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hi...help me hes my best friend!
hi 14/f
ok i have been on and off with this guy and im over him well thats what i thought...he isnt over me he takes my pic that is on my best friends binder ok and he stole all of them and i was like freak and hes like why are you mad at me and he over reacts ok me and him have never kissed ok!and well he said he wanted to go to the movies with me and my best friend and her bf but her and her bf broke up!ok so he said well thats ok they didn't need to come i mean me and you would just makein out and what not so i laughed i thought he was joking so he asked if i wanted to go this Friday... but i have a date!kinda im meeting this guy i met on myspace!(don't say that i should meet this guy bc im not asking you that ok!!)well i told him i couldnt but what if hes at the movies when i go to meet this guy!i will feel really bad bc hes my best friend and i dont see him as a boy friend any more bc hes a player!like hes a realy big player!so im not in to him at all and i just can't say taht to him bc it will crush him ahh hes my bestie and i feelso bad about it!
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tell him that you don't want to be in a relationship right now. if he's really your friend, he'll understand. but if he doesn't, then hopefully he'll get over it.
or just simply tell him that you're not into him because you don't want to be just another hook up.
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If you dont see yourself with him AT ALL then tell him that. And keep telling him that, he will get it sooner or later. So what if he likes you, take it as a compliment. Ive had bestie guy friends to that liked me alot but i would tell them that i didnt like them that way and they would get over. Its life and if he doesnt see that you dont like him you must be sending mixed signals to him to make him keep fawning over you. And i would never say that you shouldnt meet that guy because ive done that myself but as long as you know the whole story about this myspace guy you should go meet him!! but anyway about the other guy...if you dont like him then thats the end of the story and sooner or later he will quit. trust me. i know. ive been through that before.
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i kinda think you should have him come with you to meet the guy you met on myspace.... i know that might not be a good idea. but i don't exaclty know your situation and also the guy your meeting might not be the guy he says on myspace.
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Whoa, stalker much!
If you guys run into each other at the movies, who cares? Just smile sweetly and walk the other way. Or warn the guy from MySpace about the awkward situation that might happen. If he follows you, tell him that you and your boyfriend want privacy and maybe you could hang out some other time.
Maybe the next time your friend asks you out just tell him you already have a boyfriend, maybe. (True or not, this is the easiest way out.) If you want to tell him the truth about not liking him in that way anymore, I guess that's okay, but I think it'll get a little too awkward.
=) Good luck!
-Jenni Choi ♥
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