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confused about myself


Question Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 6:19 pm

14/f

is it normal for me to feel bad about myself (my personality, and stuff) on somedays and feel good about myself other days?

how do i know the difference between just having a "bad day" and a geniuine self-esteem problem?

please give me the truth, dont sugar-coat your answer or condense it. i need as much motivation to keep "being myself" as possible.

thanks in advance


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girlwander answered Thursday January 10 2008, 3:41 pm:
hey just think positive. & having other ppl say positive things about you helps alot you.

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Rosie2000 answered Saturday November 3 2007, 6:34 pm:
its normal. comepletely normal. alot is happening to you when your that age. SO much happened to be in my 8th grade year that i dotn even rememebr anything other than i moved out of my house. i dunno if that helps at all.. buutttt... i hope it does.

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Mulva answered Friday November 2 2007, 9:53 am:
When you're 14, that is completely normal. It is a crazy time in your life when you will be an insecure as ever. I can assure you, you don't have a "geunine self-esteem proble." At the age of 24, I still struggle with certain insecurities. It's a natural part of being a human being. To be honest, I don't think there is such a thing as "high self-esteem." Behind any one person's confidence are the same insecurities that everyone deals with. Some people are just better at hiding them rather than leaving them on the surface for everyone to see.

Just continue to try and be a positive person. Positivity is a powerful thing and can change not only the way you look at yourself, but the way others look at you as well.

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