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My mom knows everything.
(15/Female)
Recently my mom found my Xanga, I swear I had it on a private lock so I used it as a private journal to deal with my depression and everything going on.
Well, she found it and read everything. She read about my anorexia, fooling around with boys, cussing, smoking, drinking, the one-time pot smoking, the times when I hated her. To make things worse, she was admitted to the hospital the day she found it. She hasn't talked to me about it yet because she's still in the hospital but I overheard her telling my dad she found it. This will be the third time I'll be in trouble this Christmas break. (She already found out about the messing around with boys thing, also about the pot smoking) But still, I'm afraid she won't be able to forgive me.
I'm not sure how I should handle this and how I should get my life back on track. I used to be a straight A, cheerleading, loving life kind of girl.
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I think its very luck your mom found out everything. She will help you put your life on track, even though she is probably shocked and angry right now, she is your mother, she loves you, and will forgive you, and she knows what is best for you.
I'm pretty sure that she won't let you out of the house anymore, because she completely lost trust in you. Tell her you love her, and tell her you want your life to be back on track. It will be rough, but it'll be worth it.
~Maria, 16
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trust me around your age teenagers tend to have a strong urge to experiment with different things.you might not know it but your mom might have done some of the things youve done!i think the best thing to do is talk to your mom!not to much your dad because he wont be as understanding.at the moment your mom is probably feeling a strong left out feeling because you kept all these thing away from her.she probably feels a certain feeling of dissapointment because she thinks that it is her fault that you have done all these things and kept them away from her!you really need to understand that at your age life is extremely confusing and teenagers feel the need to fit in and be perfect because they think that life would be less stressing.take a moment and try to figure out why you felt the need to do the things you did...explore the possibility of the friends you hang with, what youve seen on t.v.,soomething you read,or maybe problems at home.once you find the problem you can try to solve it.at the time that you did these things it might have felt good at the moment but trust me over time it will begin to become mentally and physically damaging to you,friends,or family(your mom).think about how your actions affects you and the people around you.once you understand the extreme danger of it i think you will be able to cope with your need for unnecessary experiment and be able to turn your life around.please remember that it is not to late to turn your life around and get your life and mother back! you just have to be consistent and believe in yourself!good luck!!!
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research all your conditions ask yourself why is this going on get help open up what happened who are you set goals for yourself i hope this helps :)
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