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four guys.
15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?
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the letter D guy you shouldn't date cuz that one would cause the most trouble. he sounds more likedly to cheat on you. if you no what i mean? but it's your chose..
i do suggest you date # A because you put him up first which means he was on your mind first which means you might like him more & you did write more about him than the other 3 guys. and when you guys hange out and he gets nervous that must mean he really likes you. it's better to have a nervous guy hanging around you than having a guy that comfortale with you because they're more bold.
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You can always just DATE all of them, and not have any of them be your steady boy friend. Infact I would suggest doing that, just untill you see which one you really like. Then if you want to take things a step further and actually be in a committed realtionship with any of them you can! :D
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well you can just like all of them but i dont think b would be the best choice well i like this guy too hes sorta like d so i know how you feel but if he flirts with other gals i dont think he really likes you i mean he flirts with you but he does to alot of other ppl to so just stick with c and a and sooner or later youll decide between them
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ok tht was long but i understand i was in tht situation almost right to the point i chose wat in ur case would be my b first and it worked but not completely b/c of the other gurl then we broke up and i went out with c and it worked for a long time but sice we were best friends it didnt work out really well he is still in love with me but im only his friend then i went out with a it worked and could hav worked longer if my best girl friend hadnt talked me into breaking up with him any way i really wanted 2 go out with d the whole time so i would work on d i mean y go thro all thosr guys and break all their hearts wen u really lke d?i am working on d 2 but i also only c him once every month so give d a shot(oh and the only real difference is added a few things(my business)and minus the make out with d)
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Yes it definetly IS wrong to hook up with more then one guy because your going to end up losing all of them.Its not a good idea so stay away from that.As for the guyz, D is totally outta the question,you hear bad things about him and hes obviously just a tease i mean,just flirting around with everyone so stay away from him if you dont want to be played.Stay away from B too because you need a guy thats feelings are to you ONLY...hes obviously sayin he likes you to get over the old gurl he likes he has to empty his feelings out completly for the other gurl or eles if he gets with you....he wont be happy.I think A is a good choice,alhough its akward when you meet...its probably cuz youre both nervous or something....as for the one thats your best freind...he didnt say he liked "that way"so...i think best choice is A
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Firstly, i have to laugh at myself, because im in the same situation as B, secondly, i would go with A or C, because with B hes going to always like that other girl until someone else comes along that he likes more, and D is probably not as great as you anticipate him to be.
Yeah its wrong to hookup with more than one of them.
(im editing since i wanted to respond to your feedback)
If B is anything like myself, then he may actually be a good choice. Considering he did what he did.
Ha, i wish i could help more but i don't really know the guys, or you so yeah.
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it's extremely wrong to hook up with more than one. It's also wrong to just make out with someone that you said you don't even know to well.
Fore the real question A. and C. are probably good choices. B you just said is cute, and he likes someone else. D. seems like just a guy that would go up to any girl and make out with her and might be in more than 1 relationship himself. don't cheat on any of the guys though.
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