Me and my ex-bestfriend were friends since last year.. Me and him just started really talking this year though. I would talk to him hours on end.. But we faught a lott. and i didnt know what to do. And he was a complete jerk when we did fight, and ALWAYS blamed the fight on me.. But I Liked Him Since Last Year, and i fell in love with him.. and after one of our bigger fights we were talking and he said he liked me. And i was soooo happy. Cuz I loved him.. i mean we would both say "I love you" like I love my crazy friend... but like, it ment more when i said it, he just didnt know it.. and a week went by,((he didnt want to be in a relationship)) and the next week, he stopped answering calls, and texts, and stopped wanting hugs.. and i was like... Fine.. And i asked him, why he even told me he liked me, when he knew that i liked him for two years, and he was just being a butt. And he said I had no reason to be upset.. and that I was being a bi***
did i over react? or is he really a waste of my time? b/c i gae back his necklace that he gave me, and everything.. so yeah, help?
HotSauce answered Wednesday May 20 2009, 10:24 pm: Sounds like teenagers. -sigh-
It happens, he probable is interested to some extent, but with so much fighting.. He either is totally confusied, and maybe pressured. Who knows? But give him some more space, he probable needs time to think. He may be scared to jump in a relationship with once a friend, and now wants to be girlfriend, all touchie feeli... hold my hand take me to dinner type of deal. [ HotSauce's advice column | Ask HotSauce A Question ]
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