to stop being a hoe & back off his
junk. pretty simple :]
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ok So I have a huge thing for this guy. We had a past we was close and he ened up getting married and we didnt talk then but when they broke up he came back to me. He says he is not ready for relationship which I can understand and he says when he is he promises its gonna be me. Well everyone asks if we are dating because we are always together and when we stay together hes always askin me to rub his neck and back for him. Well when Im with friends he will call askin who I am with and what I am doing like he is checking up on me. He says he loves me to death and the way he acts I am wondering how he realy feels for me. Whats the deal? And theres some days where hes all huggin up on me and others not and he just has me really confused what should I do?
honestly, no one can answer this question and actually know the answer.
maybey he really cares for you.. maybey he doesnt.
youre just going to have to go by what he tells you.
obviously if he spends so much time with you though there has to be something?
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how do you finger a girl
stick ur finger in her 'stuff'
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We have yahoo music on our computer, but every time we try to play a song it stops and says "buffering" every 5 seconds! It's driving me CRAZY. I tried to email Yahoo, but they never got back to me. HELP?
Our internet is fine, by the way. websites and stuff work, its just the stupid music player. It doesn't even work on music we've already bought or put on the computer with a CD.
get rid of yahoo.
download 'ares'
its a music thingy.
thats what i have and
it works just fine
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What is male enhancement I keep seeing comercials abt these creams and pills and I'm soo confussed n curious
it makes a guys penis bigger :]
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13/f
So I used to be all happy and giddy. I used to wear bright colors, and be some what of in a hyper mood. You know someone you would wanna be around.
Well somthing changed. I cry alot. I wear black. Im not really hyper anymore. People dont really like to be around me.
I know I can change because, I KNOW I dont have clinical deppresion. What can I do to change?
-carlee
wear bright colors,
stop the crying,
and drink energy drinks
or coffee to get hyper?
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Ok soo my sister said she did something with one of her firends I forgot what its called and I'm not going to ask her because she will kno I'm ging to tell my counselor I'm not telling on her I'm jus going to talk to my conselor about it and he's really cool he won't get her in trouble he's just going to have a talk with her and she really looks up to him and listens to him she won't with me though but anyways she got high with a bunch of her friends by her friend would smoke and inhale it and then blow it in her mouth as if they were kissing or something so she could get high faster...what's tht called?
maybey your sister should hook me up
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