My name is Rachel and I like giving advice. I'm a really crazy, loud, random person but i guess i give really good advice or so i've been told. I was just bored searching things on google and i found this site and i think its pretty cool cuz i like giving advice but i don't wanna be a psychologist or anything. I know I'm pretty young but that doesn't mean anything. I may be only 14, but i can at least try to help. I super loud and crazy n random n fun and funny n whooo!!!! But yea if you need advice on anything, ANYTHING, just at least ask, if you don't like my answer thats ok it's not like i know everthing i won't take it personally i just feel i'm pretty good at giving advice so don't be afraid to ask or email me if you want i guess.
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DepthofHeart
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Ok so i like this guy and we dated a while back and he broke up with me after four days but said he still liked me. And now he always tells me he loves me and kisses me when ever we hang. I dont know if i should keep being friends with him or stop talking to him?? help me please!!
Brittany (link)
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Well since you like him, you should talk to him about it. ask him how he feels about you. if he says he wants to be with you, go for it. if he says he likes you and he's always kissing you but doesn't want to be your bf, he might just be using you because he wants some action. unless you're okay with you and him hooking up. if he says he doesn't like you but keeps kissing you but you're not comfortable with just hooking up with him, tell him you're looking for a relationship and that this bothers you. basically, you need to talk to him.
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hi there...
okay theres this guy right.
we have "hooked up" before. (did not have sex)
he moved away.. but has now moved back..
has lived here for a couple months..
he has a girlfriend..
calls ME every night. we talk for like 2 or 3 hours every night.
he complains about his girlfriend sometimes...
always talks about the night we hooked up
tells me to send him a picture..
and soo on..
is he just wanting to stay friends or what??
i am sorta confused on what he wants...
advice is greaty appreciated...
thanks...
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well he's obviously into you. he complains about his gf to you, he talks about when you guys hooked up, and he talks to you for about 2-3 hours EVERY NIGHT! he is so into you, but maybe feels you've moved on since he moved away. You should talk to him about it. He might feel shy telling you his feelings just tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't feel the same way tell him you're ok just being friends, but i highly doubt he only wants to be friends. Guys are really hard to read and if he hasn't told you he's into you then he's not likely to to tell you anytime soon, so you have to make the move, trust me go for it! what have you got to lose?
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I'm making a CD for my boyfriend before I go to college. What are some good missing you songs, i love you songs, and leaving (going off to college) songs? Thanks! (link)
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Here in your arms - hellogoodbye
I don't want to miss a thing- aerosmith
those are only two songs but they're really good songs to express how you feel about a guy if you really care about him
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sorry if this gets long, but i appreciate anyone who anwsers.
in the last two days i've lost over like seriously 5 friends. one of which imed me and told me about 5 people who think im a slut! one of which i like. but just met that day. because i typed that i cut myself.
im crying nonstop all the time, i hate who i am. ive been having suicide thoughts nonstop. im emotionally dead basically, and im hurting myself physically. i cant ask anyone for help, ill just scare them away /=
i used to be like this on and off, usually on, since 5th grade, i dont want pain anymore. i told everyone not to talk to me, im going to delete my myspace account.
one girl imed me telling me i have to give up a friendship for a while because of this kids girlfriend needing help, when i need it just as much. i feel like im a sob story. but im dead serious. i need help from anyone! (link)
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i think its normal 2 feel this way u gotta just hang in there!
it might be really really hard to do that but all these things are natural, you're just letting them get to your head
how old are you by the way?
anyway if you've lost these 5 friends in such little time, then they weren't your true friends. if they really cared they would have hung in there for you and helped you as much as they could have in your time of need. and i get into fights with my mom all the time about the stupidest things ever! trust me you're not alone. you should really talk to her about these things that you're feeling, it could really help. and if your uncomfortable talking to her, ask if you can talk to a therapist. just try asking. if she won't let you see a therapist try talking to your guidance counselor, that is if your in school, i dont know how old you are so yea. if you feel fat and ugly, don't, because you're not, i guaruntee it. you just have to make yourself believe your not give yourself a compliment evryday, eventually you'll believe it for real! just don't give up. if you want to talk more u can just post and i'll help if you want i'm pretty bored so i have a lot of free time and i give really good advice +D or so i've been told
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