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Sounds whiney but here's where Im stuck. He means everything and theres this gorgeous girl that goes to my school. She's Latina and Absolutley perfect in every way of course - and ... he likes her. I know that he does. Maybe not Loves her, but at the same time I know he likes her alot and it just hurts me so much. I've tried confidence tactics.. everywhting. We're quite close... but now we're drifting, because of her!! It seems shes faultless as well.. and he stops tlkaing to me so much now, and I know that hes talking to her in the meantime. The worst thing is, she's nice. She's slim. She's gorgeous. Im slim, Im not a touch on her though. I know he likes me too... but... I just need help. What should I do XD? This is making me down all the time and I just dont want to waste the best years of my life down. I wanna beat her - I want him, I know I can have him. But I cant beat her confidence/sexiness/effortlessness she has. She doesnt even try and she has him... I try... and where does that get me XD? Sorry. Im moaning. Help very much appreciated, though =]. Ta Very Muchly:) (link)
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i kno how thth feels
i mean a lot of ppl go thro tht
wat you should do is.....
DONT TRY!!!!!!
sounds simple right???
wrong!
its hard not 2 try
but just b yourself and if he lks you he wont care about her after a while
you say you dont wanna spend the best years of your life down well dont spend them on a guy thts not worth it b/c if he loves you things will work out
so remember STOP TRYING SO HARD
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Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D (link)
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all i hav 2 say is go 4 it
i mean dont miss out on a great guy b/c your popular
i mean i gave up popularity b/c of tht
but of corse im not as old as you tho
im only 13
so it may b different but i think tht if your really lke this guy go 4 it
i mean y miss out on a gut tht may b your soal mate b/c all your friends say no
and yes age is just a #
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hi well, okay lets see im a muslim girl. and i have a boyfriend....and i just wanna know the opinions of other muslim people out there about dating? sex before marriage? and of these other issues related to the drama teens face these days. also, how do you judge how 'muslim' someone is? please answer - if your muslim. any other comments are also appreciated. (link)
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ok now im not muslim but i kno a lot about love and relationships and being a teen so i think tht if you love this boy and i mean love the kind of love tht no one can stand in the way and you would do anything 4 him and he would do anything 4 you then you should do wat your heart tells you i belive in waiting untill your married to hav sex lke it matters but all i hav 2 say is go with your heart
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I always have this problem.
My heart is always torn between two different guys.
I've got this one guy. He knows where he's going in life. The only thing, is he is in a band and it is always hope with that stuff. They don't know if they will get a record deal, and get tons of money. But he has graduated high school, is getting his driver's liscence, and heavily also looking for a job while dealing with the band.
The other guy. He is pretty much homeless, a high school dropout, no body really likes him, and i don't even know what else. But he really cares for me and would do anything for me. I mean anything.
Seems easy, right? Well it's not. The story is, I was dating the guy with the band, and i kinda ended up cheating on him with the other guy. Now he says that he doesn't hate me for it, but it's going to take him a while to get over it. He also says that in the future if things don't work out we might get back together, but I just really don't know. I really miss him because I at least know with him I was going to get supported in any way possible.
Also, I may be pregnant. The thing with that is, I would have no idea whose it would be, and the guy that i am with that is homeless and makes no money seriously thinks its his, and i think it may be (or i just want it to be) the guy who is actually going somewhere with his life, but then there is also this other guy i dated like 2 months ago whose it might be if i am. but i haven't had that monthly thing in a month and a half, and i am getting kind of worried. I just don't know guys, any help possible would be great. anything you can say, say it. i am in a serious rut here. thanks guys. (link)
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wow ok ummmm i think tht you should go 4 the one you really love and 2 me it seems lke you dont love either of them i mean love is something tht cant b brought together b/c of a baby i mean i kno it would b a lil hard 4 the baby b/c i am someone who was born under a situation lke tht but wat i think is tht you should get a dna test and you should wen the baby is born tell him/her who their father is so theres not any mixup later on in life so your kid wont hate you 4 not tellin and the story can go on and on but go with your heart it dosnt matter who can support you or who the babys father is but wat dose matter is wat your heart tells you so thts all i can tell you to do
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I had a dream that I was on the beach with some of my friends. I think we had gone to like this island and they had like one of those hotel shares and if you went to certain areas you would be at the beach. So I went to the beach with some of my friends and one of them is this girl that my boyfriend and I (in real life) talk about maybe one day having a 3some with. I dreamt that I asked her if she wanted to be daring and go skinny dipping. She was like yeah. She took off and had all of her clothes off and was in the water before me. Then I came and it was so awesome. I was diving and breathing underwater and totally relaxed. Somehow it turned into a movie. When we reviewed the movie at the end of the night, everyone was so proud of my choice and how care free I was, one girl even said that she wished she could be as proud of her body as I was, and she was skinnier than me. I was very proud of my self and happy with the choice I had made. When someone asked me why I did it I said, " I'm glad I did it, I have always admired people who have been able to skinny dip. They are not worried about anything. They just take a chance and go for it". Does anyone know what this dream means? I haven't been able to find anything under skinny dipping that applies to me cause they are usually about being embarissed or something, and I was not embarissed at all.
Thank you for your input. (link)
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ok im a dream interpreter and this is hard without knoing the whole situation anyway from the information you gav it seems to me lke your uptight and ppl tld you tht you needed to hang loose so in your dream you tried being loose and you lked it a lot and so you,i cant think of the word,let everyone see the person you always wanted 2 be but was 2 scared so i would sugest tht you need 2 hang loose and not b so uptight and i really hope tht you lke it and everyone will b proud of you just lke in your dream now i hope you dont make skinnydipping a movie but if tht is wat makes you happy then go 4 it i mean r you uptight?
im sorry this isnt my best advice b/c im half asleep so ill answer it better later
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ok so we just got back to school on wednesday because of winter break..and of course i hadnt talked to some ppl over break because well it was break..when i got back, i really wanted to talk to my friend kevin because i hadnt seen him in so long.well i actually really really like him and i missed him..anyway..on wednesday he smiled at me but that was really the only time he really acknowledged me..on thursday at lunch i looked over at his table and smiled and he kinda smiled back but then he like stared off into space and i could tell he was really thinking about something but idk what. then i was walking like right behind him and i know he saw me because he turned around and half glanced at me but didnt say anything.friday morning i was walking to 1st period with my 2 guys friends and we passed him but and he smiled at me but at lunch he didnt look at me once..[usually during lunch we smile at each other alot and he gives me alot of attention]..then when i passed him in the hall we made eye contact for like 3 seconds but then he kept looking straight foward and i could tell he was trying not to look in my direction.
i dont get why hes acting like this at all..i didnt do anything in the past 3 days to make him mad or not want to talk to me..i dont understand it even more because all of his friends would talk to me during the week.i cant stand it when he wont talk to me and it drives me crazy..i just get all upset and now i have to wait until monday to talk to him..that is if he even will talk.do you have any ideas as to why he wont talk to me?
any suggestions would be greatly appreciated (link)
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well mabey a gurl tht is kinda your friend lkes him and was jelious of wat a close relationship you hav with him and said somethin about you to him and it turned him off so wat you can do is pay close attenion to all your friends oh tht means guys 2 excep tht their jelious of him b/c they lke you so ya or try this approach (wat i would do wich actually i do all the time but this fits my personality)just go up and ask him "wat the heck did i do?"if he walks away then call him if you hav his number then just beg him 2 tell you and (if hes single)tell him tht you really lke him and would hate 2 loose him as a friend
im sorry if i rambled i do tht a lot
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alright, well like many teenage girls i want to lose weight.
however, i cant resort to an eating disorder - unfortunately ive tried and i cant bring myself to do it.
i cant buy pills because im under 18.
and i cant join i gym because i dont have my license yet, a job to pay for it, or the time to do it because of school.
what can i POSSIBLY do. its not like i want to cut my weight in half, because that would be ridiculous, but i want to be skinnier, because im not exactly the slimmest of my friends. (link)
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well...u could eat more salads and eat healthier im not one 2 be tlkin b/c i am just getting out of starving myself....its not worth it so i would not take diet pills tht is considerd a eating disorder so wat i would do is go on a strict diet
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well, my birthday is coming up and so i'm having like a little dinner/fun time at a hotel kind of thing. but, since it's not a humongous party, more like a group of maybe 20 people, i decided to have all of these really fun and sexy games. I know everyone is going to love them and it's going to be amazing. Last night I stayed up all night making them and i was having so much fun. But, now, in the morning, I kind of feel stupid. I don' know why. I just think it's stupid of me to have them. But at night, I get super excited about it again. I don't know why this happends?? Does anyone know?? (link)
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ok well i think tht the reason is b/c its ment 2 happen at night so it is only exciting at night and it wouldnt b ANY fun during the day
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Sorry but this is going to be long!
Okay so everyone has their little crushes but yeah! I'm crushing on this guy and I just like him so much. He's tall and hot and i dont know... there's just something about him that really makes me happy. I never get to see him. We go to different schools. Plus he's 3 years older than me which is kind of a lot. Anyways like he came all the way out of his town to see me. He drove all the way to where my cousin lives to see me. I guess... but I don't think he likes me because he didn't talk to me when he came over there he just checked me out a little bit and kind of followed me. Is he shy or what? I don't really know. And he always gets off myspace when I get on. So he doesnt really even attempt to flirt. He's driving me crazy. I mean he always tells my cousin to come get me but I think he doesnt really like me that much. Any advice on what I can do about this? thanks soo much in advance! (link)
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ok well umm......im sorry if this is insulting but ........duh!!!!i mean its so obvious he soooo lkes u i mean hes shy but go 4 it
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15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?
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HELP (link)
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ok tht was long but i understand i was in tht situation almost right to the point i chose wat in ur case would be my b first and it worked but not completely b/c of the other gurl then we broke up and i went out with c and it worked for a long time but sice we were best friends it didnt work out really well he is still in love with me but im only his friend then i went out with a it worked and could hav worked longer if my best girl friend hadnt talked me into breaking up with him any way i really wanted 2 go out with d the whole time so i would work on d i mean y go thro all thosr guys and break all their hearts wen u really lke d?i am working on d 2 but i also only c him once every month so give d a shot(oh and the only real difference is added a few things(my business)and minus the make out with d)
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