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I realized I was gay when I was like 9, mostly b/c my parents are way controlling even wen i was little they wouldn't let me have friends who were guys...
so to me wen i was young, i was like ok mom and dad dont want me to hang out with guys, guess somethings wrong with em, so i eventually started liking girls instead.
Then me and my family moved to a new town when i was 14, and my parents finally agreed to let me go away to public skool, after a few months i kinda got bi-curious.
Long story short i ended up having sex with a guy, got addicted, became fully bisexual, then shortly afterward became so grossed out by how guys looked etc that i cudnt even be turned on enough to have sex w/ em ne more....
i told people that i was bi, wen i was, but now that im gay, i dont know if i have the courage to come out and say it because im afraid that i might go back to being bisexual...if i found a guy that didnt discussed me...which is doubtful, but if i tell ppl that im fully gay, it blows every guy, in my highskool, at least, out of the water, and i've still got 2yrs left to go..so i just dont know....
can anyone help?
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i'm bisexual and i don't go around telling people.
if they want to kno i tell them
but i think if you don't know what you are or you are confused, then you shouldn't tell people you are one or the other just yet.
when i wasn't sure what i was, i would just tell people, "i'm not sure. i like some guys and i like some girls. it really depends on the person"
i hope this helps and if you ever need to talk feel free to message me on AIM =]
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.. you dont really have to go around announcing it to anyone. who do you have to answer to? no one but yourself. so whenever you feel your sure and you feel the need to tell someone, go for it.
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Ok well its okay to be gay, and bisexual. I have a gay friend ryan and i love him to death! And actually guys like girl on girl action. I have never tried it but if you feel it thats you. dont care about what everyone else thinks.
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Be true to yourself. You have tested the waters and it sounds like you are bisexual. It is not a bad thing, being bisexual. I am bisexual as well. I don't tell people. I told my parents and my mom actually caught me making out with my girlfriend at that time so the ride home was REALLY uncomfortable!
Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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