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Rape?
Well I was in a relationship with this boy....i'll just say his name is bob. Anywayyss I thought everything was going great in our relationship but out of nowhere we're alone in my room and we get into this BIG argument that ends with him hitting me and raping me! Could it be that I did somethin wrong?
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how can girls honestly still be thinking these things are their fault. haven't you heard enough tv shows or speeches about this type of thing?! SERIOUSLY come on! ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!
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rape is never someones fault, and him argueing with you isn't your fault. Clearly that kid was a pyscho he lead you on made you weak made you think you liked him so much then hurt you, i dont want you thinking anything is your fault. he is a scum bag shouldn't even be walking to earth. this "bob" character should be ashamed of his actions.
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you did nothing wrong but i dont think that you should really be a relationship with someone who gets upset and rapes you thats just gross and not healthy at all. You dont need that.let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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ABOLUTELY not! you can never do anything wrong to have someone hurt you or violate you in any way!!!! get help. even if it is jsut talking about it with someone you trust. dont keep this to yourself because it will ruin you. and stay away from that boy. if he did it once he will do it again. trust me!
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No even if you did something wrong no matter how bad it was you didnt deserve that. You need to break up with him if he did it once he can do it again. Another thing you need to tell someone what he did to you.
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Yes you did something wrong! - what you did wrong was to think it was funny / ok to use something like rape in a question you made up for your own amusement. Some woman really have gone through the ordeal of a rape, maybe you should sit and have a chat with one of them.
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sweetie listen, you love him i understand that perfectly. i know how scary it is to picture not being with him but he should not EVER hit or rape you. that's not love. it would be hard but your best bet is to leave him, before he takes it a step to far [that's too far but yeah] it's just cause people care and idk know who you are! but i care an awful lot!
don't put up with it.
love doesn't hurt.
XoXo~
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ok well NEVER should a man or anyone hit you or touch you in any way never ever NEVER i cant stress that enough what you need to do it tell on him to the police talk to someone about it this is so not rite. you cant let this happen to you ever it doesnt matter if you were arguing about what pair of socks or who cheated on who ending up in that situation is never ok you did nothing wrong as far as im concerned but for real do something about what happend to you or it will come back to haunt you.
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The only thing you did wrong was
not calling the police and having
him thrown in jail.
No woman deserves to be hit or
raped by any man. Dating him or
not. Do not go out with this guy
again.
Edit...
I know you love him sweetie but don't
let him hurt or kill you because you do.
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. Love should
never hurt you like this. Be safe.
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