Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D
goth_gurl_101 answered Sunday January 27 2008, 3:47 pm: all i hav 2 say is go 4 it
i mean dont miss out on a great guy b/c your popular
i mean i gave up popularity b/c of tht
but of corse im not as old as you tho
im only 13
so it may b different but i think tht if your really lke this guy go 4 it
i mean y miss out on a gut tht may b your soal mate b/c all your friends say no
and yes age is just a # [ goth_gurl_101's advice column | Ask goth_gurl_101 A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Sunday January 27 2008, 3:40 pm: I'm not gonna lie i think its kinda awkward when i see freshman and juniors going out at my school. But When it comes down to it if you really like him then you should go for it. You shouldn't care what other people are saying. Age is just a number, if any average person saw you together they wouldn't judge you on how old your boyfriend was, nor would they care probably.
good luck =]
Uniq_The_Geek answered Sunday January 27 2008, 11:40 am: lol this is cute. age IS nothing but a number. forget about what people think b/c some just envy you and want to be superior. others just follow the leader (society). so think about what you want. from what i see, he seems to have caught your eye pretty well so give it a shot! but just make sure he's what you want and not just acting it. good luck
kittaytoro answered Sunday January 27 2008, 11:36 am: Age definitely is just a number!
It varies with everyone what their maturity level really is--and that's mainly all that manners, how they handle themselves, ect. Some married couples are more than ten years apart, so it obviously isn't a problem.
Maybe it's not as 'normal' to be dating a freshman for you, because the 'ideal' couple I guess would be where the guy's older or the same age, but really.. who goes with the 'ideal' anything, anymore?
Take a chance with this kid, you never know what you'll find! :)
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