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Last night at a party my ex boyfriend was trying to convince me that he was the best grinder there, but he was all over the place like hopping up in down; it was weird. Can anyone send me a video of decent grinding so I can show him that he's wrong? (link)
there is never a truly acurate video as trends change all of the time. if your old enough just a youtube video is probably enough


I had a dream that I was on the beach with some of my friends. I think we had gone to like this island and they had like one of those hotel shares and if you went to certain areas you would be at the beach. So I went to the beach with some of my friends and one of them is this girl that my boyfriend and I (in real life) talk about maybe one day having a 3some with. I dreamt that I asked her if she wanted to be daring and go skinny dipping. She was like yeah. She took off and had all of her clothes off and was in the water before me. Then I came and it was so awesome. I was diving and breathing underwater and totally relaxed. Somehow it turned into a movie. When we reviewed the movie at the end of the night, everyone was so proud of my choice and how care free I was, one girl even said that she wished she could be as proud of her body as I was, and she was skinnier than me. I was very proud of my self and happy with the choice I had made. When someone asked me why I did it I said, " I'm glad I did it, I have always admired people who have been able to skinny dip. They are not worried about anything. They just take a chance and go for it". Does anyone know what this dream means? I haven't been able to find anything under skinny dipping that applies to me cause they are usually about being embarissed or something, and I was not embarissed at all.
Thank you for your input. (link)
ok the beach could mean a veriety of things as such you think that sex is had on the beach, you think that skinny dipping is most common at the beach, you have been wanting to go to the beach. one thing about the girl being there could be you having been talking more about her, you have been thinking of her as a friend, or just because you and your boyfriend have been thinking about having a 3some with her. The movie is a bit harder. You could like to watch movies, the movie might symbolize that you havent told her and you feel that you and your boyfriends feelings are bottled up, you may think that everyone can read through your feelings like a movie and etc. skinny dipping could just be something you have always wanted to do, or you might think that it can lead up to asking her, or sex. reviews at the end is probably you trying to build your confidence up, or maybe you just needed some possitive review in the sense. I hope I helped


15/f
ok so i used to date this boy--Brent. we were together for a year and a half on and off. he was my first love but he was also a pothead. well one night at our school's homecoming game bonfire, he got high and decided to blurt out to my step-sister Brittany that he had cheated on me. at least thats what she says; he denies it. well this was about a year ago. since then ive dated his friend--Cody. and Cody and i had this thing over the summer where we were talking and long story short-he turned out to be a complete butthole. well im still not completely over Cody but lately Brittany has been trying to get me to give Brent another chance and he was myspace-messaging my best friend; Amber trying to find out if i still liked him. so i messaged him and asked why he was bugging my friend. well we had this big long talk about how hes still in love with me and he was begging for another chance; even tho i told him i couldnt go through that again. well i dont like him anymore but i dont know how to tell him. but on the other had, i kinda want to give him another chance. Brittany and Brent both say that hes done with pot and everything but im scared. thank you if you took the time to read this long question and please help! (link)
If a person is on drugs then they will never really be off. He may be off of pot but he may be on something else. A drugee gets a second chance all their life by their family. Just tell Brent he doesn't deserve a second chance and that if he loved you so much he wouldn't have cheated on you. Usualy he'll probably slip up and say he's sorry for cheating on you. if that's the case then he's also a liar. Just ask your sister why she cares so much and how she knows he quit.


Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like? (link)
i'm a guy so you can probably belive this. Most people who think they are ugly look ugly to others but when you don't feel ugly your good to be around. It's all your perspective. Noone is out of your league if you tell them you like them. I'm also 15 and I understand your problem. It's not because I feel ugly. I've never had a girlfriend because I get to scared to ask them out. I have an extreme fear of rejection. Now back to your question, I apologize, Just tell who you like how you feel.


what are some cool things to put on my freewbs website. It's new and pretty boring now so I need some ideas (link)
just put a cool layout and a few other tweaks and just ask other people if they think anything is left out


ok so we just got back to school on wednesday because of winter break..and of course i hadnt talked to some ppl over break because well it was break..when i got back, i really wanted to talk to my friend kevin because i hadnt seen him in so long.well i actually really really like him and i missed him..anyway..on wednesday he smiled at me but that was really the only time he really acknowledged me..on thursday at lunch i looked over at his table and smiled and he kinda smiled back but then he like stared off into space and i could tell he was really thinking about something but idk what. then i was walking like right behind him and i know he saw me because he turned around and half glanced at me but didnt say anything.friday morning i was walking to 1st period with my 2 guys friends and we passed him but and he smiled at me but at lunch he didnt look at me once..[usually during lunch we smile at each other alot and he gives me alot of attention]..then when i passed him in the hall we made eye contact for like 3 seconds but then he kept looking straight foward and i could tell he was trying not to look in my direction.

i dont get why hes acting like this at all..i didnt do anything in the past 3 days to make him mad or not want to talk to me..i dont understand it even more because all of his friends would talk to me during the week.i cant stand it when he wont talk to me and it drives me crazy..i just get all upset and now i have to wait until monday to talk to him..that is if he even will talk.do you have any ideas as to why he wont talk to me?

any suggestions would be greatly appreciated (link)
maybe he is starting to like you too and is scared of your rejection. on any case, it is best just to talk to him about it


15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?

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HELP (link)
it's extremely wrong to hook up with more than one. It's also wrong to just make out with someone that you said you don't even know to well.
Fore the real question A. and C. are probably good choices. B you just said is cute, and he likes someone else. D. seems like just a guy that would go up to any girl and make out with her and might be in more than 1 relationship himself. don't cheat on any of the guys though.




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