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Help me out plz girls =]
I get a boner eveeeeeeery time my girlfriend and I make out... Thats normal to any of you losers going eww... well anyway I'm feeling pretty hot when we french how do I make her hot and well.. How do I know when she wants me to do stuff to her...
I'm 14 and I am not a loser -.- I just need help from some girls..
Thx in advance.
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well.im 15/f.my boyfriend seems to have the same problem.my boyfriend wispers inmy ear exactly what he wants to do right then and there.i like it.trust me.just take it really slow.when she is ready she will let you know when she wants to go further.this method worked for me and my boyfriend.
try this- when you guys are kissing stop for a second and ask her "do you wanna go further?".be prepared for her ansewer.whether it is a yes or a no.ask her.keep asking her if she says i dont know.
if you guys do end up making it alot further remember to use protection.it may not be a full 100% efective,but it is still 99% efective.
hoped i helped.contact me if you have more questions.
=) 15/f
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take things slowly like feel under her shirt. if shes ok with that maybe feel under her pants. dont rush things and listen to everything she says. she may not be ready. and remember not being ready doesnt mean shes not into you or not enjoying it it just means shes not ready
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15/female
From someone with experience :).
For a start, making out and turning her on isn't all about kissing and stuff, make sure you do stuff with your hands. Don't be afraid to suggestively move your hands down or something - if she doesn't want you to she'll make it clear that she doesn't, but there's always the chance that she's secretly hoping you might. There's not many signs girls give out about that kind of thing because we get a bit embarassed about our own sexual needs but alot fo the time we could be thinking about it, or wanting to say something about it but not. Even if you do do it and she stops you, don't be too worried about persistence because the only way you'll get further is if you keep trying :).
Firstly, only do this however if you and your girlfriend are comfortable with it. If you do it all the time and you haven't been together for long and the trust between you two hasn't built up she could get worried that you're only in it for one thing - and trust me, girls think that alot, and it's not something they like unless they've planned the arrangement to be like that.
When girls are turned on I've heard the neck and shoulders get extra sensitive? Well, whatever, all girls love it when you kiss their neck and stuff. Who knows why :). I've also heard massaging and stuff for fun can be quite a turn on, and hey - that would get the top off?
It takes varying amounts of time but once the tops come off in a relationship, in my eyes, its on the road to everything else.
Just remember equally as much as girls can enjoy the sexual stuff knowing that you want to cuddle them and stuff as well is the easiest way to their hearts. You can try all the suggestions these people or I give you but at the same time you need to show your girlfriend and assure her that its not all about that which I'm sure it isn't.
That way, she'll be much more inclined to get turned on in the bedroom. Hahs :]
hope I helped, and good luck ;]
(PS. If it's any help, I've been with my boyfriend for 13 months and over now, and it took me a full ten months or so to let him touch anyway of mine that wasn't my chest. That was probably because he went completely the wrong way about it and is the type of person who makes stupid jokes in inappropriate place. God. DON'T make his mistake :). )
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i am not going to tell you that you shouldnt be exploring at your age because that is your decision and no one elses.
what i like is when my boyfriend starts to kiss my neck and behind my ears, it usually gets me going. Then he kinda just takes my hand leads it to what ever it is that he wants me to do. and then its onn. laugh out loud.
but the polite way to find out if she is ready is to have a civil conversation with her. and just let her know that it won't be an all the time thing and won't everything you are after (and it shouldnt be)
well i hope i helped ya lil buddy.
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Like I said before...
Discuss this issue with your girlfriend.
It is VERY important that you do so, because if something happens, and I think you know what I'm talking about, you need to be prepared.
First of all, think of all of the risks - mainly STD's, HIV/AID's and pregnancy.
All condoms are not created equal - they do not prevent against all types of STD's, like syphilis or gonorrhea. They are also misused over 60% of the time - that means that only 40% of the time they actually have an effect.
Birth control pills do not prevent STD's, you also can still get pregnant if you skip a pill.
If I were you, I wouldn't recommend having sex - it's torn people apart because they've had to start all over once they receive the "9-month surprise".
You need to discuss this matter before doing anything.
-Mariah-
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Wow. Ok I know you probably hear this alot but 14 is not an age you should be doing anything intimate(sex). Ok you shouldn't try to think of how you can get her 'hot' but instead how you can get her comfortable enough to a state where neither of you will have any kind of regrets. Instead of focussing on the physical stuff, take some time to focus on who she is on the inside. Trust me when you both open up completely to each other, whatever you do together will be 100% more satisfying.
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