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room for one more?
so i cant fit two fingers "down there" and i might hook up with this one guy. do guys automatically use two fingers or one?
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they use as many as they want and as many can fit up there
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okay sorry if this is too much detail, but i don't finger myself any, i only have like three times and i can only fit a finger. but my boyfriend has fingered me multiple times and the first time he used one but then while in the middle of it he used two.. but i still can only get one, haa its kinda weird. but many guys are different though, my guess is that they would atleast start out by using one. but i wouldn't worry too much about it.
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if it is something you want him to do and you are ready for then try not to worry so much. i can understand it being an uncomforting thing to talk about so when he goes to put his hands down there simple say something like "go slow" and then if he is tryin to use more fingers than your comfortable with tell him to stop or it hurts or something along those lines and then say something like use less fingers or only one or something along those lines. everything will work out just fine. dont stress over it
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Technically, you can fit two fingers, it just may be uncomfortable. This is natural. If you really want to do this you're going to have to deal with the pain at some point. However, if you really don't want him to use two fingers, tell him you prefer one before he starts. If you're not comfortable enough with him to tell him that then you probably shouldn't be doing it. Hope this helps.
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Honey if that's a problem to do that. DON"T DO IT!!! Because obviously your body is trying to tell it's not ready for that kind of connection. I know I know you may think your ready but if you try to force anything you could cause damage to yourself in more ways than one. Also if that's what he might do, he'll probably want to go the whole nine yards(sex is what most guys think about) and if you can't even fit two fingers 'down there' then imagine how he can have full sex with you! Also if you're thinking about sex then you should talk to a gynecologist to make sure everything is running smoothly 'down there'. But if you think you're ready make sure you're ready for anything that can come from having sex. Hope I helped!
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