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No Libido?
Hey, I'm 15/f and I have absolutely no libido. I've made out with people, but it didn't 'turn me on', and I've even tried masturbating, but nothing.
I'm pretty healthy at 5'7 130 pounds with muscle.
It's not much of a problem, but it makes getting into relationships awkward, because I have to explain that I "don't do sex", and my parents always give me lectures about sex, as well.
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you'll be ready when your ready. dont rush things. what makes you think you need to be having sex right now? and if your not being turned on its just not the right person or the right time. dont sweat over it. it will come into place
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To be honest with you, you probably just didn't have chemistry with the people you've made out with. Even if they're the hottest kissers ever, sometimes there is just nothing there regardless. You don't have to explain that you "don't do sex" because that is probably not true! Maybe you just need to explore your sexual life a bit more until you find out what turns you on! Try putting on music next time you're with someone. Might put you in the mood. ;)
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it's impossible to have NO libido. especially being 15..your hormones are going crazy..sounds like the problem is that you jsut need to get in touch with your sexual side and you probably weren't attracted to the people you made out with, which makes it just "eh". but trust me..once you meet someone you are attracted to/have feelings for..youll realize how easy it is to get turned on..confidence also plays a part in being sexual because if you feel good about your body youre more likely to be able to make yourself feel good and get turned on. so just remind yourself everyday that youre a WOMAN (haha) who has the power to turn on any guy and just feel good about yourself and trust me..once you meet the right person your libido will definetly be going crazy.
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