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Question Posted Tuesday March 4 2008, 11:39 pm

well i like this guy and he likes me, and for these past few days at school, he acts like how he usually acts to me, and attempting to go near me which im confortable of. then maybe in like math class or whatever, its all different. Then on computer, hes nice again, then hes all of a sudden saying stuff that kinda of hurt me. So my emotions are practically a roller coaster ride. sometimes i feel like i want to break up with him, and half, not to. he hugged me once, and i wanted to hug back, but i always get too nervous. But what really bugs my is that my friend likes this other guy, but is always going close to my guy, and it really pisses me off. i ask her if she likes anyone but she says this other guys name. she always kinda tries to "steal" him away, by standing next to him. like if i was beside him, she would go slowly beside him. i dont ever want to whine or anything because i dont want to ruin our friendship. so all my emotions are all messed up now and i really dont know what to do. i dont know what to do with the my guy, and my friend. any advice would work. :) thanks. <3

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9BigBrat6 answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 7:49 pm:
the previous answer is right, and like a lot of the time guys will really like you but like be really wierd around thier frineds (you know the whole "i have no emotions" act)which is probably why sometimes he acts different. but there is a good chance he likes you.
and i think you should talk to your friend. i mean, if she knows you like him, a good friend wouldn't be flirting with him all of the time. she should go after the guy SHE supposedly likes. but guys tend to act different in a relationship...so if you really like him...id go for it.

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jessayy answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 9:11 am:
hey,

i think that this guy of yours is surely interested in you. alot of guys have a weird way of flirting and showing their feelings. I had a boyfriend just like that. and im sorry to say but most relationships kinda like yours dont work out for too long. if you are not happy with being with him because he acts mean and rude towards you then the best thing to do is to break up with him. you said that you wanted to before and i personally think that if someone even thinks about breaking up with someone then they should follow those instincts & and do it.

& your friend, ughh, i hate girls like that. but i mean she is your friend, and friends ALWAYS come before boyfriends. boyfriends come and leave but friends are there for you no matter what. So, what you need to do is to talk to her about it. Dont just ask her who she likes, just tell her how you feel when she does this to you and him. hes your boyfriend you should be standing next to him. and if your friend does not understand where you are coming from than when she stands next to him, you should hold his hand and make him laugh, you know like make her jealous ( no im kidding that would be mean ) the best way to handle this situation with her is to talk to her. she should understand if she is a true friend :)

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