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best friends sharing a crush
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ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz
i like this boy lets call him B
and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???
this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to
so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys
should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me
please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz
i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?
yes i rate
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The girl below me is 100% right. She can't help it if she likes him. I think you're just really insecure. If this boy, actually likes you, then whats it matter if she likes him? Are you afraid he'll end up liking her? Get over it.
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Nope, sorry. Hes not your property, you don't own him. I understand what you mean, been there done that. But, shes not doing that on purpose. Shes probably not jealous of you either. Like, this one time, my best friend was daitng this one guy, who i hated in the beginning, and we all hanged out in a group, and I always talked to him, and I just got an attraction to him. She can't help it if she likes him. Its just a boy, no need to start World War 3 over the kid, if it bugs you that much, like someone else, and if she ends up liking him, trying setting her up with someone else, or just asking her, "Why do you always like the people I like?"
Maye you both just have good taste.
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I had a friend like this once. Everything i did she did and i know it was because she was jealous of me. I Stayed friends with her for 8 years but there came a time where enough is enough. I don't want to tell you to stop being friends with her but you should watch out for her. She probably has issues where she jsut needs attention and that's one way she knows how to get it. Besides you say she is moving soon if she is really a friend she will stay in contact with you if not then just move on. I can tell she is going to be just like my ex best friend. These type of people you have to keep away from you because the day you least expect it they will back stab you. I don't believe in the rule that oh i when out with this guy and you can't date him. You you broke it off was for a reason and if someone else comes along and wants to date him they are free to do so. But i do think that if you still have feelings for your ex your friend shouldn't try to get with him. You also mentioned she has does this before that lets me further know that this pattern isn't pure coinsidence.
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Like your mum said she could be doing it because she is jelous. But maybe she doesn't so it on purpose. She could genuinly like Blake and if she doe its not her fault because you cannot help who you like. Maybe you two just have a similar taste in lads. I wouldn't let this come between your friendship just yet, afterall friends are more important. But if it becomes too much and she continuously keeps liking the boy you like, confront her about it. Tell her you do not want to argue but its causing a problem that she keeps liking the same people as you and that you think she should fnd her own guyys ;) Good Luck x x
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Maybe she thought you were over him or she wanted him for herself it depends if you still want to be friends or not. And it also i think you should think over if you still like this guy if you really don't let sam take a liking to him.
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo
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There's 2 ways to look at this.
1)-Sam thought that you didn't like Blake anymore and thought he was fair game until you changed your mind.Therefore, no one is in the wrong.
2)-If you have told her you like him, and she still likes him then she is in the wrong. Friends don't date friends ex-boyfriends...it always causes problems.
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