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Whats up with me?
13/f
So I used to be all happy and giddy. I used to wear bright colors, and be some what of in a hyper mood. You know someone you would wanna be around.
Well somthing changed. I cry alot. I wear black. Im not really hyper anymore. People dont really like to be around me.
I know I can change because, I KNOW I dont have clinical deppresion. What can I do to change?
-carlee
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Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?
first and foremost.
when you cry, ask yourself what's making you cry.
after you've sat and discovered your answer, it will be easier to help yourself get back to the way you are.
sometimes things that make you depressed, are things in the back of your mind. you have like 7,000 thoughts per sec. so there is no telling WHAT you might be thinking of unless you focus on it.
it may be:
- relationship problems
- family [ parental divorces ]
- death
- friends
- school
if you can't find the answer, i would reccomend talking to a parent.
- bethloveswife
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wear bright colors,
stop the crying,
and drink energy drinks
or coffee to get hyper?
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Ahh, the years of teenhood.. yep hormone hell as I said before..but..I wouldn't trade my teenage years for anything. Believe it or not, I have no regrets, and A LOT of fond memories.
I think that those years bring about a lot of changes in a short time (for about half of us) than any part of your life besides babyhood.
Case in point, when I was 15, I was considered a "party girl". I wore mostly black, hid behind my hair and was pretty shy and I dated a guy that played in a metal band for quite awhile...then about 16 1/2 I got a job as a department store cashier, I permed my hair and slowly began wearing more "preppy" pastel colored clothes..lol..but still occasionally partied..then as I approached 17..I gave up "smokin' left hand cigarettes" completely. (still smoke those coffin nails ugh- don't start and you won't have to worry about quitting!) and didn't go out "partying" as much..*shrug*
Those years are difficult because your still trying to figure out so many things..including "who you are". Very confusing, yet, if you let it, can also be very fun.
I suppose you could slowly change your image, that way you don't just show up completely changed one day.
My biggest question is this..why do you cry all the time? Do you think it could be just because of all the hormonal changes your going through? It's not unusual.
I know when I was about 15..I would go outside where I had a rope swing rigged up in the yard, and swing for hours, listening to music and just thinking..my mom actually became concerned and ventured out there to see if I was okay. Of course, I told her I was fine: fact is, I was just haven't trouble with my teenage life.
Hope this helps!
Jasmine
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