Member Since: January 2, 2008
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Last Update: January 3, 2008
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13/ F
ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz
i like this boy lets call him B
and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???
this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to
so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys
should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me
please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz
i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?
yes i rate (link)
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I had a friend like this once. Everything i did she did and i know it was because she was jealous of me. I Stayed friends with her for 8 years but there came a time where enough is enough. I don't want to tell you to stop being friends with her but you should watch out for her. She probably has issues where she jsut needs attention and that's one way she knows how to get it. Besides you say she is moving soon if she is really a friend she will stay in contact with you if not then just move on. I can tell she is going to be just like my ex best friend. These type of people you have to keep away from you because the day you least expect it they will back stab you. I don't believe in the rule that oh i when out with this guy and you can't date him. You you broke it off was for a reason and if someone else comes along and wants to date him they are free to do so. But i do think that if you still have feelings for your ex your friend shouldn't try to get with him. You also mentioned she has does this before that lets me further know that this pattern isn't pure coinsidence.
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im an 18/f my bf is 19/m. i have been with my bf for almost 2 years. we have had our rough times, and i dont feel he is committed to me. he hasnt cheated to my knowledge, but we havent been together for more than 8 months straight without being on a break.
tonight i took his phone and looked through his facebook messages. was it invasive? yes it was. but i feel i have the right to know considering his past of flirting with girls online, hooking up with girls during our breaks from going out, etc.
in his messages i saw him encouraging girls to cheat. the girls see hes in a relationship, and they say no, but i am so hurt by this. i really think one day he will cheat on me..im so lost, i love him but i dont want to get hurt. he has promised me before he would stop but he hasnt! he lied to me also. he told me he stopped talking to this one girl, but they havent stopped. he wants to meet up with this girl! he doesnt drive, neither does his mom, and i just feel if he did drive he would dump me or cheat on me. any experiences like this? any advice? thank you (link)
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In my opinion, both of you should go your seperate ways. Reading your boyfriends messages is perfectly fine. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs also, and when we did have seperated myspaces we had each others password and were able to check eachothers accounts at any given time. We now decided to create one for the both of us because we have the same friends. So, don't feel bad about going through his stuff. If you have found evidence that leads you to think that he may be a cheater then there's nothing more you can do. You said it yourself that he is a flirt and surely hasn't changed his ways because he is telling girls online to cheat even though he is in a relationship. You don't need a guy like this. if he really cared about you he would've attempted to change. You also said that he hooked up with girls while you broke up. My boyfriend and I have broken up a lot of times and not once did either of us hook up with any other person. I understand how you love him because I love my boyfriend and that's why I don't want to lose him no matter what, but he doesn't love you he wants to experience other girls. He is young and he is not going to try and settle any time soon.
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Im so obsessed with harry potter. now that the books are all out and there are no new movies i have gotten desprate, so much that i was on youtube watching fake 6th movie trailers. any suggestions? (link)
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I think you should find another hobby. Spend more time with your family, girlfriend/boyfriend, or friends. Work on your grades or eating habits, basically anything wrong in your life you feel like needs change.
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