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i hate my style and i cant change its all i know
ok first of all im a girl im 13 and im a tomboy all i have in my dresser is baggy camo pants and jeans and then t-shirts 4 sizes too big and i wear that stuff everywhere i never wear pink or purple unless its at the school day camp in the summer because you have to wear t-shirts that mach everyone eles and they are purple and blue so thats the only time i wear purple and then i dont wear make up mom said that we could have make up whenever we wanted it but i dont want it i wish i did but i just dont and i have football practice everyday after school and the only friend i have that is a girl is my best friend monica i feel like i like a boy and then my stupid mind cant just keep on liking him and thinking about him it just finds somthing bad about him and then i dont like him anymore and then i want to be skinny im not fat but im very muscular i even have six pack abs but i just want to be skinny like all the other girls i want to be able to wear a size 14 but i cant and i never will because it will take years to get ride of all this muscle i dont want my muscle to go away i dont want to lose all the boys that are my friends i love foot ball im failing math and history and every report card i have gotten since 2nd grade it has been A pluses in P.E. and D minus in math i get in fights with the school bully almost every other week im the only one that will stand up to him and i win most of the time but all the girls tease me one day i even got backed up into the wall sarounded by girls and one of them brought out a make up bags but i got away and every time i have a birthday even if i dont have a party the preppy girls would all give me pink and green and blue shirts with stupid little butterflys on them and i kept sewing them up into teddy bears and giving them to my cousins dont get me wrong like i might of said before i love football and i love having all these guy friends and i like being conterbale and not like the other girls who have to go in the bathroom every 5 minutes to take of there shirt and get air cause there clothes are so tight and there faces look fake because of all the make up they wear and i have stomach problems and one time i was having surgery and couldnt go to football practice for a month it was just one more thing that the girl teased me for the boys were really nice about it trying not to be to ruff with me but the girls would slap me and tease me and everything one even almost took my shirt off completly so that everyone could see my completly hidious stomach after sugery and one of the boys hit her and went to tell the princable and then one time all i did was forget my lunch and mom came to bring it to me and then the girls were saying stuff like im so dumb i couldent even remember my lunch and then another girl said that i was so dumb that i couldnt even dress myself properly the only place that i feel loved is out there on the football field im not even sure i want to change now but i just want to know how to deal with this stuff oh and i have 2 best friends on the whole intier planet one is monica and another is a black boy named evan and the girls started teasing me because i was friends with a black kid i started yelling and said that all because he is black dosnt mean that he is any diffrent then us and the she said US you mean you that really got me afended i dont want to change i just want to know what to do about all this its really distroing my life please help and thanks in advance
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Just wait it out. All those girls are probably afraid of you because you're so different. Since you are not like them, they think they must change you or pick on you for it. Don't give them any reaction. If it's bothering you that much, get your mom to talk to the school about it. They can help by direct ways or nondirect. I'm sure there will be some adult figure around you or within your sight.. so no one could hit you. Don't change for anyone but yourself. They are just ignorant immature girls. It gets better later. You won't be judged by your appearance or the sports you play. There's some really great successful popular tomboys at my highschool. You can try makeup, you don't have to be a barbie about it either. Maybe just some mascara or eyeliner. You don't even have to go outside with it in. Just try it one day with your mom on the weekend. See if it's okay to you or not. Little things make a difference. It's not really noticeable. You could try buying new clothes, not necessary baggy. I was the same as you. It took me years to change my clothes and everything. It's good to come out of wearing baggy things. It gives you.. more confidence in a way. If you're happy with the way you are, then don't change anything. But if you're unhappy.. then tweak a few times. Don't buy clothes so baggy and loose. Just buy something a bit more fitting but comfortable to you. I never liked those colorful butterfly shirts either. You can just look for plain t-shirts.. You shouldn't be like the other girls. Just be yourself. If you don't want all the muscle, then don't work out as often.
I think you should tell somebody this so you can get those people off your back. Who cares what they say ..if you need help from an adult. Because it's not fair that there's people against ONE person. it's just singling you out. you shouldn't have to hate going to school or anything like that. I'm sure the girls are jealous of you in a way because you're so much closer to the guys than they are.
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honestly
you should care what those girls say
because they sound ignorant and fake
they seem like barbie dolls
do you really want to change just because a group of stupid girls, made a few rude comments.
its great, that u stick up 4 urself and ur friend.
bt honestly, it sounds like they might be jealous, becuase you get to hang out with all of the guys.
You shouldnt care what those girls think of you because, they obviously find looks, to be the only important thing in life. which is untrue!
atleast, you have REAL friends who like you for who you are, and you have your own style.
its okay to be different.
my advice to you, is to tell those chicks
to shut the hell up
becasue they have no reason to talk to you like that with their trashy attitude.
They are no better than you, and im sure people would rather be you than with them.
hope you feel better
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