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I am graduating this year in May and have decided i want to major in psychology. Not quite sure what i want to do with the degree though. Anyway, i have heard math is not a required class when you major in psychology. Is this true or does it really all depend on the college/university you attend? (link)
Well that's great that you chose that as your major but you should plan ahead of what you wh=ant to do with that. Do you plan to get a job as a psycologist or did you just pick it because you didn't have any real passion for a certain major? If you decide to become a psychologist then you'll need to be good at communication skills, writing, patience, and you may need math in case you have to prescribe medication. It's a very hard field to go into but it has a very rewarding outcome. You can go home at night knowing you've helped someone. It's good to learn as many skills as possible because this field is different everyday. SO I hope I helped and good luck!


ok so theres this guy in my 6th period english
class his name is dakota well lately me and dakota have been playing footsy and stuff and yesterday in class or legs accidently crossed each others and when he seen that he jumped up really fast and we just laugh about it i'm starting to like him but people say he's a loser
and last time we got close and stuff he started blowin me off.im afraid even if he does like me he won't ask me out because he's the quit type and has never had a girlfriend befor so can anyone please give me some advice because im really startig to like him again . thanks in advance . (link)
Honey if you like him and he seems to like you, go for it. But if you don't think he'll ask you out, be the first one toi make a move. If he says no, blow it off like that's ok and try to keep going on like before. But when you ask him out, to get rid of some pressure, ask him out as a friend. And if things go well, maybe you can go on a real date!


okay so there is this girl who ive had problems with for a long time and i used to have this great way opf dealing with her, everything she said i would laugh at i blew her off like she was a joke and it worked. it pissed her off like crazy and she never messed with me. but somehow this year i lost myself and i let he step on me again. now she treats me like im a joke and makes fun of me constantly and i don't know how to handle it.

i tried everything. i tried working it out, ignoring her, fighting, talking to the school, fight, going back to laughing at her, and just confronting her but she is impossible to get through to she makes it this huge drama with everyone involved. but i don't really know how to anymore. i did this over a 2 year span so i really did my best at all of those options

she's causing alot of stuff for me i don't know how to handle it! she will never stop i want to make it so she doesnt get to me anymore but i don;t know how. what do i do?

i know this sounds really immature and stupid, but im 17 and pretty mature for my age, im really passive and don't like to fight but this just gets to me alot. (link)
Oh man! That sounds alot like the situation I was in in school! Well one of the main reasons people are bullies is because they're bullied too. That's all they know. Now with that in mind, try to show her that what she says or does doesn't effect you. If she puts her hands on you however, you need to get that taken care of by the school or the police. But when she acts like that around you just act like you didn't hear her or just pretend what she just said was so stupid and immature. That's how I solved the bully problem in school for me. Hope it works for you!


f/16

I'm almost sure I'm starting to get stretch marks on my inner arms and I don't know what to do. I already have them on my legs...so getting them on my arms is like the last straw.

I feel so frantic and I want to use lotion and stuff on them but I'm not sure if it would even help since they're starting to come in. You can barely see them unless you really look...but I don't know that theres anything I can do at this point.

I know lotion helps the elasticity, but is it too late? I'm really scared. I know its just vanity, but I feel like I should be allowed to have a couple unscarred parts of my body. I'm not even overweight x.x

Pleaaase please help. My mom is being so useless about this.

Thank you (link)
Oh honey I have the same problem. Stretch marks signal quick growth on parts of your body. I know they are not a pretty sight. But stretch mark lotion does help and also exercising to help keep your body in good shape. But let me just break the news to you, this will only fade them. Once you get stretch marks they won't completely go away. But when they fade you won't barely be able to see them even when you look closely. So don't worry, you shouldn't be worried about it too much. Hope I helped!


so i cant fit two fingers "down there" and i might hook up with this one guy. do guys automatically use two fingers or one? (link)
Honey if that's a problem to do that. DON"T DO IT!!! Because obviously your body is trying to tell it's not ready for that kind of connection. I know I know you may think your ready but if you try to force anything you could cause damage to yourself in more ways than one. Also if that's what he might do, he'll probably want to go the whole nine yards(sex is what most guys think about) and if you can't even fit two fingers 'down there' then imagine how he can have full sex with you! Also if you're thinking about sex then you should talk to a gynecologist to make sure everything is running smoothly 'down there'. But if you think you're ready make sure you're ready for anything that can come from having sex. Hope I helped!


I get a boner eveeeeeeery time my girlfriend and I make out... Thats normal to any of you losers going eww... well anyway I'm feeling pretty hot when we french how do I make her hot and well.. How do I know when she wants me to do stuff to her...
I'm 14 and I am not a loser -.- I just need help from some girls..


Thx in advance. (link)
Wow. Ok I know you probably hear this alot but 14 is not an age you should be doing anything intimate(sex). Ok you shouldn't try to think of how you can get her 'hot' but instead how you can get her comfortable enough to a state where neither of you will have any kind of regrets. Instead of focussing on the physical stuff, take some time to focus on who she is on the inside. Trust me when you both open up completely to each other, whatever you do together will be 100% more satisfying.


My boyfriend is on restriction for 5 weeks. Thats not that bad but he will call me on sunday and be like " I miss you I want to see you at school monday" and then he turns around and ignores me at school. Then he will be like "whats wrong" well duh im all alone you big idiot. So please what should I do? (link)
Wow that is pretty messed up. But what you should do is confront him about the problem and tell him how you feel about his actions. If he really cares for you, he'll try to work it out.
Maybe he's going through some things that are stressing him or maybe he's just in a bad mood. Either way you have a right to know.




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