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Really simple .. How do you flirt !? Ino it sounds stupid but i dnoo lol. Please help x (link)
try this website it has everything from flirting to kissing
myjellybean.com
hope this helps :)


I see a school counselor. He said that if I hurt myself or others, he has to tell me parents. If I tell him that I'm bulemic .. doesn he have to tell my parents? (link)
yes he would but talk he has to you about it first. they only do that for your own good.


Sorry but this is going to be long!

Okay so everyone has their little crushes but yeah! I'm crushing on this guy and I just like him so much. He's tall and hot and i dont know... there's just something about him that really makes me happy. I never get to see him. We go to different schools. Plus he's 3 years older than me which is kind of a lot. Anyways like he came all the way out of his town to see me. He drove all the way to where my cousin lives to see me. I guess... but I don't think he likes me because he didn't talk to me when he came over there he just checked me out a little bit and kind of followed me. Is he shy or what? I don't really know. And he always gets off myspace when I get on. So he doesnt really even attempt to flirt. He's driving me crazy. I mean he always tells my cousin to come get me but I think he doesnt really like me that much. Any advice on what I can do about this? thanks soo much in advance! (link)
maybe he is scared and intimidated there is a 3 year difference between you two so maybe he likes you but is denying for his sake give him time maybe thats all he needs just make sure he knows your interested
hope this helps :)


Ok so i had this dream the other day and i cant get it off my mind it was really weird and i dont remember all of it but i do remember this guy that was amazingly cute and we like fell in love in the dream and i cant seem to get this dream off of my mind i dont know why like the way the guy made me feel was like unblievable and this probably sounds soo strange but i cant get it off my mind any suggestion of either how to get it off my mind or maybe why i ant get it off my mind (link)
maybe you cant get it of your mind because it has a message for you try finding the meaning of it try this website it has a dream dictionary myjellybean.com
hope this helps :)


think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
thankk yoouuu (link)
it would have a warm homey feeling
all the curtains would be handmade
the living room would have faux finish
and must have a fireplace and the second floor has to look out the lower level


What is the 'g-spot' in your vagina, and what does it do? I feel really stupid for asking this, but i have to wonder. What does it do also?
Thanks in advance. (link)
that is an area in the front wall of your vagina some women ejaculate there


((15/f))okay so there is this guy named christian, hes a senior and im a sophomore. we have liked eachother b4 and we started a realtionsip....kinda sorta....it was "complicated" and then one day he decided that it would be better if we stayed friends. so i went out with another guy for two months. i went out with him at first cause i really liked him, but then i realized that i was thinking more about christian then my current boyfriend. so i used him to get christian jelouse.....follow me? well i recently found out that he likes me back, and i really like him. and we got close over the break when we went paintballing with a bunch of people. he like held me when iw as cold and he flirted with me ALOT. i feel like it was my fault that the realtionship ended last time, so i dont know if i want to do anything about it this time. hes going off to college in state, but i can't help but wonder if i should see what we could be. what should i do? (link)
love is a risk , a risk to you might want to take just imagine what it might be and if all fails he will be in another school in collage so if you don't work out you wont see each other much if you don't want to
hope this helps :)


please give me some pointyers and tips on how to be confident because i wnt to BE confident especially like when they say that "pretend that when you walk in a room THAT YOU OWNNNN THAT ROOM" like that.


But I try and i always end up failing and i haattee that!!!


Also another story is whenever i sing karaoke im always laughing and smiling but when i sing in my room i sound like a CONFIDENT WHO CARES! star... thats not shy.. please help me out..


i also wanna be an actress and of course, i know that you have to be confident to be that.




please and thanks in advance ! :D (link)
1. one , think if i was confident i would do...
2.be realistic to much confidence gets you consided little confidence gets you nowhere
3.put yourself in the mindset before doing things
4. keep track of your achievements to bring out your inner confidence
5.commit yourself
6. really know what you want out of it and go for it

hope this helps :)


I was wondering if anyone knew any body parts that start with the letter D? haha, i know it sounds random, but I need to know! thanks!! :) (link)
wow duodenum (part of the intestine)starts with d hope this helps :)


(15/Female)
Recently my mom found my Xanga, I swear I had it on a private lock so I used it as a private journal to deal with my depression and everything going on.

Well, she found it and read everything. She read about my anorexia, fooling around with boys, cussing, smoking, drinking, the one-time pot smoking, the times when I hated her. To make things worse, she was admitted to the hospital the day she found it. She hasn't talked to me about it yet because she's still in the hospital but I overheard her telling my dad she found it. This will be the third time I'll be in trouble this Christmas break. (She already found out about the messing around with boys thing, also about the pot smoking) But still, I'm afraid she won't be able to forgive me.

I'm not sure how I should handle this and how I should get my life back on track. I used to be a straight A, cheerleading, loving life kind of girl. (link)
research all your conditions ask yourself why is this going on get help open up what happened who are you set goals for yourself i hope this helps :)


what to do i have a best firend who saved me from suicide 3 times she is awsome and she was there for me when my g.f was killed and its been 4 month since she died and i relised now i relley like my best freied cause she is beutiful and cool she is awsome but she says she loves me as a brother and some times she says she just loves me but the relly loves my best friend who he is like my brother but i dont know what 2 do cause i know he likes her but he says he wont be arpund that long but what should i do just back off or try 2 make her relise that i love her (link)
through hints here and there prove to her you are her man !sound open about your best friend but don't do anything towards or against them remember all is fair in love and war hope this helps :)


okay, well i have a major problem. My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and im 13. We did it for the first time 1 months ago. I haven't gotten my period in a while, and im starting to get scared. Another thing though, is that i caught my boyfriend cheating on my w/ my best friends mom the other week. I dunno what to do, especially if im pregnant. HELP!! (link)
calm down first how about buy one of those tests to see if you are pregnant and tell your boyfriend how you are worried and be very straight forward just be very open about what your future might be


-if u read my first one then youll get what im saying- today my friend asked the guy i liked out for me and asked him if he liked me and of corse i didnt want her to but she keeps doing it and i keep tellin her not to but she just wont listen, well after she asked him he got really mad and said why does every one keep asking me that and now hes like not talking to me and avoiding me! i really like him and dont wanna get over him and i want to be friends with him again but he wont talk/listen to me n e more because of my friend! What should i do to 1. make her stop and 2. make him talk to me again!
Please help
I rate 5's (link)
you need to consider who are you willing to sacrifice your friend or the guy can is the guy be worth it in the end? are your friends good friends? i was in the same situation and i realized how much i liked him and his friendship and in the end he did like me , now he is my boyfriend


14/f

i have dry skin on my face.. not my whole entire face.. but just some parts. i don't know when it started to become dry, but right now.. i'm using calming creme.. it's to help dry skin, which my dad recommended for dry skin. is there any other way i can help make it not come back and stuff?

p.s i don't have any money in my family & such to go see a therapist or anything like that.. we don't even have insurance. (link)
try vasaline it works like a charm and its good for your lips . in addition to being cheap :)


I have a pimple under the skin on my bottom lip. I mean, it's not a bump.. I pulled my lip up to see a circle and a dot on it. You can't even see it.. it's just my lip color. My mom said it was a pimple under the skin so I'm going to go with what she said. I noticed something was off with my lips because that side was dry. But my lips are not chapped or cracked. Is there anything I can do to make it go away? (link)
if it is truly a pimple put toothpaste it works pretty fast hope i helped :)


On the top half of my arm below my shoulder and above my el ow are these bumps.
they are small and look like zits but they arent for sure

ive had them since about 5th grade and am now in 9th.

any idea what they are or how you can cure them.

going to the dermatologist or doctor is out of the question. (link)
that is the result of bad circulation just buy a mesh


I'm getting my haircut soon. I want to get my eyebrows done as well. I want to get it done on a school night, so my hair is done for the next day. Would it be a bad idea to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time when I have school the next day? I've tweezed them before, but never waxed. I just don't want them to be all red the next day at school.
Thanks. (link)
don't , it has bad idea all over it


This is going to sound like the most craziest thing ever. im really kinda ambarrased about it. Some of my guy friends like to give "props" or handshakes. The thing is I dont know how to. I get all nervous and stuff. I dont even know why I do. The thing is Im really shy sometimes. What I say if they make fun of me? (link)
okay , props usually mean high 5s and handshakes need to be firm with eye contact don't get nervous it isn't a big deal and if they make fun of u its no big deal i done dumber things like not knowing what asap meant and asking i got a laugh years later




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