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Guy help.
Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like?
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well dont just date anyone b/c its dating you have to date someone you like. And dont try to change yourself b/c a guy has to like you for you. When the time comes youll have the perceft guy.
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I think it's great you've never had a boyfriend. If I were you, i would have been like that too. trust me, please it is so much better to WAIT for the right guy than to just date, to date.
I think you shouldn't have to do anything to get a guys attention, because if they like you enough you don't have to impress them.
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I had the same problem. Last semester i had a huge crush on this guy in my class. But he never seemed to look at me or even notice me. Try going out with a guy if he asks you. You will get to know them better and maybe grow to have a crush on them. I liked a guy named Matt but i went out with a guy named AJ and had a blast i got to know him and before I knew it I was over Matt and totaly crushing on AJ.
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Just be yourself, show guys that you have independence, if you're shy, try not to be. As I said be yourself and let that shine through. It's not a bad thing to try to find out what the guy you like is interested in. Try to make conversation, as best you can. Don't ever think that any guy is out of your league. You can attract any guy as long as you put your mind to it. Hope I could help:):)
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If its for a guy you like whose attention you want, the best way of doing that is just being his friend. If you just casually talk to him here and there, sure, you might get noticed. But to get his attention and have any chance of creating something more than just friends...well you have to start out by being friends. If you have to change too much to be asked out or noticed by other guys then it may not be worth it. Oh, and please don't think all guys really do go for looks. I'm sure you wouldn't want to date one if he liked you just because of the way you looked anyways. So really, it might take some time but just trying to be really good friends and getting know your guy friends will eventually draw them closer to you and from there you can choose which ones might develop into something more and which won't. Hope that helped and good luck.
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okay
first of all, guys are never out of your league. This may sound cheesy, but you could get ANY guy you want. Thats a fact..trust me
Well, you don't want to get attention from guys through dressing slutty or revealing your body, but other ways. Guys like confidence and friendliness. Just smile, walk up to the guys directly(including the ones you like) and flirt! Don't be shy, just be your self and have a conversation with them, like they are your close friends.
Eventually, they will like you, and want your attention more and more.
But to the guys who ask you out, you might want to give them a chance, because sometimes the perfect guy, isnt the guy in shining armor (sorry, if thats a little cheesy)
Hope i helped! :)
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I can relate to your situation, as i have never had a girlfriend (or boyfriend). I would suggest patience, as 15 is one of the most hormone driven periods in our lives, and outside pressures don't help it at all.
Your normal, dont worry about it
if you want guys, then just be more open to them, and try to talk them without a group of friends around you, its intimidating to most guy.
thats about all the advice i can give you, i hope it helps some.
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i'm a guy so you can probably belive this. Most people who think they are ugly look ugly to others but when you don't feel ugly your good to be around. It's all your perspective. Noone is out of your league if you tell them you like them. I'm also 15 and I understand your problem. It's not because I feel ugly. I've never had a girlfriend because I get to scared to ask them out. I have an extreme fear of rejection. Now back to your question, I apologize, Just tell who you like how you feel.
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