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Gender: Female
Occupation: school
Age: 14
AIM: ask for itt.
Member Since: January 6, 2008
Answers: 3
Last Update: January 8, 2008
Visitors: 562


so i babysit this six year old 3 times a week.
he lies to me all the time about what he can and can't do.
one day he told me something he could do and his mother got mad at me.
i can tell she really doesn't like me now, but she has no one else to babysit for her.
her and her husband both smoke a lot.
when i come home from her house i REEK of ciggarette smoke.
it's disgusting.
i have to scrub myself in the shower to make the smell go away.
but it's still stuck in my jacket, so i smell it everyday.
one day i had my boyfriend pick me up and he was gagging on the smell.
the mother and her husband are both getting new jobs and i'm also afraid i'm going to have later hours, which just can't happen.
it's already effecting my grades because i'm always so tired after.
i just don't know what to do.
i'm one of those people that feel guilty about everything too.
i need a lot of help, please. (link)
i usually dont quit anything and
i never like to qutitt. but in
your situation i would tell them
that you just cant do it because
your school work is more important;


hello there, i am an 18 year old female. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me a month ago and recently told me that he does not love me anymore. I was really hurt at first because I do love him with all my heart but I realised I would rather be his friend than not in his life at all. He then told me that he did not want to be my friend, did not want to talk to me and wanted to forget about me. I dont understand why he wants all of this. if he does not love me then why does it bother him to talk to me. I dont talk to him about us. I talk to him about the world and things in life. Do you think he might still love me and it is hurting him to talk to me? Maybe if I leave him alone like he wants he will realise that he loves me too? I just want this pain in my heart to stop. I lose my bestfriend and boyfriend all at one time and it hurts so bad.

please help (link)
i think he does still love you
or maybe will start loving you
again if he does talk to you.
i would leave him alone and let
him come back to youuu :D
cause if he feels that
way, he deff willll.!


16 F
I've known him since 7th grade and he used to CRACK me up! So anyways we instant message each other everyday and as soon as he signs on he messages me! Awhile ago I liked him a little bit but I wouldn't tell him because I knew it was just a temporary crush. Well he speaks spanish fluently and I just take it at school. It came up so I told him I was "raw" at spanish (hahaha) and he said ok lets try. So he starts out "why are you so retarded?" (we act REALLY silly together) then "what's my name?" then "why are we just friends?" then he says "do you have a boyfriend?" I said no. Then "why not, you're pretty." Then I said I didn't know, most boys are stupid. (Hahaha no offense!) then he said "I don't have a girl either. I'm lonely, tho." Then he said bak to english!! Does it sound like he likes me? That was pretty random! And then he always wants me to pick him up and go eat! I don't kno.... (link)
it does seem like he likes you
maybe he was about to say it but
he didnt know howww. you should
mention something similar to him
like that again and see if he gets
to the point he wanted to get to. :]




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