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always on my mind
this guy and I went out for a really long time/10 months. he told me that one of his friends was into me and he was gonna try to steal me away. When one of my friends thought he was cute..i told him....we ended up braking up three or four months later.....he ended up going to her the same day that we broke up...and it was like..wow..he got over me that fast...the part that irritates me is how he talks to her and tries to talk shit about me....always saying mean things about me.....i don't know...i just want to ask him why he is talking shit...
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He sure sounds like a jerk, and it is very clear that he is NOT over you. He may seem and act like it, but really, he isn't! The fact that he still talks about you and TRIES to make you look bad is quite immature and depressing. He could be using your friend to get back at you, which isn't very nice to you or your friend, so you might want to warn your friend, or tell her about this if you haven't. If it makes you feel better, ask him. Ask him straight up why he has nothing better to do, and rather engage in such 'bad-mouthing'. This would make you look more mature, as what he is doing is quite immature. I strongly feel he is not over you, 10 months is quite a long time, and he could just be having difficulties getting over you.
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Have you ever read "He's Just Not That Into You"? For these troubles I suggest it.
The mysterious girl is always the most attractive to males. So, by confronting him you put yourself out for defeat, you show you care,and that you're bothered. It's more than okay to care! Just don't do it in front of him. He did you over and now it's your turn to move on. Don't talk excessively about him to girlfriends who will turn right around and tell him, and don't make it a point to stalk his Facebook/Myspace it will drive you crazy!
Okay so he talks shit? Who doesn't. He could be doing that to prove he's not interested in you anymore (I'm sorry that's harsh but it's the truth. If he still cared for you he'd be with you. <The book says that).
Just let the time pass. Who knows in a few days he could realize his faux pas and come crawling back. I'll also tell you it's not wise to go back to you're EX; the break up happened for a reason.
P.S. There IS someone who really admires you and would never do you wrong like your EX did. You just have to find him!
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Thats right, you want to confront him privately. Ask him why he says so much shit. Tell him you two are broken up, and it's done and over with.
They say men talk shit about there ex to there new girlfriends because techniqaully there not over there ex yet. It's just what I've heard. I believe it may be true. So he's probable not over you, and covers his real feelings for "Asshole" feelings. If you understand what i mean.
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