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So there's this boy that's driving me mad!
Sorry but this is going to be long!
Okay so everyone has their little crushes but yeah! I'm crushing on this guy and I just like him so much. He's tall and hot and i dont know... there's just something about him that really makes me happy. I never get to see him. We go to different schools. Plus he's 3 years older than me which is kind of a lot. Anyways like he came all the way out of his town to see me. He drove all the way to where my cousin lives to see me. I guess... but I don't think he likes me because he didn't talk to me when he came over there he just checked me out a little bit and kind of followed me. Is he shy or what? I don't really know. And he always gets off myspace when I get on. So he doesnt really even attempt to flirt. He's driving me crazy. I mean he always tells my cousin to come get me but I think he doesnt really like me that much. Any advice on what I can do about this? thanks soo much in advance!
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well hes probably just shy i mean i cant even stand near my crush i love him to much. But he probably does like you to drive a longgggg way just to see you. And well all you can do is just like wait
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You've got to say to him..Listen I can't stand how you're giving me mixed signals, are you, or are you not interested in getting to know me, and not just my looks. You've got to show him that you're strong and that if he doesn't make a move soon, you're going to move on. Don't let any guy bring you down, tell him how you feel. Make sure to be clear with what you say and always keep your head high with confidence no matter what:)
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ok well umm......im sorry if this is insulting but ........duh!!!!i mean its so obvious he soooo lkes u i mean hes shy but go 4 it
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umm i dont think he likes you he didnt try to talk to you,he didnt say he liked you or make any contact with you....i just think he thinks your pretty or hot and thats why hes always chekin you out and wantin to see you...i think you should try and find out what he thinks about you and what he feels for you....and i dont think 3 yearz is too old for you
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I'll be honest with you...I think you should let it go. Unless you know theres a good chance of you two becoming friends, seeing each other more, and actually talking more, then let it go. Three years is a big difference and might be too much for some people. Don't get your hopes up yet if you aren't even good friends with him. You could keep daydreaming if you want, but if nothing ever changes or happens then you're left with nothing. Try to see if you can get to know him a bit better, but for the mean time just try to not think about him as much. If he's not making the effort to talk to you it could be because he is shy, but of somebody three years younger than him? It could also be that he doesn't like you or isn't thinking anything of it. You won't know what it is until you become friends with him and talk to him enough to find out. Hope that helped and good luck.
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maybe he is scared and intimidated there is a 3 year difference between you two so maybe he likes you but is denying for his sake give him time maybe thats all he needs just make sure he knows your interested
hope this helps :)
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It is possible that he is shy. If he keeps asking about you and trying to find ways to see you, then he probably likes you. He may just tend to freeze when he gets around you. I would try seeing him when you can and want to, and bring him out of his turtle shell. If you try to bring out the personality in him, maybe it won't be so awkward anymore. You said that he gets off myspace when you come on? Maybe, he just is scared to make the first move on you. Or, scared to talk to you because he is shy. Hopefully, when he gets more acquainted with you, he will be more pleasant to be around. Good Luck!!
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