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should i trust him? mainly for guys
ok well its sort of a long story...
first of all ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. we get along extremely well and ive never felt so comftrable around a guy like him. i truly love him and i'd give anything for him & he would too....he used 2 be a player but im pretty much his 1st girlfriend and i doubt that he would be playing with me if he introduced me 2 his whole family...right? the thing is lately we have been having problems..first on saturday i saw he had called his ex fu*k around his baby b0o & it got me sooo mmaadd...then on sunday i found out he gave his number to some other girl...he didint know i knew her but now he does and he said he didint wanna talk 2 her but she asked for his number....anyways 2day some profile [wich i believe is fake] on myspace sent me a message talking about watch out cuz he talking to steph [his x fu*k around] & he telling her he knows he fucked up but hes sorry and all this sh*t...i told him about everything and he says that he never said that but the typing seemed so much like he usually types;/ its driving me crazy not knowing if i should hold on 2 him because they may be haters or if i should let go and try and look 4 someone whos not full of drama but i cant i cant see myself with anybody else...i mean guys will be guys but what if theres more to that? what should i do?????
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once a player always a player
even if he changed for a bit hes back to his old ways i have a good friend hes like that, hes amazing, and hilarious but hes just always breakin girls hearts and he trys to change but he just loves girls too much and just hasnt found one that hes crazy about. sorry, but hes not worth it. find a guy who you can trust, theres plenty of em :]
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I can tell you right now that the guy is playing you. I was married to the king of players for nearly eight years and they all do and say the samething. It is hard to accept that someone you really do care about would do this, but it happens. His excuses are weak. They are good at trying to convince you that they are doing nothing wrong, and that it's the other women...don't buy into this. Listen to your instinct. What does your instinct tell you? If you feel is doing something dirty, then he IS doing something dirty. Don't fall victim to these types of men, because once you get burned, it is so hard to trust anyone else. And, believe me you don't want to sell yourself short of any happiness. You sound like an intelligent person, and you deserves someone who is going to treat you right. If he is not going to do it, then F*CK him, sweetie. Find someone who will. You will be much happier with a person that you don't have to worry about playing you for a fool, rather than sit around and wonder when or if he is going to cheat on you. Remind yourself that he is in YOUR world, and if he doesn't want to play by YOUR monongomous (and societies monogomous)rules, then tell him play on player...play on. You deserve better and you are worth more than how he is treating you. Put yourself first in this situation. Good luck. Let me know if you need any other helpful tell-tell signs that he is cheating. I will be glad to share them with you.
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I dont know if you should trust him or not cause i dont know much about his relationship, but trust me, once a player, always a player. you need to be careful though because if he hurts you real bad, you may lose the ability to ever trust a guy again.
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