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Too Young?
Okay, I have two questions.
I just turned 14 on Valentine's Day. Happy Birthday to me, I know haha!
Anyway. My boyfriend just turned 16 on January 25.
Only a two year difference. That's not bad right?
Well how young is too young?
To go on a "date"?
My mother says it's a matter of responsibility and maturity.
Everyone I know goes out at 14.
Even if their parents drop and pick them upand such.
So is it okay for me?
And how can I prove I am responsible and old and mature enough to go on a "date" with T.J.? My stepmom has met him and he's a really nice, responsible, mature, and respectful young man.
He really is.
Ask my stepmom lol!
Any help is GREATLY appreciated!
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I went out with this one chick and she was like 17 and im 15 and she seemed alot more mature then me she knew so much more shit then i do even though i thought i was responsible just make sure you know whatcha wanna do with him, how far youd go and shit 14 and 16 is usually a big difference
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Two years isn't that big of a difference but I defenetly agree with your mom. If you can handle a relationship and go out on dates at 14, then do so. I don't think that you are too young to date or to have a boyfriend. Maturity is a big part of it and your boyfriend seems like a good guy. I don't see anything wrong with you two & good luck! :)
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when i was 14 years old, i was dating a 16 year old so i know EXACTLY how you feel..
my mom thought he was too old for me, but i didnt care.
she wouldnt let me hang out with him a lot, but i made us go on a 3 date to dinner so she could talk/get to know him a bit, and realize what a nice guy he was..
after that she had no problem whatsover with him!
i just turned 16 years old last month, and my boyfriend is turning 18 in march :) yes we're still together!
dont let the mom rule your relationship, but still respect what she wants, beacuse you never know, this could be the man of your dreams :D
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I would have to agree with your mom when it comes to the maturity thing. If you're mature and responsible then you're totally ready. And if you think you're ready to handle it, I'd sit down and talk with your parents/stepparents about it. That's the most mature way...and don't use the 'but all my friends do' thing that never works ;]
Good luck with dating!
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