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i'm emily :)
i'm 16 and i love to have fun
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Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: datmlechick
Member Since: November 5, 2008
Answers: 1
Last Update: November 5, 2008
Visitors: 381


I realized I was gay when I was like 9, mostly b/c my parents are way controlling even wen i was little they wouldn't let me have friends who were guys...
so to me wen i was young, i was like ok mom and dad dont want me to hang out with guys, guess somethings wrong with em, so i eventually started liking girls instead.
Then me and my family moved to a new town when i was 14, and my parents finally agreed to let me go away to public skool, after a few months i kinda got bi-curious.
Long story short i ended up having sex with a guy, got addicted, became fully bisexual, then shortly afterward became so grossed out by how guys looked etc that i cudnt even be turned on enough to have sex w/ em ne more....
i told people that i was bi, wen i was, but now that im gay, i dont know if i have the courage to come out and say it because im afraid that i might go back to being bisexual...if i found a guy that didnt discussed me...which is doubtful, but if i tell ppl that im fully gay, it blows every guy, in my highskool, at least, out of the water, and i've still got 2yrs left to go..so i just dont know....
can anyone help? (link)
i'm bisexual and i don't go around telling people.
if they want to kno i tell them
but i think if you don't know what you are or you are confused, then you shouldn't tell people you are one or the other just yet.
when i wasn't sure what i was, i would just tell people, "i'm not sure. i like some guys and i like some girls. it really depends on the person"

i hope this helps and if you ever need to talk feel free to message me on AIM =]




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