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ok first of all im a girl im 13 and im a tomboy all i have in my dresser is baggy camo pants and jeans and then t-shirts 4 sizes too big and i wear that stuff everywhere i never wear pink or purple unless its at the school day camp in the summer because you have to wear t-shirts that mach everyone eles and they are purple and blue so thats the only time i wear purple and then i dont wear make up mom said that we could have make up whenever we wanted it but i dont want it i wish i did but i just dont and i have football practice everyday after school and the only friend i have that is a girl is my best friend monica i feel like i like a boy and then my stupid mind cant just keep on liking him and thinking about him it just finds somthing bad about him and then i dont like him anymore and then i want to be skinny im not fat but im very muscular i even have six pack abs but i just want to be skinny like all the other girls i want to be able to wear a size 14 but i cant and i never will because it will take years to get ride of all this muscle i dont want my muscle to go away i dont want to lose all the boys that are my friends i love foot ball im failing math and history and every report card i have gotten since 2nd grade it has been A pluses in P.E. and D minus in math i get in fights with the school bully almost every other week im the only one that will stand up to him and i win most of the time but all the girls tease me one day i even got backed up into the wall sarounded by girls and one of them brought out a make up bags but i got away and every time i have a birthday even if i dont have a party the preppy girls would all give me pink and green and blue shirts with stupid little butterflys on them and i kept sewing them up into teddy bears and giving them to my cousins dont get me wrong like i might of said before i love football and i love having all these guy friends and i like being conterbale and not like the other girls who have to go in the bathroom every 5 minutes to take of there shirt and get air cause there clothes are so tight and there faces look fake because of all the make up they wear and i have stomach problems and one time i was having surgery and couldnt go to football practice for a month it was just one more thing that the girl teased me for the boys were really nice about it trying not to be to ruff with me but the girls would slap me and tease me and everything one even almost took my shirt off completly so that everyone could see my completly hidious stomach after sugery and one of the boys hit her and went to tell the princable and then one time all i did was forget my lunch and mom came to bring it to me and then the girls were saying stuff like im so dumb i couldent even remember my lunch and then another girl said that i was so dumb that i couldnt even dress myself properly the only place that i feel loved is out there on the football field im not even sure i want to change now but i just want to know how to deal with this stuff oh and i have 2 best friends on the whole intier planet one is monica and another is a black boy named evan and the girls started teasing me because i was friends with a black kid i started yelling and said that all because he is black dosnt mean that he is any diffrent then us and the she said US you mean you that really got me afended i dont want to change i just want to know what to do about all this its really distroing my life please help and thanks in advance (link)
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honestly
you should care what those girls say
because they sound ignorant and fake
they seem like barbie dolls
do you really want to change just because a group of stupid girls, made a few rude comments.
its great, that u stick up 4 urself and ur friend.
bt honestly, it sounds like they might be jealous, becuase you get to hang out with all of the guys.
You shouldnt care what those girls think of you because, they obviously find looks, to be the only important thing in life. which is untrue!
atleast, you have REAL friends who like you for who you are, and you have your own style.
its okay to be different.
my advice to you, is to tell those chicks
to shut the hell up
becasue they have no reason to talk to you like that with their trashy attitude.
They are no better than you, and im sure people would rather be you than with them.
hope you feel better
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ok so this really really stupid 7 year old says she has a boyfriend and they had sex what do i do about it she said that her and her boyfriend had sex please help its kind of freaking me out and she said when she sees me tonight that she wants to have sex with my brother what do i do (link)
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well
first of all
ask her, what she considers sex
becuase there may be a misunderstanding especially
since she is only 7
you can talk to your brother
and give the sex talk
and explain the dangers
and you might want to tell your parents
because they may be able to help
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I am only sixteen years old. i have a son who just turned one. i am finishing up high school. my parents are going throw a brutel divorce. my dads abusive. (thats who i am living with) my mom has to many people living with her for me and my son to stay there and my dad refuses to let me leave. I cant find a job and i been looking since i had my son. i feel depressed even though a doctor told me im not. i feel that i cant handle all this anymore. my sons father just started helping but its not enough he works at a convient. i dont know what im looking for i need advice. or something please help me. (link)
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well
look at the good things in your life
at the current moment
like, your adorable son who loves you
and your parents who are letting you stay in the house
dont worry
a job will show up when the time is right
everything happens for a reason
just breathe, and try to live positively because you shouldnt be depressed,
because that takes away an oppurtunity for you to experience sometihng good :)
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do guys like tomboys or do they think of tomboys as a guy friend and save the pretty girls for there girlfriends or do some boys like tomboys if so please tell and what makes a girl sexy i would like to know (link)
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guys dont like a specific type of girl
there are different types of guys
with different tastes in girls
some like tomboys, some like girly girls
it just depends on the guys
usually,
confidence and smile
are the sexy things in a girl
(i know it sounds cheesy)
but its true
hope i helped
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i love this guy, we talked and he was talking to me like a guy would talk to a girl he might like and he told me i was cute and everything then one of my best friends came into the picture and ever since then hes been talking to her the same way and talking to me more just like a regular person and im really upset, how should i handle this? 14/f (link)
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the guy you may like, sounds like a heavy flirt.
You should talk to your best friend,and ask her, what shes doing. If you like a guy, your best friend shouldnt try taking him away.
But, its his loss, if he got over you. You should never let a guy get you upset, because eventually you will look back at this, and laugh..at him, for letting you go.
If you want to be a little more blunt, you can ask him to his face, what he thinks of your best friend.
Hope i helped! :)
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Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like? (link)
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okay
first of all, guys are never out of your league. This may sound cheesy, but you could get ANY guy you want. Thats a fact..trust me
Well, you don't want to get attention from guys through dressing slutty or revealing your body, but other ways. Guys like confidence and friendliness. Just smile, walk up to the guys directly(including the ones you like) and flirt! Don't be shy, just be your self and have a conversation with them, like they are your close friends.
Eventually, they will like you, and want your attention more and more.
But to the guys who ask you out, you might want to give them a chance, because sometimes the perfect guy, isnt the guy in shining armor (sorry, if thats a little cheesy)
Hope i helped! :)
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I can't think of a good screen name for aim. I want something i can live with for a while. something maybe meaningful? (link)
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Well first of all, most people change their screen names because they find it too silly or immature, or becuase it doesnt match their personality.
So, i would reccomend choosing a screen name with you name in it, because that never looks stupid.
But if you want something meaningful, then it should matcch your opinion on something, bt that may not fit in a screename.
You can say like
BusyLivingLife
NeverBusy4Fun
or
like if your name is Jane
you can say
Oops Jane
Oh its Jane
or something
just have fun with the one you choose =)
hope i helped
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do i have to change my pad even if i didnt have my period or can i just keep it on until i have my period thanks (link)
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hey
i reccomend that you change your pad frequently
because, it is sanitary
even if you do not have your period,
you shoud change the pad at minimum, once a day
because you might hav discharge or other things that may get absorbed in the pad
so its better to change the pad frequently =D
hope i helped!
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