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Q: There are a cOuple of answers i wanna ask , but please [ guys reply Only].

- What makes a guy " want " a girl , like say your in a relationship but what would make you just " lust " or want a girl bad.

- How come guys dont care as much as girls do

- & why do yall not like to express yalls feelings like we do?

Please answer those 3 questions , thanks :)
What makes a guy want a girl...when I first meet a girl I look at their smile. I think that says a few things about them..if they don't brush their teeth, I dont want em. The way a girl dresses to me, is really important. Girls that where big baggy sweatpants and tshirts to school all the time, gross me out and I want nothing to do with them. I'm not saying you have to be attractive to go out with someone. You've just gotta have a good presentation. I hate when girls wear their hair sloppy, and dress like they just woke up. If you look nice, I'll probably be attracted to you. But, then for me, its all personality. I like funny girls, and girls who like to have a good time. I hate girls who act stuck up. Guys do care as much as girls do, atleast I do. Just because I don't come out and say it, doesn't mean I don't like someone. I show girls that I like them, by listening to them when they tell me their whole entire day, word for word. I show them I care when I constantly look at them. I show them I care when I call them or text them alot. I show that I'm thinking about them all the time, when I text them, and just said whats up. Theres alot of things I do. Theres alot of things other guys do too. It just may not be as obvious.

Q: yea i know. online relationships r gay as hell.
anyways.
i.d.k.
i was at my friends house
and she told him that i liked him.
then he was all like
"awh. meri swheetheart
he was probably just joking around, if he has a girlfriend, hes not interested. find someone who you can see everyday. and likes only you.

Q: ok so i like this guy. and he know cuse well i told him. and he said he likes me. the thing is, hes going out with someone adn he loves her alot. like alot alot. like WOAH! alot. also... its kinda online.... yea i know, its lame. im not into online stuff like that... but hes just so sweet and adorable and smart and funny and just positively the most amazing person ever. anyways. he said he loves me but the thing is, with my group of friend both online and in realife, we all say i love u to like anyone. so i dont know. anyways, know he like, doenst talk to me. and i dont know whats going on.
help??
if u want to hear like all the exact details of what he said and stuff, just send me a message cause i really have no idea whats going thru his mind at the moment.
also him and this girl have been on and off 4 about 8 months.
thx.
I don't get it, have you ever met him in person? does he go to your school? if he has a girlfriend.. he does not love you. nor his girlfriend. he just may have a small attraction to you.

you should email me the details..

Q: Okay i was wondering if the mountain dew can had to be empty or not to get in as 12 dollars
hey i live there.

anyways, bring it in full, and if they tell you it has to be empty, drink it. :]

Q: I like this guy who is shy when it comes to girls and weve been friends forever but hes like this all of a sudden. he thinks im scary but who cares i dont wana be like every other girl i stand out haha. He crushed me worse than i ever have been and didn’t realize a thing. He comes back from vacation the last week end of spring break what can I do. I need to do something we went so long with nothing. What can I do or say? he wont go to the mall and says our houses are to akward theres never parties anymore idk were else to go. ANYTHING will help im 14
if he thinks your scary, then hes not gonna really ever wanna have a relationship with you. hes not worth ur time

Q: aright well i was wondering why most guys think it's weird if a girl has big nipples? also i was wondering what size nipples are considered to be big?
i like them biggg.

Q: i had a dream i was walking in the park with my ex-boyfriend

what does that mean?
It means you were walking in the park with your ex-boyfriend.

It means nothing, its just a dream. I've had dreams I lived in the circus and road elephants. Do I like the circus? No. Do I ever think about the circus and/or elephants? No. It's just a dream.

Q: im 13/f, in grade 8, and im only 5'2
i feel so short compared to everyone!!
everyone else is 5'4 and up, and i feel like a grade 6. I know im only 13 and can get my growth spurt, but all my family members are really short, so i doubt i'll grow. Is there still some hope of growing?? and is there something (other than heels) that can make me look and feel taller??
Thanks:)
I'm a guy, and personally I like girls who are shorter. I don't date any girls that are taller then me. I'm only 5'10, but whatever. My twin sister is 5'2 and if you were like clothes that match, like a pink shirt, with the same color pants, it makes you look taller.

Q: ok well its sort of a long story...
first of all ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. we get along extremely well and ive never felt so comftrable around a guy like him. i truly love him and i'd give anything for him & he would too....he used 2 be a player but im pretty much his 1st girlfriend and i doubt that he would be playing with me if he introduced me 2 his whole family...right? the thing is lately we have been having problems..first on saturday i saw he had called his ex fu*k around his baby b0o & it got me sooo mmaadd...then on sunday i found out he gave his number to some other girl...he didint know i knew her but now he does and he said he didint wanna talk 2 her but she asked for his number....anyways 2day some profile [wich i believe is fake] on myspace sent me a message talking about watch out cuz he talking to steph [his x fu*k around] & he telling her he knows he fucked up but hes sorry and all this sh*t...i told him about everything and he says that he never said that but the typing seemed so much like he usually types;/ its driving me crazy not knowing if i should hold on 2 him because they may be haters or if i should let go and try and look 4 someone whos not full of drama but i cant i cant see myself with anybody else...i mean guys will be guys but what if theres more to that? what should i do?????
once a player always a player

even if he changed for a bit hes back to his old ways i have a good friend hes like that, hes amazing, and hilarious but hes just always breakin girls hearts and he trys to change but he just loves girls too much and just hasnt found one that hes crazy about. sorry, but hes not worth it. find a guy who you can trust, theres plenty of em :]

Q: The only thing I heard was "You can put the blame on me, you can put the blame on me, you can put the blame on me". Who is this song by and whats it called?
Sorry, blame it on me. from akon.

Q: How much will it cost? Does the bird will be able to live in domestic environment?
hahah you can't buy a penguin! inless you live in like alaska where it snows and you live by an ocean. my one friend he has 2 tigers and his tigers just had babies, its really really hard for them to keep them, there always fighting with the city, and state, just to let them keep them. so just go to a zoo, maybe they'll let you touch it there?

Q: i dont know if i like this kid. sometimes i think i like this kid. sometimes i dont. he flirts with me a lot. i dont want to give in to that but i do sometimes. idk. also, i dont know if im getting over my ex. i miss him, but i can deal with the reality. basically, my brain is fried from thinking over everything so much, and none of my friends could care less. its the only thing i can think of, and no ones supporting me at all in anything. since day one of the break up, which was months ago, my friends didnt care at all. i just dont know what to do with myself. theres no way of distracting myself. i have no escape. dont bother coming up with ways distracting myself. i just need some help straighting out my mind.


thanks;;
xhopeless
hahaha. you should talk to my sister, i heard her talking on the phone saying these exact words.

just try to get away from it dont talk to this kid right now, just relax focus on school and sports or whatever you do. whenever my sisters upset she like bakes or goes shopping, maybe you could try that?

idk, if you need more help about this because you dont get the answers you wanted, ask me for my sisters screename, ill give it to you.

Q: My and my man have been together for 2 years but a few months ago we broke up a few months back for a few months and at that time i had gotten with this guy and regretfully had sex with him. now that im back with my boyfriend and hes forgiven me for what i did he now has this bump like sore thing on his penis. its not herpes, it like closes up when we havent done it in a while but when we do it it opens up and it hurts him. The other day it started bleeding while we were doing it and its never done that before. is it an STD? does it sound like anything you know of?
sounds like an STD. but i am not a doctor so go get him tested espically if ya don't use condoms

Q: Ok, I'm gonna have to talk in Kilograms, so sorry if it doesn't make much sense to some people here.

Well I'm 15/f and since Friday (it's Tuesday now) I've lost 4kg.
I haven't eaten much, but I don't feel hungry either...
So I'm wondering if it's dangerous to drop 4kg in like one weekend?
So that's what... 8.5 pounds or something?
( I used an online converter so I don't know.sorry)
if your really skinny, and half an eating disorder then ya thats bad.

but my twin sister is average and she drops weight like that all the time. and usually just gains it back. i dont know its weird.

everyone says its bad, but i dont think its not that big of a deal. because usually if you lose that weight that fast, you can gain it back really easily.

Q: The girls at my school that get the most attention have full bosies. Like, thick legs and fat asses. I am like a stick and I want to know how to gain weight like them. What do I eat and how much? My dad is skinny and he can eat whatever and not gain anything. I think im the same way? I know a lot of girls would find this lucky but I hate it. I want the bodies of girls you see on music videos with bow wow and chris brown! HELP
eat mcdonalds and sit on your ass all the time. i'm not even kidding

but seriously, those girls are probably whores and thats the only reason why those guys like em. inless ur like the size of a 4th grader different story. if you are anything less then 105 then yeah, gain some weight

if ya do, stay where ya areee.

Q: i have a boyfriend.(been going out for about a month).and we were good together, but now all of a sudden something doesnt feel right...just how he's been making comments about me and then is like just kidding just kidding, and the other day i got a message from one of his friends thats a girl, and it was like "we need to talk, its important" (i dont really know her) so now im worried..i dont wanna break up with him though because we're still good ..but its these small incidences and past experiences that tell me to keep my guard up.
dont know what im asking..but any help??
Thanks
i think you like in the process of breakin up. keep yo gouard up. & see what that bitch wants. tell him you don't like him makin fun of you.

Q: okay so ha, i went out with this guy last year and it didnt work out but we're still friends. we've gone out with other people since but basically i like him again and im pretty sure he likes me. he stares at me totally and completely, he doesnt even care that i see. he talks about me all the time and crap like that. and last week he brought up our former relationship to one of my friends.

so i have 2 questions: 1)he always talks about me like guy-talk or w/e. like "i wanna fuck her" and shit like that. and i cant tell if he actually likes me and thats the guy part coming out or if thats all he wants. b/c wen he was talking to my girlfriend, he told her if he had a gf he'd want it to be me, but then when he was talkin to my guy friend, he is all like "i dont wanna date her, i just wanna 'fuck' her" and "oh, she wants me so bad"

and 2) i sit w/ him every few days in class like when i feel like it as just friends and i dont know if i should continue or if i should just play hard to get...but when i sit with him and his guy friends talk about other girls, it kinda seems like he tries to purposely not too. and his friends give me looks and stuff...idk its just confusing, i want him to chase after me, but at the same time im afraid if i stop giving him any attention at all then he'll just be like "screw it" so yea..it would help getting some feedback from a guy. thanks!! :)
i think he still likes you. some guya say that shit to other guys to look cool. i think you should just ask him about it. juss be like oh ya do you ever still have feelings for me or somethin. seriously just tell him you like him or somethin. because its obvious, really obvious, he still has feelings for you.

Q: how exactly do you give a guy hand? like one or two hands? further details and tips would be much apreciated.
i like one hand. i've only had it done 4 times. and that was 8th grade ha ask him what he likes. all guys like different things, espically when it comes to that stuff.

Q: Alright, I wANT to date this kid we call him tj.
The only thing is i dont know how do get to know him better.
The only time i see him is in my MATH class.
i think we would be a couple cuz,we're both shy and im not that good looking and seeing his exes he has low standards. Really low standards.
sry didnt mean to be mean.
Well any advice would help
p.s just rembered he has lunch with me
find his myspace or sumtin or ask him for his screename guys dont usually care if you just flat out ask um. they like it actually

Q: Okay, I have two questions.
I just turned 14 on Valentine's Day. Happy Birthday to me, I know haha!
Anyway. My boyfriend just turned 16 on January 25.
Only a two year difference. That's not bad right?
Well how young is too young?
To go on a "date"?
My mother says it's a matter of responsibility and maturity.
Everyone I know goes out at 14.
Even if their parents drop and pick them upand such.
So is it okay for me?
And how can I prove I am responsible and old and mature enough to go on a "date" with T.J.? My stepmom has met him and he's a really nice, responsible, mature, and respectful young man.
He really is.
Ask my stepmom lol!
Any help is GREATLY appreciated!
I went out with this one chick and she was like 17 and im 15 and she seemed alot more mature then me she knew so much more shit then i do even though i thought i was responsible just make sure you know whatcha wanna do with him, how far youd go and shit 14 and 16 is usually a big difference

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