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this really stupid girl that wants to be my friend thinks th


Question Posted Wednesday January 9 2008, 1:45 pm

ok so this really really stupid 7 year old says she has a boyfriend and they had sex what do i do about it she said that her and her boyfriend had sex please help its kind of freaking me out and she said when she sees me tonight that she wants to have sex with my brother what do i do

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queenhearts answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 4:33 pm:
Yes, tell your parents about this so they can pass it along. At a young age, of course you're going to be curious. I've heard of some incidents where little kids would get naked in front of each other and misinterpret their actions as something bigger [for example, "touching" would be like sex.. when obviously it's not] If that girl hasn't had a sex talk.. then I doubt she knows what it is exactly. You could talk to her and ask her what sex is.. just to get her definition of it. My sister who is 6.. thought sex was getting on top of each while being clothed until she got corrected. So she probably has no clue what it is or she's lying. I wouldn't keep those two alone though. You should keep an eye out of her or tell somebody about it.

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Razhie answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 4:14 pm:
Tell your parents, ask them to tell hers. Or, tell her parents yourself.

At seven she has no right to privacy. What she needs is some serious adult involvment. She might simply be confused or she might be lying, regardless, get a trusted adult involved.

Stop stressing yourself out, this is problem for the adults to deal with. Tell them about it so that they can take charge of it.

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sumanthuh answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 3:42 pm:
well
first of all
ask her, what she considers sex
becuase there may be a misunderstanding especially
since she is only 7

you can talk to your brother
and give the sex talk
and explain the dangers

and you might want to tell your parents
because they may be able to help

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