Member Since: February 19, 2008
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Last Update: March 20, 2008
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how do i get my girl to have a threesome, we are real confortable with each other and everything but i am ready to go farther and i think she is too but idk how to get her to have it and i want it to be with one of her friends but idk how to do that either i am 16 in 10th and she is 16 in 9th i would like some help thanks and no one really has to answer this (link)
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if you are "real comfrotable" like you said you are then you should be able to ask her
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im a girl. when i shave "down there" i get the razor burn//bumps. how can i make it go away? (link)
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try using hair condisioner instead of shaving cream and use non scented lotion after you shave
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so i cant fit two fingers "down there" and i might hook up with this one guy. do guys automatically use two fingers or one? (link)
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if it is something you want him to do and you are ready for then try not to worry so much. i can understand it being an uncomforting thing to talk about so when he goes to put his hands down there simple say something like "go slow" and then if he is tryin to use more fingers than your comfortable with tell him to stop or it hurts or something along those lines and then say something like use less fingers or only one or something along those lines. everything will work out just fine. dont stress over it
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I get a boner eveeeeeeery time my girlfriend and I make out... Thats normal to any of you losers going eww... well anyway I'm feeling pretty hot when we french how do I make her hot and well.. How do I know when she wants me to do stuff to her...
I'm 14 and I am not a loser -.- I just need help from some girls..
Thx in advance. (link)
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take things slowly like feel under her shirt. if shes ok with that maybe feel under her pants. dont rush things and listen to everything she says. she may not be ready. and remember not being ready doesnt mean shes not into you or not enjoying it it just means shes not ready
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so i've never had a guy eat me out before and i've been dating this guy for about a year and i want him too but i'm afraid i'm going to smell down there.
how do i know if i smell?
and if i do, how do i change that?
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im sure your fine. and let me give you a little hint the boy is going to be too nervous to focus on your inperfections. he will probably be more worried than you
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OK! I'm going to rewrite this for any of you people assuming I only like her for sex -.-
No I do not but heres the qwestion..
I really really really like my girl friend and I know she really likes me.. Small problem -.- When ever we are making out I tend to well.. you know get a Cof Cof* boner Cof Cof* but Annnnyway the point is I know I love it when we make out and I know she likes making out but how do I know if she is well... (horney) Once again! I'm stating that im 14 -.- I dont want to have sex yet -.- So for any girls out the that feel like helping =] HAVE AT IT! :o (link)
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she wouldnt be doing it if she wasnt into it. im glad to hear that you recognize that you and possible her are not ready for sex. im a big believer on there is no right age to be doing it but you have to feel ready. thats very mature of you to be honry but realize you dont want to have sex yet. but when you are ready to cross that bridge and do anthing more than make out for example touching if she is wet she is horny. but until you and her are ready to do more than make out just realize if shes doing it shes into it.
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a week ago i had protected sex (but precum got in my vagina) and now i'm having a ton of cravings, can't stop eating, always tired, peeing every 2 seconds.
I just finished my period (the one that i had sex with) like 3 days ago so i can't be PMSing. Can signs of pregnancy show up this early? only a week after intercourse? (link)
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ok first off know that you can get pregnant on precum. second of all it doesnt sound like your pregnant so dont worry about it. the more you worry the later your period will be becasue its delayed by stress and then you will definately think you are pregnant. anyways, keep your mind off it. and as for your symptoms im sure its stress or just all in your head. actually, it could be a number of things. i think your fine this time but be more careful in the future
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well i am really scared, i am female 13 will be 14 in May. Me and my friend Tara over heard her brother talking about this party. So we decided to sneak out and go to it. Well Tara really freaked when she saw all the booze and stuff. So she left i stayed. I am not sure how i happen but 4 guys got me into a bed room. well i am not sure how but they all and sex with me. i dont know what to do (link)
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honestly you need to tell someone right away. tell an adult you trust. you might get into a little trouble for sneaking out or even drinking if you did but its far worse than trying to deal with this yourself. what these boys did was real bad and you need to talk to someone about it until everything is worked out. holding it in will only make you hurt more. plus not saying anything gives these boys the chance to do it to another girl. please get help
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were can u get like self waxing things for down there?
and will it hurt? what will it feel like? (link)
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i dont suggest that you wax down there. it will be painful. try shaving
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How old should you be to start going down on boys?
When I was 12, I had a friend with benefits. We did everything, besides have clothes off sex. But, after we did that. I regretted it big time, and i havent done anything like that for 2 years. But now, i love my boyfriend and he wants to, you know do some stuff.
so, did you think I should?
14/f (link)
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only you know the answer to that. you will know when your ready.
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Well I was in a relationship with this boy....i'll just say his name is bob. Anywayyss I thought everything was going great in our relationship but out of nowhere we're alone in my room and we get into this BIG argument that ends with him hitting me and raping me! Could it be that I did somethin wrong? (link)
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ABOLUTELY not! you can never do anything wrong to have someone hurt you or violate you in any way!!!! get help. even if it is jsut talking about it with someone you trust. dont keep this to yourself because it will ruin you. and stay away from that boy. if he did it once he will do it again. trust me!
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How do I know when I first get my period?? (link)
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you will know. you will mostlikely bleed on your underwear. your first period will be brownish though. keep that in mind.
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Hey, I'm 15/f and I have absolutely no libido. I've made out with people, but it didn't 'turn me on', and I've even tried masturbating, but nothing.
I'm pretty healthy at 5'7 130 pounds with muscle.
It's not much of a problem, but it makes getting into relationships awkward, because I have to explain that I "don't do sex", and my parents always give me lectures about sex, as well.
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you'll be ready when your ready. dont rush things. what makes you think you need to be having sex right now? and if your not being turned on its just not the right person or the right time. dont sweat over it. it will come into place
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i've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and we've been having sex for about 10 months. like the sex is good but i don't think i'm cumming during sex? and whats the difference between cumming by clit & gspot? how's an orgasm and cumming different? i feel good during sex, but just don't reach a climax... like ever. help me please!
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cumming for a girl isnt like cumming for a boy. so dont expect something what happens to your boyfriend to happen to you. a clit climax and a gspot one is just waht stimulates the climax. it may feel different but nothing different is going to happen. and as for not climaxin all the advice i can give you is relax. it might help. and use protection : )
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I smoke marijuana and cigarettes, and I'm about to get on birth control.
I know that smoking on birth control is bad, and it increases risks of heart attack, I'm 16 years old btw. I was just wondering does it change the effectiveness of birth control. Like will it not work as well if I smoke while I'm on it. (link)
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no but you should use alternative contraceptives in addition. use a condom. it could make all the difference
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I've always dealt with severe acne on my face, but my body has always been smooth and baby soft. All of a sudden I have a huge outbreak of body acne! It's horrible! On my arms, shoulders, back, and completely covering my chest.
Does anyone know
1. WHY this happened all of a sudden?
2. How I can get rid of it?
It's humiliating =( (link)
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dont be embarressed. everyone have their flaws. its completely normal that something like this happens as you get older. see a dermotologist if it bothers you. also there are certian kinds of soaps you can use to help it. and on a side note if you do any indoor tanning, know that it will help clear it up too.
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ok I've had depression since I was like 10ish, because I was like homeskooled till I was 14 and I never really got to go anywhere sicne I didnt have anyfriends since I never left the house because I was homeskooled so I only got to see my family and that just wasnt good because girls dont open themselves up and tlk to there parents about stuff they do that to friend s and I nver had any of those so I kept myslef bottled up and I go treally depressed for being alone allthe time. nad now im 15 and I've been going away to skool fo ra year now and im still depressed and my parents know I cu tmyself because of the scars and because I told em that I was because I was depressed bu tthey havnt dont anyting about it they say jsut pray and itll go away because thats what my grandpa did and his want away but praying doesnt work fo rme, it never has and my depression is just getting worse because highskool is just so much drama and I just don twant to live any more I just want to die so I don thave to live with this guilt and unhappiness anymroe. what do I do o convince my parents to get me antidepressants? (link)
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first of all, high school is amazingly hard. i was depressed for what felt like forever as well. when you get out of high school things will seem easier. secondly, nothing is worth taking your life. tell you parents, demand from them that you see a theropist. even if you dont think it helps it will. you need to talk to someone. if your parents wont or you cant wait see a school councilor. you absolutely need to start talking and getting some of this off your chest. you dont have to right off the bat ask for antidepressants becasue you may find that you dont even need them after you start talking. and secondly as hard as everything is try something new. join a sport. keep busy. just do something so youre not just sitting around. furthermore you have nothing to feel guilty about. trust me things will get better. nothing is worth taking your life. life is amazing and will always get better. hang in there
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i broke up with my boyfriend yesterady, we had only gone out for about 5 days though. i broke up with him because i didnt really like him that much, he acted so much different than when we were friends and i also liked this other boy, so i figured it wasnt right if i wasnt into the relationship. he kinda got mad at me, and told my friend he was really sad that i broke up with him. i told my friend maybe we could try it again once i was over the other guy, but i still feel rEALLy bad. what should i do? (link)
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dont feel bad about anything. dont play with peoples emotions either. if you dont like him be his friend. there should be no trying to like someone if you just dont. and you dont have to explain yourself to your friends its your feelings and it was your relationship
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I am 14 5'6 and weigh about 125 pounds
I think I am kinda, well fatt!
Everyone around me thinks I am really thinn
But when I put a bikini on, I look huge!
My ribs are very bigg, so when I stand there, my stomach looks huge
I also have a pouch where fats sits...like not a lot, but when I walk, it moves
So anyways...my BMI is a healthy weight
Well whats your opinion on how bigg should you be to not wear a bikini, like wheres the line to say "your much to big for a two-piece."
All advice is welcomed (link)
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i am sure you are beautiful. dont obsess over the way you look and dont try to to look like anyone else. no ones body is similar to someone else so theres no point in tryin. plus i hope u no that models and actresses n such are air brushed and what not. not everyone needs to be a stick. if we all think like that then the stigma about being a normal healthy weight will always be negative. just be happy with your body. be healthy. besides you are really tall and its sounds like you are under weight according to what you say. and ps if you can see your ribs then im sure you are NOT fat.
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Ok...I think I am depressed...and if I am...what is the way to go about it? I don't know how to tell people, my mom will make me go to therapy, and take medicine...and I don't want to! She has severe depression...because of an inbalance in her brain of seritonin (sp)....I just don't know how to tell my mom...or my friends...or a social worker I have befriended, and I trust her very muchh...and I don't want to tell her because if I do, then she will call my parents...and I want to tell them...so any suggestions?
All advice is welcomed (link)
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if you think you do then you need to talk to someone about it. and dont be afraid about going to therapy it might help. and taking medicine if thats somethin you dont wanna do you dont have to. its not up to your parents to make you take medicine its between you and your doctors or therapist. just talking to someone will really help. dont tell a friend because they cant get you the help you need. tell a trusted adult that you think you need to be talking to someone. you will feel so much better
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