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Ok well i am 14 and a girl
My "father" moved in with us 3 years ago when we were living with a family member
From the 1st sec i hated him
When he got to the house he started telling us what to do and being mean
A year after that my "mom" and "dad" bought a house without telling me or my brother which we all decided they would tell us
They bought a crap house where the air conditioning was bad, a big oil pipe in the backyard, and old wooden floor. (THERE WE BETTER HOUSES BUT "HE" WANTED THE WORST ONE))
Next he yells a lot and i am a person that would say "the hell would help you" when i get yelled at
So he would always get mad instead of listening to my mom (she is sweet and i love her will all my heart but i really do think that she is complete retard) about getting a moving van to move he made my older brother do all the work of moving and "he" would call my bro a retsrd and that he could not do anything right while he just stood there
He took 20 round trips with my brother and my mom had to buy the gas
Then we got a bunny and he took my bunny outside (a cage with pipes as walls)
PS i am an animal lover and future vet!
I told "him" not to and that he would run away
we i came back from dinner my bunny was gone
But like always he would do whatever the hell he wanted (all in 1 1/2 years)

List of "him"

-anger problems
-bought old crap to call furniture instead of my cousin new couches that she offered to give us
- Curses all the time (before he came into our lives we would never curse at all but then they started)
- called the puppy we got mine when he punishes her and he chooses everything
-he yells at my mom and she takes it (she is a retard like i said)
- he tease me because in am shorted then normal
-calls my mom names
-keeps on saying that "then i will got back" whenever my mom got mad at him
-he has no job and does nothing around the house

About me

- I hate cleaning i get allergies
-i can't wash dishes because i would get a cold
-i have a lot of homework and projects to help me mom cook
-i love new things so my mom buys some like every 5 months

oh yeah also i had 2 surgeries and the first time we had to stay in a hotel after he stole the remote, changed what i was watching to some movie with cow crap in it and i get sick with that)
Cause of that i slept on the floor a few hours after my surgery

I asked my mom so many times to divorce him cause in all we all hate him even his own siblings

Well there is WHOLE lot more of thing he did that i hate him for

1.what i am asking is am i right for hating him so d**** much
2.should my mom divorce him?
3.would you hate him

THANK YOU FOR READING AND SORRY FOR THE LONG DETAILS
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE JUST EMIL ME :D

also he is my real dad we can my mom, brother, and i came here 8 years ago
3 years ago "he" got his greencard

and i have been trying to cope with him but they alway end up bad the last time this happened:

my brother, dad and i went shopping for fish (during the move i lost "erick" my 4 year old betta fish that i loved with all my heart i kept his tank" "he wanted to use my erick's tank for his new cheap fish (all the fish that went into that tank after erick died. that tanks) the tank ment the world to me because it was the every last time that i was happy for real cause when we got to the new house my other 8 year old dog died by getting hit by a car-he was the only one that went out that morning
ok well he started screaming cause i would not let him use it and i told him from the begining
he yelled at me for 10 mins and when my mom came in he yelled at her to saying how "you don't teach your childern anything" well to make it short he yelled at me to take it out of the living room if i would no use it and i cried for the whole evening (i am very sensetive when people are mean to me especilly about my pets)
my mom had to bring me food first before she went to work because i would not go down stairs

"- I hate cleaning i get allergies
-i can't wash dishes because i would get a cold
-i have a lot of homework and projects to help me mom cook
-i love new things so my mom buys some like every 5 months"

Seriously? And you wonder why your dad yells at you all of the time. Grow up and stop complaining. Help your parents out, maybe? Get a job? The list of possibilities are endless.

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Hi there,

I was just curious if you could tell me what happened to velociteen? It is just dumping into the hosting account's main directory. Should I take the link down?

Thank you,

DN.

Yes, please, someone hacked onto my website a few weeks back...Lost everything. Can you please change the velociteen site URL to www.flowersitters.com? That's my new site.

Thanks

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I'm 19/f and I've been trained in classical and jazz voice for about a year, but I was wondering about pop voice. In classical, they teach you to use head voice on high notes, mixed head and chest on middle notes, and chest on really low notes. In pop singing, do singers who"belt" like Kelly Clarkson, Mariah Carey, etc. use completely chest voice? because I feel like when I try to sing a pop song with any head voice, it sounds very operatic and doesn't have that pop-like belting quality that everyone admires when these famous pop singers perform. My voice is on the deep, heavy side for a female. Could this be the reason? Does belting mean completely using chest? And also, classical training teaches that your voice should never feel like it's "locked" in the throat. Is this true too for pop, because when I use chest on higher notes, it's in the throat. Any help would be appreciated!! thanks!!

I am a singer, as well - mostly classical, but I'm trying to veer off into the land of pop music.

First of all, regardless of the genre, you never want to sing from your throat when you're trying to develop vibrato. When you're practicing a song, place your hand on your throat whilst doing vibrato, and check if your throat moves or not. The vibrato should be created via your chest, not your throat. However, when singing pop music, you must suppress your vibrato a bit.

When singing higher notes, this works especially well with pop music, too, smile extra high and extend your nostrils as the notes get higher and higher. This helps make it easier to sing them, and makes them more clear.

Here are some more helpful tips: http://www.wikihow.com/Switch-From-Singing-Classical-Music-to-Pop

and http://www.wikihow.com/Discussion:Switch-From-Singing-Classical-Music-to-Pop

-Mariah

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So obviously The Notebook is one of the greatest movies ever made (and book). I've seen it enough times to know every line and I it never fails to make me cry just a little.

Any other amazingly good romances like this one? I don't really like old movies though.

I would recommend Big Fish, if you're into Tim Burton movies. It's a story about a son trying to learn more about his dying father by reliving stories and myths his father told him about himself.

It's very sad, yet it's also funny, and it has lots of meaning.

There's a small love story entwined in the plot, too. That part is sad as well, if I remember correct.

It's a very, very good movie, though, and I highly recommend it.

EDIT: I also recommend Paris, je t'aime. More info here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0401711/

It's basically a compilation of love stories told in different perspectives by 18 different famous directors from around the world.

It's funny, sad, and adventurous, and I highly recommend it.

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is there a website that you can go on thats free that you upload a photo of yourself and get like different hairstyles and swap them with your own hair to see what it might look like if you got a haircut like that and im not bothering to pay anything cause its just a thing too see how i would look
so one thats free please
thanks

Here you are. :)

http://www.dailymakeover.com/
http://beauty.ivillage.com/0,,9jlxfdd5,00.html
http://www.taaz.com/
http://www.humanhairstyler.com/
http://www.girl.com.au/free-virtual-makeover.htm

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okay so me and my boyfriend are like straight up in love :) we've been together for like 3 years and we're only 16. well I'm 16 and he's 17. I haven't plan on loosing my virginity to him but now I feel that I'm ready but I'm just so scared. if we use a condom, what are the chances it might break or pop?

I rarely condone teen sex.

This is not because I'm all for sex after marriage (I'm actually not for waiting till you get married to have sex), but because you ALWAYS want to make sure you're 100% ready to have sex.

You want to make sure you know about all of the risks and how to prevent them, and I must applaud you for coming on here to do just that before finding out first-hand that there are lots of risks and dangers involved.

NEVER use two condoms at a time since it seems like you're actually protecting yourself to a higher degree. If you use more than one condom, the chances of said condoms breaking are actually greatly increased.

The guy should hold the condom while he is "withdrawing," or it will slip off, which greatly increases the chance of pregnancy.

Use brand spankin' new condoms - don't leave them in your car, or in the drawer in your desk for a year. They will become defective.

When used correctly, condoms have a 97% to 99% success guarantee.

Here's a study done recently: http://alanguttmacherinstitute.org/pubs/journals/3205200.html

According to the Alangutt Macher Institute, "Participants' diaries recorded 34,036 instances of vaginal intercourse; latex condoms were used in 64% of the encounters, and in 33% of those cases, women also reported use of a spermicide. In all, 2% of condoms broke during intercourse, and 1% slipped (the study did not differentiate between partial and complete slippage). Other problems with condoms (e.g., they were not used throughout intercourse) occurred in fewer than 1% of acts of intercourse. Rates of breakage and slippage varied according to factors measured both at baseline (e.g., women's race, parity and education) and within the follow-up period (e.g., previous condom failure, type of partner and use of spermicide)."


All in all, there is a very slim chance your condom will end up breaking, however, make sure you're on birth control just in case...

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What exactly is driving school ? When do you go for it ? And how old could you be to do it? Also do they schedual your appointment to get your liscense or no?

Here is a helpful website I found that may answer your questions. :)

http://www.dmv.org/traffic-schools.php

At the site, you can choose the state you live in, and learn more about the age restrictions, laws, etc.

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Okay, I really want to get money for stuff my parents won't get me. I'm only 12 gonna be 13 in October. I really want money!! Do you have any suggetions on jobs i can do at my age?? PLEASE!!! Oh, and how old do i have to be to be a babysittier??Would you hire me???

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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What should I bring to a babysitting job and what should I wear?

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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Hi i have babysat these 2 kids and recently i have been asked to help out at a small party to celebrate their grandparents anniversary..... There will be 6 or 7 kids there between the ages of 1 and 6.... I have like pin the tail on the donkey and a big balloon they can play with but what else can i do to entertain them.....

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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Ok, sooo I babysit two little girls and they are 8 and 9 years old. I'm 14 and they always ask me to bring something fun for them to do. And I don't have things they would like anymore considering I'm 14 !!! Then I always ask them what the wanna do, and they say idk, or ugh I'm sooo bored!!!!


So, any tips on what I can do with them or bring for them to play with????

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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So I took a course on babysitting/kidsitting. I talked to multiple people in my neighborhood about it. Most of them said that if I took it they would hire me. So I took the course but now that I have the certificate nobody will hire me. I am afraid to put up flyers because I heard about how some people call the numbers and pretend they have kids to babysit but then they are like perverts and end up like kidnapping they babysitters. I want a job but noone will hire me. What is a good but safe way to get the word out that I'm certified and avalible to work?

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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Ok, so I am trying EVERYTHING! I do mean everything to calm this little boy that I babysit down! He is 3 years old and autistic! I have never heard a boy scream so loud! Well anyways, do you have any tips to calm him down??? Thanks! By the way, I babysit him every day of the week except Sundays from 12:00 noon to 7:30pm! Help!

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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me and my cousin babysit my brothers 2 year old daughter quite often. he offered to start paying us recently. he asked us how much we wanted to be payed and we told him $20 a week for each of us. we got payed last friday but we didnt get payed this friday. he told us he would pay us every friday. i depend on this money because at the moment i dont have a job, but yes i am looking for one. it just irritates me that he hasnt paid us yet. i dont know if i should say anything to him because i dont want to get in trouble by my mom. can somebody help me figure out what to do?. thanks for you help

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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i work at a daycare and i need some ideas of some stuff we can do with the kids like crafts and games and things like that any ideas anything will help any websites or anything

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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Hi I Am 13 Years Of Age And 14 In July, I Need A Weekly Job! In Slough Especially In Britwell! I Am Willing To Baby Sit Every Week... Do A Paper Round... Or Even House Work... If You Have Any Awnsers Or Segestions PLease Help... I Need A Job To Save Up For A Bus To School Everyday So Please Help me Thanks x

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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Hey i babysit 1 infant baby and she crys ALL THE TIME !! its a pain.. ive tried everything.. i feds her her bottle gave her a nap, Changed her diaper.. changed her clothes took her out for some fresh air let her crawl around. WUT MORE COULD I DO!!?? Please helppp!
Signed,
wut do i do!?

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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I'm trying to find a babysitting job but I don't really have any expirience with young children. I got a response to babysit a 2 year old boy from 9-5 3 days a week and I don't even know how to take care of a 2 year old! Do they need changed? Do they eat normal food? Do they talk? Please give me tips so I don't sound stupid asking the mother questions like that.

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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i work at a day care with 3,4, and 5 year olds and i have a 3 year old who likes to spit and everything we have tried backfires also she acts out a lot throws a ton of tantrums and agrees to everything even if u say she will go to time out or go up front or something like that cause her mom works there so she thinks she will get to see her but the spitting just needs to stop but we dont know how. any ideas

I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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I'm looking to make some extra money and I have noticed that there are lots of toddlers in my neighborhood. I am going to take a babysitting class where I learn the heimlich maneuver, etc.

Other information:
I am in 10th grade. (Straight A student!..but that probably doesnt help)
16 years old and a girl.
We live in a middle class neighborhood

How much should I charge? I was thinking 8 dollars per hour, + 2 dollars per hour with any amount of friends over. Is that too much?


I suggest the website called The Sitter's Weekly.

It's a free online guide to babysitting - includes advertising advice, babysitting rates, flyer ideas, how to handle the children, etc.

It's located at http://sitterweekly.velociteen.com

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