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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}





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How do you know if you're pregnant two weeks after you've had sex? Are there any for sure symptoms?

take a test.

alot symtoms are like ( if your boobs hurt or feel swollen, running late on your period,etc)

the best way is to take a test or just go to the doctor.

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last night i gave my bf a bj and he said he liked it, but then he said he wanted to go farther and i said you will find out tomorrow....should i do it??? im 14 btw

i wouldnt do it.

your only young once and once you lost your V you cant get it back. save it for someone that actually means something. if you love them and they have respect for you, go for it. otherwise i'd keep it for as long as YOU can wait.

btw guys like it sometimes when you make them wait!

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im a teenage male.
i want sex, how do i get it.

dude whatever, sex is very enjoyable no matter feelings or not. just most people think that it is better when you have personal feelings for someone. And alot of people think that sex before marrage is wrong also. but hey thats old school. if you think that you are ready then go out there and have a good time.

you just need to get out of the house, meet new friends, depending on how old you are and how you look, you can usually just get it by running game. sweet talk, touchable kinda guy. that question is really hard to answer over the computer, but if it helps, ask an older brother, friend, etc. it isnt that hard. you just cant be shy.

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is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks!

yeah dude.
more power to ya. me and my boyfriend are almost five years apart.

its up to you if you feel comfortable with the age difference. just a number

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Okay I am 17 years old and i'm a female....I was dating this guy named Josh for about a month and a half...he is one of those guys that are easy to fall in love with...well he ended up cheating on me..so i moved on...So then, i met this guy named Daniel...well, he ended up being Josh's best friend....whoah i kno....now i'm starting to hear a bunch of rumors that Daniel is using me to get down my pants.....This has happened to me soo many times....like i've been cheated on ALOT... so i couldn't help but believe it..considering it came from one of Daniel's friends...i broke up with Daniel before asking him about it...we eventually talked about it....and he said its all a lie...we are back together now..but it's very weird..He thinks that i still want to be with Josh....which isn't the case...i don't know what i can say or do to prove to Daniel that i want to be with him...nothing i've said has worked...can u give me some advice as of what to do.

well i would recommeded that one of those times that you are hangin out with him. have him invite Josh over to hang out to. it might make you feel uncomfortable but if you gives Daniel all your attention and not give any to Josh. but dont like start makin out with him and beon lovey dovey because Daniel will know its all a front.

you just need to sit him down and tell him that, you dont wanna be with anyone but him. tell him that you are done with bein used and cheated on, && you want the real deal. if you wanted to be with someone like Josh, someone that cheats on you than you would have stayed with him.

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15 female.
so my discharge used to be just white and liquidy.
now its like gooey and almost like a booger. its pretty nasty. its still clear though. is this normal? there is still liquid but now its like both.

yes its normal

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my boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. he madeout with a girl when he was drunk and i forgave him.

a few monthes later he didnt call me one night and then he called the next night saying his phone charger was messed up and he was sick and fell asleep at six. that weekend i figured out he lied to me and was really drinking with 2 gay guys and two girls. i dont have a problem with gay people but this guy always flirts with my boyfriend.


should i give him another chance.?

yeah i agree.
the only way you would have to worry about the other guy is if your boyfriend is gay also. and making-out is just as bad as havin sex with someone else. i would not give them another chance. because once you forgive them the first time they will think "oh, well i got away with it the first time"

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( female/17/ has BF)
Hi well me and my Bf have gotten pritty far, their is gust one thing when were doing it he is the only one who gets off, i can't. Could it be that from masturbating too much that my endurance is too great and also he comes really fast not even 20 minutes is their anything to help him last longer? we've allready tryed squeezing right befor he comes then its like a gun.

If you got any advice of internet signts that could help please post them.

Also he want to try anal but i dont, out of curiosity is it good or is it not good for me?

hey
you could try to mess around (foreplay) before actually havin intercourse, sometimes that can work. And yes, it can be your endurance holding you back. i would not masterbait for a few days, and have sex than, that should work also.

and as far as him getting off to fast, there are a couple things that can help him from lettin lose before you get yours. such as:

1)when his strokes start to get faster, do something gentle, like lay his hand on your cheek and lay your hand on top of his.
2)change postions. it will interrupt and cool him down. It will also take more time for him to get used to the new angle.
3)Have him pull out and squeeze the tip of his penis with med. pressure for 3-4 seconds. It will bring the arousal down a bit. Make sure you warn him first.

And anal, you shouldnt do it as often as you have vaginal intercourse because it could give you boils (eww, i know) and when you have to go to the bathroom, its hard to hold it back. But if its something he wants, you should hold back his fantasy. But fair warning. it hurts badd. therefore i would recommend you start off with finger and work your way up to his size.


hope i helped

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i know this might sound ridiculous but i was wondering if there is an online library? you know like that you can rent books and have them mailed to you, and then you like mail them back when your done. i want to read the next book in the twilight series and theres no library nearby, the closest one is an hour away, and my mom wont drive me there.
so yeah if you know of anything, let me know (:

i dont think so. but i think they should make one though. Because i love to read. Next time you hit up the library or something you should pick up, The Kit Runner. love that book.


i know you can go to www.cheapbooks.com and find all kinds of books there really cheap. Or,

http://www.amazon.com/dp/0316024961?tag=cheapbooksc0d-20&camp=15309&creative=331469&linkCode=st1&creativeASIN=0316024961&adid=00A8FY1N7YH49N96G24Y

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i hate stretch marks. i have them on my waist and on my boobs. there so ugly and the ones on my waist are VERY noticeable! how can i get rid of them?

you cant really get rid of stretch marks. people make cream for this kind of stuff but personally i think its just a waste of money. But what does help more than anything would be cocoa butter. It doesnt take them away or anything, it just hides them.

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whats your way of getting whiteheads around your nose? lol

Purchase a comedone extractor (about $2) and magnifying mirror (about $5) from any drugstore such as Wal-Mart, CVS, Walgreens, etc.
Boil water in a pot (just enough water to cause steam!)
Put your face over the steam with a towel over your head for 4-8 minutes. Any length of time is up to you. Generally, four minutes is enough to open up all of your pores.
Sterilize the blackhead remover by soaking it in 91% isopropyl alcohol for 1 minute before using.
Use the comedone extractor loop on any side you choose, place it over your blackhead or whitehead and press down gently while looking into the magnifying mirror (this will help you see particularly small blackheads with ease). The blackhead will pop out of the loop!
For whiteheads, gently press down, then roll the loop over the whitehead, this helps to remove the whitehead completely.
After you successfully removed any/all blackheads or whiteheads, apply a small amount of alcohol to the affected areas to keep your pores free of bacteria.

hope i helped.


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I would like to get a head start on a vacation for spring break, any suggestions...no MTV Spring Blings or anything like that, it can be extreme fun like the spring bling but just no television shows or tv cast

Thankx ^_^

i would go to a beach place like:
virgina beach- were i went. gorgous
san clemente, california- not so crowded
long beach, california-heard was nice
san destin, florida-pretty white sand beach

or:
rome,italy- my dream
salt lake city
brownsville, texas

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okay when we had got together around the first days of school he was cool with his friends and didnt care if they knew..but then he got in a big fight with them and no longer talks to them and now hangs out with different people..he had a new girlfriend at another school but didnt want ne one to know...well he doesnt like my friends cause he thinks they are stuck up which they are they think they are the popular girls but...yeah neways...and he never really told me he didnt want people to know ...just not his ex friends and my friends I guess so he doesnt have ne thing to do with them...he always keeps to him self dosent let people use his phone and doesnt give out his phone number always calls private...IDk but what do you think about it if he doesnt want ne one to know we are together except his friends....

well this is getting a little confusing here. but lets see. so he wants his friends to know but not your friends?

if you messenge me or email me we can work this out step by step.


messyjessie0@yahoo.com - yahoo messenger & email

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me and this guy were together for like a day and a half I broke up with him cause we didnt talk much at school...well i continued to like him and now we might get back together 5 months later now that he has ended his 3 month relationship with his girlfriend and well he dosent want ne one to know we are together cause he is always to him self and dosent like my friends and well how do i keep him interested in me...I heard to play hard to get but IDK

hold up wait a minute......

ohkay if he dont like your friends and he wants to keep it a secret than i think that there could be something fishy around those edges.

dont play hard to get if you really like him, because than you might just give him the wrong idea and scare him off or something. JUST BE YOURSELF. its the best way to make a guy like YOU. just chillax and be friends for awhile. Most of the time thats what starts a good relationship. me and my boyfriend were friends for 2-3 months and we are still together going on a year.

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I get a boner eveeeeeeery time my girlfriend and I make out... Thats normal to any of you losers going eww... well anyway I'm feeling pretty hot when we french how do I make her hot and well.. How do I know when she wants me to do stuff to her...
I'm 14 and I am not a loser -.- I just need help from some girls..


Thx in advance.

i am not going to tell you that you shouldnt be exploring at your age because that is your decision and no one elses.

what i like is when my boyfriend starts to kiss my neck and behind my ears, it usually gets me going. Then he kinda just takes my hand leads it to what ever it is that he wants me to do. and then its onn. laugh out loud.

but the polite way to find out if she is ready is to have a civil conversation with her. and just let her know that it won't be an all the time thing and won't everything you are after (and it shouldnt be)


well i hope i helped ya lil buddy.

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Hey! I really need good help this time!
Lately i've been second guessing myself and im not too sure what to do. See, the guy i've been crushing on for about a year doesn't hang out with me much anymore...and i found out that a few months ago he liked me but only told his bestfriend and no-one is sure if he still likes me or not....but sometimes i feel like he's too good for me and stuff and i dont know what to do! i really wanna know if he likes me before summer and he leaves for highschool. but i truly dont want everyone knowing and making it really obvious or anything....help! help! help!
-celllyyyy

no one is too good for anyone.

you shouldnt determine if he likes you because you heard it through the "grapevine". The best way to make-sure that he has feelings for you is to ask HIM, YOURSELF.

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M'kay well I'm a Sims 2 nerd bomber
Haha
Anyway, I've got just about all the games
ALL their clothes are BORING after awhile am I right?
Well I download clothing off of thesims2.com
But I'm not good with brand names
Like can you list a WHOLE bunch of brand clothing where they have CUTE clothes that I can download for my Sims?
Like Forever 21?

I don't care HOW expensive the clothes are
I just need really cute new clothes for my teens

Thanks in advance
:]

wetseal, roxy, billabong, fox racing, hollister, areopostale, american eagle, victoria seceret, adidas, nike, arizona, buckle, gapl, etc.

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17/F

I am on my first day of Spring break, and I have to spend the next six days at my dads house. My dad lives over an hour away from where I live, which is also where all of my friends live. The city he lives in basically has nothing to do. All day from 6 in the morning until 5 in the evening I am at home by myself with nothing but a computer and a TV. None of my friends are able to drive out here, and my dad can't drive me anywhere because he works all the time. I'm seriously going to go crazy of boredom. Can I PLEASE get some ideas of things to do? I'm 17, so nothing kiddish. All I have is a TV and computer, so I'm pretty limited. Also some good websites for teen girls that are similar to gurl.com. Thank you. :)

1) give yourself a make-over.
2) read a book (i know)
3) chat online with friends.
3) find a new TV series that you never watch.
4) www.bored.com
5) www.cosmogirl.com or www.cosmopolitan.com

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14 Female
It's not that I don't shower because I DO! but I donno my "ness" smells.. and it itches and I saw this thing on a comercial for like Vagisil--- but I dont think I can just like go ot Walmart and buy it thats akward. I hoped it would go away on its own but its not its getting worse. And next quarter ill be taking Gym where you have to change and I dont want people noticing. I went from showering every other day to once maybe twice.
Also it doesnt look like pee but this stuff comes out and I think thats the smell...

i would go talk to your doctor about it. i mean if there is stuff coming out when you pee than that could be serious.

and if you want to go to wal-mart to buy Vagisil, it shouldn't be awkard that much. they have stuff like that out on the shelfs for a reason many people have to buy it. If it is something that is needed then dont be ashamed. Just think of it this way at least your not a guy that has to buy VERY SMALL condoms.

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What does it mean to give someone a head or something like that!??!?
Mmkay.. thanks!

to give someone head means to perform oral sexx (blowjob).

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