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whats a good age?
How old should you be to start going down on boys?
When I was 12, I had a friend with benefits. We did everything, besides have clothes off sex. But, after we did that. I regretted it big time, and i havent done anything like that for 2 years. But now, i love my boyfriend and he wants to, you know do some stuff.
so, did you think I should?
14/f
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gross. that. is. disgusting.
you were TWELVE! that's pretty much the definition of easy.
and an observstion: you rate low. the only way to get a 5 from you is to give you the answer you want to hear, isn't it? well this an advice site sweetie, where thousands of people will give their opinions to people who ask for it. you asked what age is acceptable to do stuff! PEOPLE GAVE YOU THEIR OPINIONS! dont write questions if you're only looking for a fluffed up nice answer.
you don't know what love is sweetie. you're 14. *gag*
oh and thanks in advance for the 1 =]
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You definitely NEED to wait until your at LEAST 18 shit your still a freshmen in highschool you still dont even know who you really are yet! also you even said yourself that you regret having a freind with benefits so you know that you werent ready then so its not reasonable that your ready now! Second of all if you end up getting pregnant do you think this boyfriend is gonna stick by you and help out? probably not so you need to wait until you find someone that loves you for you and doesnt pressure you for sex!
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only you know the answer to that. you will know when your ready.
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You know what, first thought in my head when I read this was SLOW DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please slow down and think. Get to know yourself. Your own body. Don't worry about what boys want because it's always the same (even when they get older!!!)...sex. So, get to know YOU and what YOU want other than just your sexual life. I see teenage girls OVER AND OVER AND OVER so so worried about what the boys want. Who cares!!! They'll get whatever they can take! And they don't always care so much who gives it to them which means they WILL use you. Don't think they won't. They'll tell you that you're "special", "lovely", "beautiful" and anything else if they think they'll get you to either have sex with them or give them a bj or whatever.
Trust me, I know.
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12? You are still a child. 14 is just as ridiculous. I believe AT LEAST 18, so you are mature enough to deal with real issues that may come up where you DONT need your parents to fix it.
Whenever I read stories of kids this young is makes me so sad and I am only 20. I don't understand where kids get off thinking this is okay and that guys will like them. Please preserve your innocence. Don't try to grow up too fast, there is enough time for that later. Please.
<3
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Honestly i dont think you should do stuff like that unless you actualy love him and you know for sure he loves you. But thats just my opinion. And i dont judge people who do it. I can see why you would regret doing stuff like that at 12, but i think everything happens for a reason. So really it's your decision but just make sure your not doing just because your boyfriend or anyone else is pressuring you to do it. Make sure your doing it because you want to do it and are ready to do it again.
Hope i helped at all
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you have to do what you think is right. if you didn't like it before then don't do it. but now your more muture and eventually your going to be doing stuff like this. so you are pretty young but if you really like this guy then maybe you should. the disicion is really up to you. however, i think that if he really cared about you he wouldn't mind waiting. so if you wanted to find out if he is just using you for pleasure then test him by telling him that your not ready and you'll come to him when you are and if he is understanding about it then take it. he may be the one that you won't regreat later. However, your not gonna marry the guy so if you wanna wait...do what ever is going to make you a better woman in the long run. if you really want to ... go for it! why not life is about taking risks. but you may want to wait until your even MORE muturee
good luck!
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18. Period. I can't believe you asked such a question, knowing adults are here and have children of their own.
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