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not sure what to do please help
well i am really scared, i am female 13 will be 14 in May. Me and my friend Tara over heard her brother talking about this party. So we decided to sneak out and go to it. Well Tara really freaked when she saw all the booze and stuff. So she left i stayed. I am not sure how i happen but 4 guys got me into a bed room. well i am not sure how but they all and sex with me. i dont know what to do
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you should defenitlly tell someone about it beccause if u said no then they did something they shouldnt have. Hope I helped
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You need to try and remember if you agreed to it. Ask these questions, Were you intoxicated? Did you give consent? If you remember saying no then you really need to tell someone, because that is rape sweetie.
You also need to get tested for an STD and maybe also get a pregnancy test. And you really need to be more careful about going to these parties especailly since you are younger. Older guys can be very convincing to a girl your age.
Im very sorry this happened to you, hope everything goes well.
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Oh my goodness.. I am very sorry...
Were you intoxicated? It doesn't matter if you were or not, what matters is that these boys took advantage of you and possibly raped you (if you said No and it was not consensual sex). Do you have any idea who they are? What you need to do is tell an adult RIGHT AWAY.
You can (and SHOULD) get tested at a Planned Parenthood. You could be pregnant, have an STD, or even both.. The good thing about planned parenthood is that, since you are a minor, all of the services are free (pregnancy tests, STD tests) and they will NOT tell your parents. Have a friend go with you for support.
Good luck and I really hope you tell an adult (parent, counselor, a teacher you are close with, older siblings or cousins, anyone!!)
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honestly you need to tell someone right away. tell an adult you trust. you might get into a little trouble for sneaking out or even drinking if you did but its far worse than trying to deal with this yourself. what these boys did was real bad and you need to talk to someone about it until everything is worked out. holding it in will only make you hurt more. plus not saying anything gives these boys the chance to do it to another girl. please get help
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WoW omq.. do u at least know if they put on a condom?? where you drinking or anything? if you think they didnt wear condoms then i suggest you go to a clinic and get tested... its always g0od to be on the safe side. i hope i helped and god luck
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